Actually hates you, or disapproves of you, or just is uncomfortable around the guy who's (possibly) ahem... deflowering his precious daughter?
My gf's dad hates me.
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I would honestly be horrified if I had a daughter and she dated at all. I'd probably be more protective of any daughter. I'm basically a good guy. I get good grades, I'm working on my BA, I do volunteer work, paint, practice martial arts, I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs, all in all, I'd say I'm alright. I'm a bit of a jerk sometimes and I'm super sarcastic, but I'm not spiteful or out and out mean. I'd be thrilled if I had a daughter and she dated a guy like me because I know he'd treat her right. Assuming I could get over the fact that she'd be dating. XDthedeathscythe said:
my last girlfriend's parents hated me, supprised they even let us get back together, more so when they found out we were talking about getting married (we're 20 and 16, I turned 20 a couple of weeks ago and she's 17 next week) I put my case forward to her mum (I stated that I'm fully aware that neither of us aren't in a position to get married I'd said this to her) and she respected me for being straight up with my case. These parents also beat her regularly, she talked about it likr it happens all the time which I find a bit shocking as well...
ironically, she dumped me for someone else she's never even met..
ironically, she dumped me for someone else she's never even met..
o man you got it good
picture if you will a kid who had long hair smoked weed 3 or 4 times a week was into classic rock music and was a complete smartass
you have problems with a girls parents when that is the case although the first looks they give you are fairly funny
picture if you will a kid who had long hair smoked weed 3 or 4 times a week was into classic rock music and was a complete smartass
you have problems with a girls parents when that is the case although the first looks they give you are fairly funny
About points two and three...I thought she had told her parents. It was early on in our relationship when they found out about it because of the incident that happened. I was looking forward to meeting them and actually got together with them only an hour or so after I got back from my trip. I mean, I guess it is sort of my fault for not asking about whether or not she'd told them or insisting that I meet them, but I didn't want to seem too pushy since it seems like her dad is the dominating type and while I like things to go my way (who doesn't?), I'm not going to force anything on anyone. I just wanted to go it slow and at a pace she was comfortable with. Obviously, this backfired a bit. XDHellsingerAngel said:
I agree with your points and was actually going to ask if those were quotes from the Art of War. XD I've read it, and found it very interesting.Cypher10110 said:
I'm trying to be polite without becoming a doormat, but I'm also standing my ground and trying to show him that I really care about her. I'm sure that he'll at least have some sort of respect for me eventually, even if he doesn't like me.
I've talked to him a few times, and he asked about what I planned to do in the future as far as a job and education and he seemed impressed that I was so young (19) and had thought about it until I get my Ph.D. hopefully by the age of 24-25-ish.
Actually, I was planning on doing something very similar to that. XD I was going to take him out for drinks or dinner or something just the two of us, so that we can talk things out. I was thinking about it anyway, I talked to her about it and she said that she thought it was a good idea.tomtom94 said:
Are you sure it isn't just an act? That he's laughing behind his hands every time you walk up the driveway? That's what I would do if I had a daughter. I've got this nice, rusty machete I'd just carry at all times. Never threaten, just... hold, while looking at you. Always.
Anyway, if he's not, and he really wishes to cause you harm, you don't want to make even more of an enemy of him by having to call the cops if he loses it at you. Did you say 7 months? If that's the case, I'm surprised your computer doesn't automatically omit the word "marry". If it's only been 7 months, and it all started with a jealous mutual friend saying you cheated via webcam, then that's probably reason enough. Best thing you can do is wait it out, stay with her, and that would have been my advice anyway. He'll get used to the idea when it's a year down the line and you have shown no sign of ever wanting to bail.
Anyway, if he's not, and he really wishes to cause you harm, you don't want to make even more of an enemy of him by having to call the cops if he loses it at you. Did you say 7 months? If that's the case, I'm surprised your computer doesn't automatically omit the word "marry". If it's only been 7 months, and it all started with a jealous mutual friend saying you cheated via webcam, then that's probably reason enough. Best thing you can do is wait it out, stay with her, and that would have been my advice anyway. He'll get used to the idea when it's a year down the line and you have shown no sign of ever wanting to bail.
I was planning on getting together with him sometime and having a man to man talk to see if we can sort things out. My gf seems to think it's a good idea, but I'm just trying to figure out where, when, and if he'd actually do it without causing a scene. XDJonluw said:
The thought had occured to me. After all, the best way to get in with the duaghter is to get in with the parents. Sleep with them, and you're in.Cliff_m85 said:Sleep with his wife.MasterOfWorlds said:
I don't play games all that much. On weekends and Friday nights mostly, when I'm not hanging out with friends or studying. I'm working on my BA, and I do yard/housework on the side for spare cash. Unlike most of our generation, I grew up with manners, work ethic, and ambition.RAKtheUndead said:
Actually, her mom and her dad never got married, and she was seven years older than him. XDravensheart18 said:
Although admittedly, it was a bad move. It was one of the few times I actually let my control over myself slip around him, but I've been keeping a tighter lid on things snce then, and apologized for it since it was uncalled for.
He probably sees you as he was himself at your age. Out to hump the sweet little daughter he has cherished for so many years.
Hell id be pissed if you where going to put your schlong in my daughter. You dont go out with her just because you like movies/dinner/coffee
Hell id be pissed if you where going to put your schlong in my daughter. You dont go out with her just because you like movies/dinner/coffee
I dated my last bf for a year and his mother intensely hated me for most of that time. She was fine with me until he found the need to tell her that we were intimate, and then Catholic shit hit the fan for the rest of our relationship. She even went to my school and had him removed from any classes we shared.
It was really hard to deal with and I wish I had better advice, but you've got to ignore it for the most part. I mean, do your best to make a good impression, don't act like a punk in front of the parents, but you can't force them to like you if they've made up their minds not to. Just don't take it personally and avoid confrontation with them.
It was really hard to deal with and I wish I had better advice, but you've got to ignore it for the most part. I mean, do your best to make a good impression, don't act like a punk in front of the parents, but you can't force them to like you if they've made up their minds not to. Just don't take it personally and avoid confrontation with them.
I'm not sure whether I should laugh or cry because that's so true. XDDuskwaith said:
Honestly, we haven't slept together. That's not the reason I'm going out with her. It's something we probably will do in the future when she's ready, but I think that's a little down the line. Until then, it's only movies/dinner/coffee. XD