staff avoid using words like "him" or "her" and address the 33 kids as "friends" rather than girls and boys.
I'm fine with the concept of referring to everyone as friends however they shouldn't ignore the biological differences that make a child male or female.
"Egalia gives them a fantastic opportunity to be whoever they want to be."
The fact that they give the children the opportunity to do that is fine. I mean I read an article about a boy getting punished for coming to school in a dress. I see no problem with that. If it makes him happy, let him.
Nearly all the children's books deal with homosexual couples, single parents or adopted children. There are no "Snow White," ''Cinderella" or other classic fairy tales seen as cementing stereotypes.
Nearly all? That almost seems like they are trying to do away with kids imagining fairy tales. Yeah Cinderella (original story) slept in the cinders(hence her name) and was forced to do chores and such and married a prince. Who cares? I was raised on classic fairy tales and I turned out just fine. I'm very tolerant of any lifestyle. Now some creep me out with how far people take them but as long as they aren't pushing their lifestyle on me, who am I to judge? Snow White yeah originally a princess, was almost killed a few times actually if I'm recalling the story right, lived with 7 dwarfs(all male) who worked all day while she kept house. Some women are fine in that role. Who cares if that's what they aspire to be? Yeah any guy who tries and puts me in that role, well, lets say it won't end well.
"The kind of things that boys like to do ? run around and turn sticks into swords ? will soon be disapproved of," he said. "So gender neutrality at its worst is emasculating maleness."
I have no doubt in my mind that they would disapprove of a male child doing this. Or turning sticks into guns or any other kind of weapon. You can still be male, act male, not be emasculated, and still be open minded. Hell, my brother makes the best chocolate chip cookies ever, my dad and mom both cook, and I work on cars with my dad and brother. Everyone else in my family can sew except for me. And if they want to enforce gender neutrality then they need to start with society in general. NOT pre-schoolers. Society helps in raising kids just as much as school and your home life.
"We use the word "Hen" for example when a doctor, police, electrician or plumber or such is coming to the kindergarten"
I think of hen, I think of an animal.....Why not just say that an electrician is coming? or a plumber is coming? Or a doctor? Or a police officer? I see no gender specifics in saying it that way.....
What matters is that children understand that their biological differences "don't mean boys and girls have different interests and abilities," Rajalin says. "This is about democracy. About human equality."
This goes back to what I just said when I was comparing my home life. You are who you are. And this seems a little more like brainwashing then democracy and human equality. Either way IF I lived there and IF I ever have children I would never put them in a school like this. More I would teach them at home to be tolerant of everyone else and their lifestyles. Then again I'd also teach them to have some respect for their elders and to be polite too. Something that seemingly, in America at least, a lot of parents are neglecting to do.