Of course, but when a deliberately worded thread title is presented (specifically aimed at other male users no less) regarding what most teenage boys want from their girlfriends at christmas who wouldn't predict something sexual to arise eventually, especially given the psuedo-wordly cynicism that is so prevalent here. How can one advocate casual, random, age-restricted, albeit simulated violence to 13 year-olds yet decry normal, consensual (provided they are of age) acts of sexuality? Banning sexual content yet being a conduit of and for violent content just seems like a double standard to me.maddawg IAJI said:You're not gonna get a suspension for that. Ever. You're assuming that the moderators are dictator like people who punish everything that offends them. This assumption is widely false.AbyssalSanhedrin said:Despite my lowly join-date and post count I've been around these forums for far longer than most and I agree with this. I would never dare enter a serious discussion here for for of seemingly arbitrary moderation. The age restriction of 13 for a website/forum based around media that is often rated 15 (UK) or higher seems counter-productive. You advertise and advocate adult media every day yet penalize people for humourous but adult themed content all the time (I believe it was SwollenGoat who made a comment about blowjobs that got him/her warned, but it was next to a glowing "overview" of CoD Black Ops, an "adult" game). The whole thing seems hypocritical and mis-managed at every level. Don't even get me started on "You'll be probation-ed for criticising ANYTHING we do".
In eager anticipation of my suspension...
Abyssal...
The use of adult themes differ. Black Ops is a mature rated game, but it isn't porn. There is a major difference between the two. The moderators don't allow us to talk about any game that is rated Mature (especially one as popular as Black Ops), but they won't condone things such as flaming or sexually explicit material. You won't get probation for criticizing either. You'll get probation for flaming.
Saying "You fucking stupid" is flaming. Saying "I don't agree with you and here is why...' is still arguing, but is a very calm and controlled way of doing it.
Both of these things are a part of the real world and if a supposedly "mature" community cannot discuss them equally then true freedom of expression can never be attained. Add to that an ostensibly arbitrary, case-by-case style of moderation and I stand by my original statement, I will never argue seriously any topic (with the exception of this one) on these boards because I just don't know where I stand and will be reduced to the same smug, self-satisfied yet deliberately vague wisecracking that plagues these forums.