Shadowstar38 said:
The answer is neither. You shouldn't make assumptions about reality based on what you're seeing until you verify it.
You live in the most complicated and information saturated society in history. You will make assumptions about dozens of things each day without "verifying" them, and if you do try to verify them, all you're going to do is go on wikipedia and read
more media about the thing you're trying to verify, and none of the information which you are receiving will help you to develop what is really required in this situation, which is an emotional response of empathy for the victims.
The only media you could possibly find which might trigger that empathy in someone is to find images, videos or testimonies of real war crimes, or of real civilian victims of white phosphorous, and I wouldn't recommend any person (especially a child, because a significant proportion of COD players are children) expose themselves to that kind of real horror. If we are putting ourselves in a situation where that is the only means of countering or correcting the media messages we are recieving, then I think that says something pretty damning.
Hawki said:
Multiplayer would actually have to resemble reality in some way for that to happen.
Again, multiplayer does resemble reality in many, many ways. The fact that it doesn't resemble reality in a few key ways you think are the most "important" doesn't mean it doesn't resemble reality. I could go on a huge fucking rant about the ways real military forces have sought to cultivate or benefit from the modern military shooter genre for propaganda purposes. But, suffice to say, we're at the point where real armed forces are hosting LAN events and creating esports teams, because while what happens in these games is a fantasy, it is also teaching real lessons and cultivating real emotions which are exploitable by the real military.
Since most of us have never been in a real war, almost none of our perception of real warfare is reality.
Heck, it goes even further than that. When Mark Bowden was researching Black Hawk Down, he discovered a very common experience among the veterans he was interviewing. They talked about the experience of feeling disconnected from the things they were seeing, a feeling which they frequently described as like watching or being in a movie.
This experience of feeling that what is going on around you isn't actually real is a psychological process called derealization which is incredibly common in combat situations. It's something the mind does to help protect people who are undergoing extreme stress, because it means they don't have to emotionally process the real, horrible things they're seeing or experiencing. What's interesting about it though is how the experience was shaped by people's experiences of cinema. During the 2001 invasion of Afghanistan, and later the 2003 invasion of Iraq, people still described the experience of derealization, but now they were much more likely to describe it as like a video game.
You can pretend it's completely separate, that what happens in a video games is a fantasy and that everyone is instantly aware of the fantastical elements, but that's very clearly not true. Games play such a huge role in creating our understanding of real military situations, that real people who have lived through real, life and death combat situations routinely describe their experiences in terms of video games. The fact that video games include fantastical elements does not mean that there are not very realistic things in there.
Hawki said:
If the person has any modicum of intelligence, no. Or, if they're really that young that somehow a videogame is their first introduction to real-world weapons, then they shouldn't be playing it, which is something that lies in the domain of parents.
Video games were my introduction to real world weapons, and I was born in the 80s. Expecting that to change is naive. Expecting video games and the emotional experiences they create not to influence people is naive. Expecting people to have an intuitive understanding of real military situations which they are ultimately exposed to only through media is bizarre.