My girlfriend of four years and fiance just left me tonight.

[Levitas1234]

Drugs and alcohol

Drugs are bad. That leaves booze. When my 3-year long relationship ended, I drank for, like, a week. On the other hand it ended because I drank for a week before that, so ... Damn, now I feel stupid. Gonna go get some beer.

well to be honest alcohol is worse than drugs after a relationship, but the outburst of drunken emotion usually gets it all out, and destroys a few bustops.

Anyways, nothing makes problems go away faster than a joint, or for longer than doing mushrooms and acid right after that joint. Cocaine and hookers is always good for the soul too.

 

[Ulvai]

well to be honest alcohol is worse than drugs after a relationship, but the outburst of drunken emotion usually gets it all out, and destroys a few bustops.

Anyways, nothing makes problems go away faster than a joint, or for longer than doing mushrooms and acid right after that joint. Cocaine and hookers is always good for the soul too.

Meter of tequila shots, some beer and good ol' bar brawl. Yeah, forget that one. Some mindless mild violence always fixes you up.

 

[EllEzDee]

Drugs and alcohol

Ignore 16bit Gordon Freeman. What he meant to say was Drugs, Alcohol and Whores.

 

[Zechnophobe]

Maybe I should have kept them seperate, ba dum!

No but seriously, long term girlfriend and fiance broke it off with me tonight. Not much more I can say than that, and I'm pretty much messaging every friend I have, and a few extra places, with the same question.

What do I do now?

ahhhhh.

Women. How do they work? With their hair spray, and their talking on the phone all the time, and there "Does this make me look fat"? Who can understand them. Who Needs 'em, right?

Sorry, I'm just no good at this, I just end up making it worse.

 

[AbstractStream]

Whatever it was, I know it'll be hard but keep moving forward. Life goes on.
Hang in there.

 

[spartan231490]

Maybe I should have kept them seperate, ba dum!

No but seriously, long term girlfriend and fiance broke it off with me tonight. Not much more I can say than that, and I'm pretty much messaging every friend I have, and a few extra places, with the same question.

What do I do now?

"Keep moving forward. You've got two good legs there, get up and use them." There's not much you can do. No matter how much looking back you do, you can't change the past, so just move forward as best as you can, put one foot in front of the other until you find yourself in a happier place.

 

[zehydra]

PS: Awkward terminology question: Where's the difference between a girlfriend and a fiancée?

A expensive ass ring.

Great, now I spent minutes wondering what an ass-ring was and why the hell you would feel like bringing that topic up.
It's too late to think.

that is hilarious.

 

[The_Healer]

I'm sure she has a sister or best friends.

I suggest you get to know them better.

 

[Svenparty]

DON'T turn on TV: Chances are Friends will be on
DON'T visit any humour websites: They are still milking Rebecca Black


Just declare yourself forever alone and be done with it

 

[emeraldrafael]

Get right back on the horse. Nothing was ever done standing still.

 

[JUMBO PALACE]

Sorry man, that's unfortunate.

As to what you do, nothing. Just take some time to process this and an even longer amount of time to get over her. Unless you think she will be coming back, the best thing you can do is move on and not brood over it. Good luck with everything buddy.

 

[Troublesome Lagomorph]

Be 100% unsurprised. That's what happens with relationships.

I figure if you want to keep going, get a new one and be prepared for them abandoning you.

 

[Venereus]

Remember all those hot girls you used to look at and say "if only I was single..."? Well, think again, you can bang them now! Go nuts! Do it for all of us (yeah, my 5 years GF and very likely future wife doesn't seem to be planning on leaving me any time soon ¬¬). So there you go, look at the bright side.

 

[Aethren]

1. Get that ring back, those things aren't cheap.
2. Take up a sport. Boxing is good, something with discipline that you can release your emotions into.
3. Join the military. Same as number two, only with more guns.
4. Go do fun stuff for yourself, you're free now.

 

[laol1999]

just get back out there after an appropriate grieving period

 

[Hamster at Dawn]

That seriously sucks. But hey, at least you stayed together for 4 years, some of us haven't had that. A small consolation I know but I try to stay optimistic even in the worst of times. I don't think that there's much that you can do, you just have to accept that it sucks and move on. Sorry, I wish I could help but all I can really say is "hang in there".

 

[mattaui]

Had to call off a promising but ultimately mismatched relationship after a few months of just casually going out, but it was a lot harder than I wanted it to be, and I still feel like the bad guy for simply pointing out we weren't as good a fit as she thought.

Your situation is entirely different in type and degree, but I'm sure keeping yourself occupied, distracted and surrounded with friends is the best treatment for most sorrows. Best of luck.

 

[duchaked]

Be thankful you didn't marry her.

Be honest with yourself about what was your fault and what was not, and remember that next time.

think I might cry...
but in all seriousness this is very true
for some reason I took it upon myself to accept all blame for troubles in my relationship thinking it would make me a better boyfriend
no it just made it that much easier for her to walk away...and for me to do the same