Object-sexuality... now even with video!

[Frequen-Z]

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Spare me, I remember it rather clearly, you straight up said you didn't get why the guy got angry at you. You do as you please with the statue, but never at least tried to consider it means something dear to other people as well, and you treating it like both a living thing and a lesbian is going to piss some people off.

Everything I said to you then went way over your head, I don't know why I'm bothering now.

Well don't bother then.

No I don't get why he got angry at me for loving her... The statue of LIBERTY, IS the idea of Liberty, brought into a form. So why shouldn't I have the liberty to love her?

I know other people care for her too, and just because I love her, doesn't mean nobody else can. She means a lot to a great number of people.

I live a fare distance from her in NYC, so I don't get much opportunity to be there with her. I also don't do as I please with her, because it would not be appropriate, because she is a public object. That's why I have my replicas in my house, in a private setting that I can be closer to. I feel her spirit come through them.

Inanimate statues don't have spirits, but whatever. How did you even find me here? I haven't been to wrongplanet in months.

 

[Quiet Stranger]

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It's a statue. It doesn't have feelings.
I can really really really enjoy an object. Feel attached to it. But not truly love it. That being said, I've had deeper feelings for my Ps3 than I've had for any person.

You're right, she is a nut case, also I love my Xbox 360 more then any human, I call her Bessy and I rub up against her every night XD

In all seriousness "To each his own" I guess, even if they are lunatics

 

[Ralen-Sharr]

And yes, anal is counterproductive to my point, however, ramming my junk in someone's shitter isn't nearly as destructive as, say, killing the person.

That line made me laugh my ass off. Must be the wording..

Thanks very much, I appreciate your support.

This is my thoughts too.. I don't harm anybody loving Lady Liberty. Sure some people might be offended by it, but that's because they don't understand it, and can't see it from my point of view, but I am not hurting them.

I want to be able to say that I love Lady Liberty, and not have people asking WHY all the time.

I don't ask other people why they love who they love.

People seem to want a scientific explanation when it comes to asking me how and why I love Lady Liberty

Love cannot always BE explained, and it can just happen, and it did with her. We looked at eachother and smiled and fell in love. I am still completely smitten 3 years on!

The part about this that strikes me as REALLY weird is that you describe an inanimate object as looking at you and smiling. This is quite possibly where the criticism directed at you is coming from. Looking at your post count, that also draws some suspicion on your posts.

I'm not going to say you can't love a statue or a rock, or whatever other non-living thing you want. However, I can't wrap my head around saying it has a spirit or whatever when it is not alive, never was and never will be. Even the materials it's made of were never alive, as opposed to a peice of wood furniture that has material that WAS alive.

I just think it's one of those things you can't understand unless you have the condition/fetish/whatever.

 

[Soxafloppin]

Its a little crazy, but it makes good conversation!

Like many, Ive heard of people making love to there cars/sofas/T.V etc.

But i cant say ive met anyone like this in real life.

 

[LibertyTorch]

And yes, anal is counterproductive to my point, however, ramming my junk in someone's shitter isn't nearly as destructive as, say, killing the person.

That line made me laugh my ass off. Must be the wording..

Thanks very much, I appreciate your support.

This is my thoughts too.. I don't harm anybody loving Lady Liberty. Sure some people might be offended by it, but that's because they don't understand it, and can't see it from my point of view, but I am not hurting them.

I want to be able to say that I love Lady Liberty, and not have people asking WHY all the time.

I don't ask other people why they love who they love.

People seem to want a scientific explanation when it comes to asking me how and why I love Lady Liberty

Love cannot always BE explained, and it can just happen, and it did with her. We looked at eachother and smiled and fell in love. I am still completely smitten 3 years on!

The part about this that strikes me as REALLY weird is that you describe an inanimate object as looking at you and smiling. This is quite possibly where the criticism directed at you is coming from. Looking at your post count, that also draws some suspicion on your posts.

I'm not going to say you can't love a statue or a rock, or whatever other non-living thing you want. However, I can't wrap my head around saying it has a spirit or whatever when it is not alive, never was and never will be. Even the materials it's made of were never alive, as opposed to a peice of wood furniture that has material that WAS alive.

I just think it's one of those things you can't understand unless you have the condition/fetish/whatever.

It isn't a literal smile. She is a statue - she does not physically move- I know that.
Its more something I feel inside and see in my imagination
I certainly smile when I look at her - both inside and outside. Anybody that looks can see she makes me very happy

I suppose your right that you can never understand unless you know what it is really like.. That can be said about a lot of things, not just OS.
I find it probably just as hard to understand why most people DON'T love objects like I do.

 

[Baradiel]

So what? Let these people have these... interests. It isn't hurting anyone, so who are we to judge?

 

[DividedUnity]

How could you have a thread about this and not include the woman who married a wall then divorced it for a fence?

OT: I never consider anything like this as culture specific.

 

[LibertyTorch]

How could you have a thread about this and not include the woman who married a wall then divorced it for a fence?

OT: I never consider anything like this as culture specific.

Which woman is that?
Some OS people are polyamarous, meaning they have more than one relationship simultaneously.

 

[DividedUnity]

How could you have a thread about this and not include the woman who married a wall then divorced it for a fence?

OT: I never consider anything like this as culture specific.

Which woman is that?
Some OS people are polyamarous, meaning they have more than one relationship simultaneously.

http://www.geekologie.com/2008/12/woman_leaves_berlin_wall_for_g.php

This woman

 

[LibertyTorch]

How could you have a thread about this and not include the woman who married a wall then divorced it for a fence?

OT: I never consider anything like this as culture specific.

Which woman is that?
Some OS people are polyamarous, meaning they have more than one relationship simultaneously.

http://www.geekologie.com/2008/12/woman_leaves_berlin_wall_for_g.php

This woman

That article is flawed.
She hasn't left the Berlin Wall, the reason she hasn't visited is because she prefers to remember him how he was
As I said, some OS people are polyamarous.

http://www.objectum-sexuality.org

 

[DividedUnity]

How could you have a thread about this and not include the woman who married a wall then divorced it for a fence?

OT: I never consider anything like this as culture specific.

Which woman is that?
Some OS people are polyamarous, meaning they have more than one relationship simultaneously.

http://www.geekologie.com/2008/12/woman_leaves_berlin_wall_for_g.php

This woman

That article is flawed.
She hasn't left the Berlin Wall, the reason she hasn't visited is because she prefers to remember him how he was
As I said, some OS people are polyamarous.

http://www.objectum-sexuality.org

So if i dont visit my girlfriend because i prefer to remember her how she was then thats not leaving her? At the end of the article it also states that she has shifted the affections she once had for the wall to a nearby fence. If thats not leaving him i dont know what it is.

 

[LibertyTorch]

How could you have a thread about this and not include the woman who married a wall then divorced it for a fence?

OT: I never consider anything like this as culture specific.

Which woman is that?
Some OS people are polyamarous, meaning they have more than one relationship simultaneously.

http://www.geekologie.com/2008/12/woman_leaves_berlin_wall_for_g.php

This woman

That article is flawed.
She hasn't left the Berlin Wall, the reason she hasn't visited is because she prefers to remember him how he was
As I said, some OS people are polyamarous.

http://www.objectum-sexuality.org

So if i dont visit my girlfriend because i prefer to remember her how she was then thats not leaving her? At the end of the article it also states that she has shifted the affections she once had for the wall to a nearby fence. If thats not leaving him i dont know what it is.

It wasnt her that wrote the article.. its what somebody else thinks happened.

It is perfectly reasonable to want to remember a loved one how they were, instead of how they are after death

 

[DividedUnity]

How could you have a thread about this and not include the woman who married a wall then divorced it for a fence?

OT: I never consider anything like this as culture specific.

Which woman is that?
Some OS people are polyamarous, meaning they have more than one relationship simultaneously.

http://www.geekologie.com/2008/12/woman_leaves_berlin_wall_for_g.php

This woman

That article is flawed.
She hasn't left the Berlin Wall, the reason she hasn't visited is because she prefers to remember him how he was
As I said, some OS people are polyamarous.

http://www.objectum-sexuality.org

So if i dont visit my girlfriend because i prefer to remember her how she was then thats not leaving her? At the end of the article it also states that she has shifted the affections she once had for the wall to a nearby fence. If thats not leaving him i dont know what it is.

It wasnt her that wrote the article.. its what somebody else thinks happened.

It is perfectly reasonable to want to remember a loved one how they were, instead of how they are after death

Yeah and you dont know what happened either. What you think is still what somebody else things happened.

Yeah but if the loved one is not dead or gone which it is not then it is pretty much considered leaving them. Yeah it is perfectly reasonable to want to remember a loved one how they were but the wall was never alive and still isnt. It isnt completely gone either so really she was cheating on the wall with the fence unless marriages suddenly became open relationships

 

[Ironic Pirate]

If i ejaculate on my desktop will i get a computer virus?

Since you don't have any direct contact with your PC, I'd say no, but your computer might get some disease we're immune to and don't even recognize. I'd be careful.

Yeah, use one of those keyboard covers.

Just to be safe, you know.


OT: I really like women in jeans, does that count? It wouldn't be the weirdest of my fetishes, however...

 

[no one really]

It's like I have allways said: EVERYTHING is a fetish.

 

[no one really]

OT: I really like women in jeans, does that count? It wouldn't be the weirdest of my fetishes, however...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leather_fetish (Idk if this is what you mean)

 

[2012 Wont Happen]

Object-sexuality is basically a safe way for someone to experience a relationship without actually experiencing one. People with OS often have developmental issues or very traumatic childhoods that have signalled to them subconsciously that humans are an "unsafe" option for their affections. However, sexuality can never be truly repressed - it always comes out in some other form. This type of disorder is a lot more common than you think.

The film "Lars And The Real Girl" covers similar territory (if not exactly the same, as Lars really believes that his blow-up girl is alive). It's worth checking out for anyone interested in this issue as while the film is a comedy on the surface, it does deal with the issue at hand with some intelligence and clever insight.

I love this movie, didn't think anyone else had heard of it. and I'm a hipster so I hate it now that someone else mentioned it Its cool that other people also like that great movie.

 

[IrirshTerrorist]

I created this thread after reading this news article about the Korean man who married his life-size pillow with an anime girl printed on it.
Many people thought this was something characteristic about the far-eastern culture, and, instead of quoting them all (a task worthy of Sysiphos), I decided to open up a thread about it.

Objectophilia not only exists in the far east, the first publically known case was actually in Europe, but it's so extreme I'll don't actually want to talk about it. I once read an article about this, and there are several examples of object-sexuality or objectophilia...

There is also Statuephilia (I think it has some more proper technical name though) its a specific one for loving/being aroused by statues of people more so than people themselves.

 

[ethaninja]

i hear of this,womans prefer iphones and men prefer notebooks

Here I thought it was the other way around.

 

[spartan773]

http://www.explosm.net/db/files/Comics/Rob/objectaphilia.png

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wow...

i'll be honest... that comic was in serious bad taste dude. =/