Needing Human Contact...
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These never work, not even in the movies.lilmisspotatoes said:
But what do I know I'm just a misanthrope.
Agreed similar cirumstances with me and my gf, or was but now its starting to take a tole on our relationship.
I have been hanging out with my friends occasionaly and i could hang out with them more, but I just don't. I used to be more of a loner and i really missed talking to people outside of school a lot but everybody lives so fucking far away from me. I'd like to thank my parents for living in bumfuck no where.
anyways that looks like a jumbled mess of a post and was written in between a skype argument so don't take it to seriously i just wanted to let you know i'm with you on that one anddddd good luck with your guy.
I have been hanging out with my friends occasionaly and i could hang out with them more, but I just don't. I used to be more of a loner and i really missed talking to people outside of school a lot but everybody lives so fucking far away from me. I'd like to thank my parents for living in bumfuck no where.
anyways that looks like a jumbled mess of a post and was written in between a skype argument so don't take it to seriously i just wanted to let you know i'm with you on that one anddddd good luck with your guy.
I have that whole "friends are too busy to hang out, women aren't interested" situation going on, so I often find myself feeling isolated from humanity.
On Easter weekend, all of my roommates went away, and the weather was unusually nice. So I went out and drove uptown to do some shopping. As I was driving, I saw couples going for a walk, and small groups of friends hanging out. I began to feel out of place, as I was driving alone in my car, which no one but me has been inside for months.
Moral of the story: even an unusually warm, beautiful day outside can feel like a waste if you have no one to spend it with.
On Easter weekend, all of my roommates went away, and the weather was unusually nice. So I went out and drove uptown to do some shopping. As I was driving, I saw couples going for a walk, and small groups of friends hanging out. I began to feel out of place, as I was driving alone in my car, which no one but me has been inside for months.
Moral of the story: even an unusually warm, beautiful day outside can feel like a waste if you have no one to spend it with.
I totally know what you mean..I myself am a little too dependent on 'cyber' companionship to get me through the day. I get together with friends once in a while, but not often enough, and my own boyfriend is in NY while I'm stuck in Florida X3 Loneliness is a horrible thing. I push through though. Gonna get drawing again, hopefully that will make things easier :3
Ergh, I'm sorry honey. *hug* I hope things work out better for you.FinalHeart95 said:
It really can. I've caught myself staring up at the sky on days when I'm off work and outside and just wishing I had someone to share the beautiful sunny day with.Duck Sandwich said:
Yeah, I get really lonely and want human contact.
*sighs* Sometimes I hit on some of the guy escapists in the chat and it makes me feel a little better.
*sighs* Sometimes I hit on some of the guy escapists in the chat and it makes me feel a little better.
I felt all depressed and lonely, then I started hanging out with some people whenever they could and I've realized that A) I can't stand most people and B) I'm not really fit to be around most people on account of I'm an asshole.
It must be said this,guy needs like a hug or cookie or somthing :CDuck Sandwich said:
OT I don'tlike to have to much alone time myself, I like people...except for the stinky ones
Most of my 'friends' have cut all contact with me, i guess they hate me although i don't care enough to bother asking
But yes i do get that feeling all the time, i do have a few friends who serve as my few contacts to the outside world (and sometimes reality *evil grin*) and i thank them for it.
But it's not really the same as having a huge group to talk and laugh with.
In close: few people to be around and never all at once ...idk if that makes any sense
But yes i do get that feeling all the time, i do have a few friends who serve as my few contacts to the outside world (and sometimes reality *evil grin*) and i thank them for it.
But it's not really the same as having a huge group to talk and laugh with.
In close: few people to be around and never all at once ...idk if that makes any sense
Everyone needs human contact. But to a large degree you make your own fun. So, if you're lonely go out and have a good time. I don't know if it's the generally friendliness of where I'm from or what. But for me it's really easy to make friends and to have fun.
OT and @OP. Just because you have a boyfriend doesn't mean you can't go out and have fun. I don't see anything wrong about two-stepping with random people at the bar.
OT and @OP. Just because you have a boyfriend doesn't mean you can't go out and have fun. I don't see anything wrong about two-stepping with random people at the bar.
I feel like I go insane if I do longer than a week without physically talking to a person.
Just couldn't do it. Personal or "Me" time never really lasts that long, don't need too much of it. I know people that are completely unlike that- and I know some people that need attention all the time.
Just couldn't do it. Personal or "Me" time never really lasts that long, don't need too much of it. I know people that are completely unlike that- and I know some people that need attention all the time.
I like human contact, not often a lot at once. I like people that are as mellow as I am. There are times of course when it's great to be in a giant crowd of people with similar opinions on something. ie.Metal concert.
I like to believe that I'm a pretty funny guy, and as such I like to hear people laugh at my jokes. Be it my girlfriend's giggles, or my buddy's NO YOU'S I like to see reactions raised by some of the things I say. A true, whole hearted chuckle will forever beat out the world's most heartfelt LOL.
Hell no! All I need is my videogames and my Japanese love pillow (disclaimer I don't own a Japanese love pillow, I'm not into that stuff)!
Sarcasm aside, everyone needs human contact, it's one of the many things that prevent us from going coco for cocopuffs, batshit bonkers, and intestine skipping rope (with a Scottish accent) insane.
Sarcasm aside, everyone needs human contact, it's one of the many things that prevent us from going coco for cocopuffs, batshit bonkers, and intestine skipping rope (with a Scottish accent) insane.
I feel the need for that connection as well, but while gaming sucks down a large part of my life im also part of a car club and thus have monthly meetings/dinners with my various associated oxygen breathers as well as up to 5 car shows a month so thats where i get my fill of other people. That is interacting with them not eating them.
You know, I actually hadn't considered that. There's a club-ish thing not too far from here... maybe I should go out some night and dance.Aur0ra145 said: