I think there's at least some pressure I've noticed, especially on forums like this (but not specifically or especially this specific forum) for people to not really express an interest in 'shallow stuff' like what they wear. I couldn't give a crap about that though - I'm such a rebel. I see how I present myself and my body as an art project in constant flux. Some people paint, some people sculpt, some people write a hot riff, and that's their expression of art, which is awesome. I dress up. I express myself in what I wear because it makes me happy, not because I want to impress others (though like any artist I won't deny that impressing others doesn't make me extra happy.) and so I'm happy to accept that it's a big deal to me. So, how you've seen me is not how I always am, because that fluxes and develops, as I discover myself and change through time. Also, you will in a moment have a PM. And not the PM telling you I just quoted you... obviously.Sir John the Net Knight said:Interesting point of view. So many girls talk about feminine garb in such a dismissive manner. I kinda understand where they're coming from, but it doesn't stop me from being attracted to that mode of dress. I've seen your unique style and it's kind of fascinating to imagine it in heels. Not to say I criticize, you dress better than most people I know. =P