Phasmal said:
You can enjoy harassment. You can enjoy pain. You can enjoy suffering, sadness, torture and humiliation. You're either painfully stubborn or spectacularly uninformed. Just because something causes discomfort, doesn't mean you can't want it. I happen to rather enjoy masochistic women (I'm bi, but masochistic men doesn't do much for me, oddly). The women I am sexually attracted or involved with want to be hurt to varying degrees and want to be made to suffer. Just because they enjoy it, doesn't mean it's any less unpleasant or painful--and that's the entire point, they want the bad things. Being cut, flogged or reduced to tears from pain doesn't mean it didn't suck. It just happened to suck in just the right way, lol.
Your refusal to accept or understand a mindset doesn't erase it. I won't go into detail (because who the fuck are you, lol) but I've enjoyed some terrible situations in the past, not the least of which included self-mutilation and intense pain.
As a sadomasochist myself, you don't know jack about sadomasochism.
Healthy sadomasochism is the desire for submission and/or various degrees of physical pain with someone you love or at least like. There's humiliation, there's pain, but it's with who you want it and when you want it, and you can stop it.
No healthy, sane individual enjoys rape. Why would they enjoy sexual harassment, which is the menace of rape?
If you're claiming sadomasochists enjoy sexual harassment, you're implying they enjoy rape. As a sadomasochist, I'm saying you're just talking out of your ass.
Or, perhaps, you need to see a psychiatrist.