DrOswald said:
The vast majority of the conservative community is not trying to oppress homosexuals, they are trying to protect their beliefs. They are trying to prevent a situation of social discrimination against their beliefs. I know this is really hard for you to see because this issue effects you personally, but traditional marriage is not an issue of hating and oppressing homosexuality to the vast majority of the other side. It is an issue of religion. And they just don't see anyway to protect their beliefs that doesn't effect you. Because they were told that when the LGBT community gains social power they will use it to attack anyone with views they do not approve of.
Religious conservatives do not own marriage. Marriage has had many forms in many cultures and under many religions all throughout history. And in America, marriage is a secular legal contract. That is what is at stake here, not some nebulous religious concept.
Whether the religious conservatives view what they are doing as oppression or not, it is oppression. They are trying to force other people who don't share their beliefs to adhere to them by making sure they do not have equal rights under the law. A gay person being able to marry in no way interferes with a straight person's right to marry. Or a Church's right to discriminate against whoever they choose for whatever reason.
For example http://abcnews.go.com/US/kentucky-church-bans-interracial-couples/story?id=15065204 that is one of the many reasons separation of Church and State is important. Not only does it insure equal rights for people of all beliefs under the secular law, it ensures the Church's right to discriminate as it sees fit.
DrOswald said:
And guess what is happening now. The LGBT community has power, and what is done with that power? An attack on a man who's only crime was a modest donation 6 years ago.
"a modest donation" to try and limit people's freedom. I ask again in this thread, what if this man had donated to have interracial marriage made illegal, as it was in many states just a few decades ago? This is a guy who tried to violate millions of people's fundamental right to be treated equally under the law. It doesn't matter if it was LGBTs or any other group, that is and should be a shameful act that he should be held accountable for.
DrOswald said:
He has never even publicly spoken out against the LGBT community. Brendan Eich was no threat to the LGBT community. He only became a threat as a martyr.
How is he martyred? People didn't want to support the man who tried to take away their rights. So he's still a millionaire who now takes a vacation while he looks for another job. I fail to see the "martyr" in that for anyone except those already convinced of the position that LGBTs are bad.
DrOswald said:
The past 6 years have seen huge strides on the conservative side towards the idea of "live and let live". The vast majority believed that if equal rights were given to the LGBT community, if they were social equals, then they would not attack individuals or groups based on opposing religious beliefs. I have personally seen dozens of people reverse their position on proposition 8 over the last 6 years. So much of that progress has been destroyed in the last few days.
How?
DrOswald said:
Everyone on the other side has had their worst fears confirmed. "Live and let live" is clearly not an option. Anyone who ever publicly supported something like prop 8 is at risk. They better fight tooth an nail for every last inch of ground, because when our side has the power we will use it to force them to renounce their beliefs. If nothing else, this was a massive strategic error that is going to put back the fight for LGBT rights. Expect a renewed and fierce effort to prevent LGBT rights and LGBT social acceptance.
Really? All I expect to see this do is give another excuse to the people who already decided long ago that LGBTs were evil. These are the people who have and will continue to try and block progress, and would have with or without this incident.
DrOswald said:
As for what I expect you to do, I expected you to do what you did. What I hoped you would do is try to break the cycle of hatred. I know that isn't a fair thing to ask. An eye for an eye would be fair. Revenge would be fair. And for what it is worth, I am sorry that it falls on your shoulders to be the better man.
That's not exactly how progress works. It's going to be generational. We're about where equal rights for blacks were in the 1960s right now. A lot of the support for LGBT rights comes from the younger generations. Basically we're all going to have to die and our grandchildren grow up before being LGBT is fully "normal". Because there are too many people alive right now who have grown up being indoctrinated to hate LGBTs and who will take that hatred to their graves.
Vegosiux said:
Ratty said:
It would have been a standard PR move. He apparently felt so strongly that gays should not have the same equal treatment under the law that he'd rather find another job than even give a token effort to reach out to the LGBT community in a positive way.
Well...assuming he refuses to let others change his beliefs, which is not a far-fetched assumption, would him staying be any less shady in your eyes? I mean, assuming that, would anything he would have done, actually be okay?
He has essentially spent money to try and keep me from being able to marry the person I love. Even though neither of us have ever done anything to him. If this man had his way we and millions of others like us would never have the same rights, protections and privileges under the law that straight couples take for granted every day. So barring an apology no, nothing he did would make him "okay" in my eyes.