Uzigawa said:
religion has it's good sides and bad, i don't like blindly believing, i'm a logical mind, but the foundation it sets down for the young to grow on is overall a good platform, teaching what is right and wrong, even if i disagree on what they think is right sometimes (gay marriage, etc.) but, religion is necessary for logical minds to work, it's like light without dark, fire without ice, we need something to base things on, and religion is a good jumping board (btw, yes, i'm athiest, and bi, so thats why i'm a little pissed about the whole opposition to gay marriage cause one day i'd actually like to be happy with my boyfriend)
Small history lesson here.
Contrary to popular belief, Christianity does NOT condemn homosexuality.
I'll let that sink in for a minute...
Okay, what it DOES condemn is the practice of anal sex between men. By the same token, it condemns EVERY sexual practice which cannot result in reproduction. Now, the Church's idiotic focus on sex as pure baby-making has resulted in some of the all time greatest hits in the history of retardedness, such as Aquinas declaring that masturbation or fellatio was a worse sin than incest or even rape, since the latter could result in babies. I think a tactical facepalm is in order here.
Let's remember that Christian sexual morals originated with the Israelites, who were a small people surrounded by larger and more powerful enemies. So logically, the order of the day was to make as many babies as possible and raise them according to the Hebrew Bible - and if you were off masturbating or fucking men in the arse, then, to paraphrase Monty Python, you were wasting sperm, and God was bound to get quite irate.
So now, why is it that many people (Christians included) think that Christians "hate fags", as the Phelpses so succinctly put it?
Well, one has to differentiate between what one "does" and what one "is" and when those two were the same.
Look at your last name. If you come from a European background, odds are, you'll be called Smith, or Miller, or Farmer (or Fabbri, Meunier, or Bauer). That is because until relatively recently, you literally were what you did. There were no notions of individual innate leanings or such things as "personality" and "character" - the predecessors of psychology only starting shaping our consciousness since, oh, the late 1600s, and those didn't really take hold until the late 19th century. §211 of the German penal code still says "who does this and that
is a murderer".
Christianity cannot condemn someone for what he is. That runs counter to everything it stands for. And therein lies the crux; the Church, ponderous thing as it is, still has not been able to adapt to the paradigm of people "being" something. So to the Church's way of thinking, everybody is born the same, it's just that some men like fucking women in their vaginas (good) and some others like fucking men in the tradesman's (bad). It still has to come to grips with the notion that bisexuals and homosexuals are born that way, that they cannot help being who they are, and that therefore, condemning them is literally THE LEAST CHRISTIAN THING that a person can do.