I wish it was that easy. But if it was only the wallet that would be hard to explain why its in the laundry room. But there is a used rubber in there as well. And she knows where I keep my condoms -- my wallet.Ushario said:
Oh no, I'm caught
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Like I said, take it in stride.Smokeydubbs said:
I believe things happen for a reason...even a stupid one. Maybe something good can come out of it or maybe someone is trying to tell you something.
You never know. Life is funny that way. Obviously you still like your Ex in some way as to not disrespect her, but then she should also have the respect to let you live your life the way you want.
If she cannot accept that, then she is no friend. Everyone is free to do what they like.
Don't live in fear and never regret. That's all I am saying.
Cheers to you mate.
You know what I always noticed...girls always want to be friends after they rip your guts out, but if you do it to them they take it so personal, but get mad at you if you get emotional over it.
Females are a strange creature...deeper than the ocean and full of mysteries. Complication, but guys keep things simple or as simple as we can make it.
Yea, very true. She destroyed me, but I forgave her. Now I'm fine, and she wants to be friends. She always told me things aren't black and white, well I can make them black and white. It's clear I just had sex with your friend when you were passed out 20 feet away in a different room. And your friend liked it, a lot.James Cassidy said:
Good thing she has her own apartment, or I would have some massive shit on my shoulders.TheRealCJ said:
Oh no, I understood. I intentionally used that word. I know the difference between a place to live, and a device to help stupid decisions become less... stupid...
Hmm, if people can debate whether which religion is right, or what political party is supreme, then I can discuss this.Tenmar said:
You know she is actually right about that. Things are not in Black and White. They are usually in different shades of gray. Sometimes darker, sometimes lighter, but life is just too random to say what is what, but you can lay down a line or two to separate.Smokeydubbs said:
I feel your pain when you say she destroyed you because of something that happened to me three years ago, but you know you don't owe her anything.
It's better to just say, if you get caught that is, "Look you want to be my friend, then you are going to have to accept these things. I can't change that and you shouldn't expect me to change because I am supposed to sympathize with you. I am not. You either accept it or you don't. You had your chance with me and it didn't work out, time to move on."
That is what I would say anyway....well actually I have said this. -laughs-
Funny how things work.
"A little nonsense now and then is relished by the wisest men"
Well just to clarify; this is not a rant. I appreciate the feedback, and I really have looked at this differently. Sometimes it takes a fresh pair of eyes to see the mistake, and so far you all make a good point in saying the mistake isn't my own.
good thing this is the off topic discussion forums *wipes sweat off forehead* phewTenmar said:
OT: dont let your ex control your life man. you are free to have sex and date whomever you wish, and if it pisses her off, then she's obviously either 1. still interested in you or 2. shallower than a spoon.
and vice versa (since you made a comment about her fucking your friends) she is allowed to do the same.
just go get the wallet and trash the condom (if you really must, flush it). its not her business and if you indeed do feel the need to tell her, its not her right to hound you over it
"I wanna have intercourse with you, hey hey hey, intercourse with you.."almightywabbit said:
"Relations!"
"Intercourse with you-whoo-oo-oo!" "Yeah, that sounds good!"
"Totally"
"Is there any shorter word for intercourse?"
Honestly, if I were a "young'in" I'd be more perturbed with the word "Intercourse" then "sex"Smokeydubbs said:
Hmm, true. But whatever I'm under the influence of alcohol. I need to wake up at 9, its 4am... sorry if I have had bad grammar, spelling, and diction. I'll just see what happens, can't be that bad.
Yeah, big tough, guy to quote Kiss Kiss Bang Bang. You call your girlfriend 'fire and brimstone' and cheat on her? I hope she does leave you. She deserves better.Smokeydubbs said:
Tell her what happened and ask for you wallet back. I can understand that you don't want to upset her and hurt her feelings but you fucked up and now you have to suffer the consequences. You can weasel you're way out of it, I suppose, but at least maybe being honest and accepting your mistakes will teach you something. Hopefully not to always remember your wallet.