DrOswald said:
The vast majority of the conservative community is not trying to oppress homosexuals, they are trying to protect their beliefs. They are trying to prevent a situation of social discrimination against their beliefs.
...by discriminating against homosexuals. This is that reverse victim crap I was just talking about.
DrOswald said:
I know this is really hard for you to see because this issue effects you personally, but traditional marriage is not an issue of hating and oppressing homosexuality to the vast majority of the other side. It is an issue of religion.
So were witch hunts.
DrOswald said:
And they just don't see anyway to protect their beliefs that doesn't effect you.
That same rationale can be used to ban interfaith or even interracial marriage. That they're too ignorant to see that allowing same-sex marriages to happen won't affect heterosexual marriages is their problem.
DrOswald said:
Because they were told that when the LGBT community gains social power they will use it to attack anyone with views they do not approve of.
And no other bigots ever feared the groups they oppressed would seek revenge someday? Its called "paranoia." Its another form of the reverse-victim delusion. Besides, don't these conservative hypocrites write laws that allow "religious based" bullying in school with the precise intent to leave LGBT students unprotected?
DrOswald said:
And guess what is happening now. The LGBT community has power, and what is done with that power? An attack on a man who's only crime was a modest donation 6 years ago.
Which contributed to LGBTs losing some of their rights. Getting the guy fired is a far cry from denying him his basic civil rights. But if you still want to classify that as "revenge" then point taken. But...
DrOswald said:
He has never even publicly spoken out against the LGBT community.
Bigotry doesn't count if its all actions and no words? Thats pretty thin.
DrOswald said:
Brendan Eich was no threat to the LGBT community. He only became a threat as a martyr.
So once the axis powers were defeated in WW2, they were no longer a threat and we shouldn't have punished them with war-crime trials in Nuremberg? Don't give me that look. The difference is only a matter of
degree.
Besides, if Eich is a "martyr" for losing a job, then what do you call the slain victims of hate-crimes? Its going to take alot more than unemployment for me to feel sorry for someone who helped feed a culture of hate.
DrOswald said:
The past 6 years have seen huge strides on the conservative side towards the idea of "live and let live". The vast majority believed that if equal rights were given to the LGBT community, if they were social equals, then they would not attack individuals or groups based on opposing religious beliefs. I have personally seen dozens of people reverse their position on proposition 8 over the last 6 years. So much of that progress has been destroyed in the last few days.
"Destroyed" my ass. If anything this proves we made progress. Otherwise, Eich wouldn't have felt pressured to step down.
DrOswald said:
Everyone on the other side has had their worst fears confirmed. "Live and let live" is clearly not an option.
For conservatives, it never was. See my post above for details.
DrOswald said:
Anyone who ever publicly supported something like prop 8 is at risk. They better fight tooth an nail for every last inch of ground, because when our side has the power we will use it to force them to renounce their beliefs.
Why not renounce them now? Why not admit they were wrong and take the initiative to make amends instead of keeping quiet and waiting for someone to out them?
DrOswald said:
If nothing else, this was a massive strategic error that is going to put back the fight for LGBT rights. Expect a renewed and fierce effort to prevent LGBT rights and LGBT social acceptance.
If you think that wasn't going to happen anyways, you are
dreaming. Contraceptives, for example, were a settled issue for decades until social conservatives started raising a fuss a few years ago. They're on the losing side of history, and they're making a desperate grab for power while they still can.
As I said in my above post, there is no way to
not feed the reverse-victim delusion. These folks believe that not getting their way = the end of the world. You can't outwit crazy.
DrOswald said:
As for what I expect you to do, I expected you to do what you did. What I hoped you would do is try to break the cycle of hatred. I know that isn't a fair thing to ask. An eye for an eye would be fair. Revenge would be fair. And for what it is worth, I am sorry that it falls on your shoulders to be the better man.
So turn the other cheek, huh? We must give-up our right to free-expression in order to not infringe upon the right to high-level employment of those who sought to deny equal rights of others? We should shut-up or else we're the bad guys?
"But I didn't say that at all. I merely implied that with pious double-talk." Sorry, but no sale. I've personally bought the reverse-victim bs for years. I'm through with that noise.