You guys are right. lets see, 1st of all, i dont have the balls to kill myself. I mean dont get me wrong, after we broke up and that was that, i did not eat for a good 2 1/2 weeks. All i ate was sunflower seeds and water. Other than that, no food. Im assuming it was because of the shock. Them first 2 weeks were bad. Im talking about performing poorly at work, not eating, not sleeping, trying to get in contact with her to see if we can work it out. Fail, fail, fail fail and fail. I was so depressed. Once i moved back to Miami, i was somewhat better because I wasnt in the same town she was in (7 hour drive). But now, all i do is just work. Im done with school (Masters in Network Administrations) but thats all i have left. I think what kills me the most is that I was ready for everything. I was ready for a marriage, kids, etc. I have a very well paying job, i have good credit, etc. im set. I just needed a girl to complete my life. But i feel that she stole my chance for the good life. Like she robbed me of a future i worked so hard to build for the both of us. I think thats where i get angry.
Im not a heavy drinker. I dont drink beer but i do drink wine. Maybe that counts for something.
The other thing that im trying to establish is friends. Not that i dont have any, but the friends that i have in miami are, better or worse, losers. Not to sound pompous, but i like to talk to educated people that knows whats going on. 95% of my friends in miami are them "ghetto" "fuck the world" type of friends. Mind you, before i left to go to college, i was like that in a way, but i grew out of that. They havent. I just dont want to go backwards in life and get mixed up with them again. But the catch is, they are all i have in this town. I was away for 8 years. As soon as t hey found out that i was back in town, they took my out and we chilled but im a totally different person. Im not the "ghetto" one anymore. And i just feel awkward being around them. I am making new friends at work, thats not the problem, its just i guess im kind of paranoid and scared.
Dont worry, half the times when i cant fall asleep or anything like that, i just stay up and play video games all night long (CO:MW2 anyone) But it still doesnt help the fact that I still think about her. Kind of sad but its the truth. Like one said "better to love and lost than never love at all" i kinda like the saying "no love lost, no love found"
dont worry, ill be up in these forums just reading stuff for a while. i really appreciate the advice. normally, i dont call anyone cause by now, everyone is sleeping so i guess thats one of the reasons why i decided to post it on the forums and see what others say. BTW, escapist forums are way more helpful than say.. gamefaqs.