Simple answer is the show is not overrated, rather this is just a side effect of becoming popular. Pretty much everything has it's audience, but when something becomes this popular it creates the impression that everyone should like/watch it. For some people it just isn't going to work, doesn't mean it's bad or overrated. And even if you don't like it, how cool is it that a show which first season ends with a naked chick hatching 3 baby dragons became so popular that it became common pop culture?
Personally I see two legit criticisms of the show.
1. People just watching won't pick up on this, but when translating from an epic book series to a TV show some things are going to be lost in translation. Some things just aren't going to work on the screen, either due to TB budget restrictions, time restraints, or things that don't translate well like flashbacks/dreams/inner thoughts & reflections. Like for example: "Promise me, Ned". People who just watch the show will have no idea what that is, but it's a recurring theme through the first book. And if you only watch the show don't try looking it up. Also in the video you kept showing GRRM's picture when talking about the gratutious nudity, but that was totally HBO and the two show writers.
2. One of your complaints are legit, there's so many damn characters that for someone new it's going to be hard to pick up on. Unless you're really sharp you need to either commit to having another viewing or two, or read up a little on the non-spoiler extra's HBO provides on family tree's & characters and such. Now the show isn't actually poorly written, like I said if you're sharp everything is there, just for the average person the moment you have to ask "who is this again?" the big picture can fall apart. While I still don't think there's anything wrong with this, the complexity is one of the things that make it stand out, but you have to acknowledge that you will lose some viewers on it who can't keep up and aren't interested enough to try.
Personally I see two legit criticisms of the show.
1. People just watching won't pick up on this, but when translating from an epic book series to a TV show some things are going to be lost in translation. Some things just aren't going to work on the screen, either due to TB budget restrictions, time restraints, or things that don't translate well like flashbacks/dreams/inner thoughts & reflections. Like for example: "Promise me, Ned". People who just watch the show will have no idea what that is, but it's a recurring theme through the first book. And if you only watch the show don't try looking it up. Also in the video you kept showing GRRM's picture when talking about the gratutious nudity, but that was totally HBO and the two show writers.
2. One of your complaints are legit, there's so many damn characters that for someone new it's going to be hard to pick up on. Unless you're really sharp you need to either commit to having another viewing or two, or read up a little on the non-spoiler extra's HBO provides on family tree's & characters and such. Now the show isn't actually poorly written, like I said if you're sharp everything is there, just for the average person the moment you have to ask "who is this again?" the big picture can fall apart. While I still don't think there's anything wrong with this, the complexity is one of the things that make it stand out, but you have to acknowledge that you will lose some viewers on it who can't keep up and aren't interested enough to try.