Well, I´m still struggling with the "child" issue. On one hand, if I were a female, such a misstep could easily be corrected with a quick and easy aboriton(Yes, I consider abortions easy, much like squeezing a zit) but I´m not entirely sure that it works on males. But STDs aren´t such a big deal if you use protection, and the same kind of goes with children.Biosophilogical said:]spoiler=For awesomeClaw, spoilered for length]Well actually, by physiological standards, the average age of puberty for males is a two-ish year span between about 13 and 17[footnote]If I'm remembering what my lecturer was saying accurately[/footnote] (with the obvious existence of extreme outliers). So chances are that while you can ejaculate and have developed a sex drive, you are not a physically mature male (and that's not even touching on psychological maturity and the effects that different social conditions can have on that).awesomeClaw said:And this is why age of consent should be lowered to 13. I´m still annoyed that I can´t make my own descision just because I´m 2 years younger then a 15 year old.
And then of course, there is the role of sex within society. Sure, it has recreational use ('rumour' has it that orgasms are rather pleasant), but sexual activity can force the development of emotional bonds that may not have formed from a purely social relationship[footnote]Which can raise the issue of if someone of your age is at a stage of mental development where they truly appreciate the gravity of the situation, and therefore if they are mature enough to make a properly weighted decision.[/footnote], then there is the raging hormones, which can adversely affect judgement[footnote]Which has parallels with the old saying "One is not a good judge of one's own sanity". How can you know you are ready when you can't trust your own state of mind to have rational integrity?[/footnote], and then there is the physical risks involved, which raises two more issues;
1. In the previously mentioned context of rational instability, should someone be permitted to risk the well-being of their future selves in a very permanent and detrimental manner (STDs/STIs) AND
2. Given the combination of social and physical imaturities, is someone of your age (just as an example) capable of fully accepting and realising their responsibility to any child that may be conceived as a result of their hormone-driven actions?
So while there logically would be a handful of people who are both physically, socially and psychologically mature enough to fully grasp sex at your age, there wouldn't be many.
DISCLAIMER: I'm not trying to single you out, but I read your post and it was not only convenient, but also raised an important point that is rarely able to be addressed in a proper context.[/spoiler]
OT: I haven't read the article just yet (bear with me), but from what I've heard, it seems like the 'general idea' is good, but his personal expression and view on the matter is somewhat ... inaccurate (that word will have to do).
EDIT: Okay, just read the article. He sounds like he used the wrong terminology (*cough*date rape*cough*), but otherwise his point is good, but misunderstood. He's just saying that there are different forms of rape, and just because they are called rape doesn't mean they instantly are some heinous abomination against humanity. It's basically a statement against the knee-jerk reaction, and to view a situation as a situation, rather than as its name.
Also, one chooses what one does in school. That effects the well-being of oneself in the future. Plus, mistakes are to be made, and then learned from. "Only burned children fear fire." Ya´know? Also, social conditioning I consider to be a very poor excuse. If everybody around you has gotten laid, and you personally feel pressured into doing the same, well, so what? You´ve proved that you´re real easy to manipulate. Not much else.
But I just found a solution to the child problem! Men can chose a "technical" abortion and have no affiliation with the child what-so-ever! Easy! Why didn´t I think of that before? If people just stopped treating abortions like such a "taboo" subject then we´d never have unwanted children again.
And well, one is not a good judge of ones own sanity, true, but to use hormonal imbalance is kind of weak. Women have an hormonal imbalance once a month. Should we restrict them from making any descisions then? Because their hormones are out of line? They might regret it, you know!
And I prefer to think that the majortiy should not oppress the minority. Just because most people my age are bumbling morons(trust me, I know it better then anyone...) doesn´t mean that relatively mature people like me should have to suffer because of their stupidity, right?
And in response to your first point: Well, no. I´m not a fully mature male. Not going to pretend that I am. But I am sexually mature(although telling this for strangesr online doesn´t feel quite right), and I believe I am mature enough to decide wheter or not to have sex if the situation(or rather, oppurtunity) presents itself. Why should you, or anyone else for that matter, say that I cannot?
Whew, that was a long post.