I'm not going to take up much time or space to explain my opinion on the matter. I signed up only to give this one post.
From a relatively neutral position (18 years old, male, straight but with many bi and gay friends), my personal opinion of the LGBT community and those who support it in the United States has taken a hit because of this, and I definitely have a lower opinion of them than before. I do not believe that this is a fair and just action to have come to somebody who, like it or not, had an opinion. From the first time I encountered this story, I had the impression that this was essentially society punishing somebody for thoughtcrime. This is especially bothering to me, because this isn't something that was, at the time, considered backwards and worthy of punishment. Because we hold a different moral code to those who came before us, should they be punished for having their beliefs, due to the fact that those beliefs are not currently in the main? No.
In a couple of years, it is entirely plausible that the shoe will be back on the other foot. That LGBTs and their supporters will be in the minority, and someone in a high position of power will donate to a cause of "maintain the definition of marriage to include gays". And if they were to be fired from their job, the entire LGBT community would be up in arms. I definitely would be. Especially if they were fired due to a huge public reaction that was disproportionate to the issue at hand. People wanted him gone, for not sharing this belief. This can be seen from this quote from washingtonexaminer.com
"CEO Brendan Eich should make an unequivocal statement of support for marriage equality," a Credoaction petition signed by almost 75,000 people said, per The Inquirer. "If he cannot, he should resign. And if he will not, the board should fire him immediately."
http://www.wired.com/2014/04/brendan-eichs-downfall/?_ga=1.139962483.1186306336.1396924087
This is not a couple of people switching to google chrome. This is 75000 people wanting a man fired due to his position on something completely unrelated to his job, when he had never had a problem with it interfering with his job before. This goes beyond the 'reverse-victim trope' someone was complaining about. This is no longer people pushing back against oppression. This man did nothing for 6 years, and at the time he did it it was the popular opinion, he stated that he would try and maintain a good working environment for his company, that his personal views were not going to be impacting and that the LGBT community would be beyond welcome for his company. It is about as close to an apology over a personal opinion as you can have. Especially one that is not necessarily wrong for him to have. He never indicated that he hated gays, he never discriminated in the workplace, and he said that he was sorry for the hurt his position had on people.
The reverse victim trope describes an oppressor saying that he is the victim of oppression where none exists. This man was hounded out of a job from a company he founded and was one of the most influential members of, by 75,000 people, for having an opinion on a topic that they didn't agree with, before he could have any time to prove them wrong, for an action of really small proportions 6 years prior.
Those of you who would have been negatively affected by Prop 8 will undoubtedly see this as a victory. I know that, and I can understand your viewpoint. However, to people who were on the fence about these issues, or even the ones who are small supporters of your position in this matter, this is seen as something that damages your reputation. People will see this as being a major overreaction to a very minor issue from another decade following somebody around for years. It brings fuel to the fire that you will try and silence anyone else who comes before you, regardless of your message of fighting against intolerance.
I will say this as clearly as possible. To anyone who is not effected by their emotions on this issue, the LGBT community and their supporters come of very much as being the people in the wrong. This will drive more people away from your cause then it will attract people to it, and it will drive some who are with you now further away from you when they discover it. And those are the people who are sympathetic towards your cause. To those who dislike you or your cause, this will be further proof that they are right and you are not to be trusted or given any sort of power. The correct way to deal with this is to forgive and forget. That will show people a message of tolerance, and respect. That will be what changes the opinion of those most against you. Not this.
This leaves a very bad taste in my mouth.