Imagine this situation, you're sleeping with your significant other/hooker/sibling whatever, below is your view of that other person, so you're sleeping behind them and they're lying on their side (they can be lying on their back, but just to make things easier to illustrate, let's assume they're on their side).
Now, you want to cuddle up to them, so naturally your right arm would go in position #0, now here's the question, where do you feed your left arm for a reach-around to complete the cuddle? Cuz... well... have you ever been hugged/cuddled by someone with just one arm? It plain sucks right?
I personally would love position #1 but I know I'll get a dead arm after 5 mins, plus it causes great discomfort for my partner, so I've always ended up placing it #5 and rest my head on my arm (head is not heavy enough to give dead arm). Unfortunately that means the whole thing feels less intimate/ lacking in closeness, but at least both parties are comfortable.
What do you guys/girls think?
Now, you want to cuddle up to them, so naturally your right arm would go in position #0, now here's the question, where do you feed your left arm for a reach-around to complete the cuddle? Cuz... well... have you ever been hugged/cuddled by someone with just one arm? It plain sucks right?
I personally would love position #1 but I know I'll get a dead arm after 5 mins, plus it causes great discomfort for my partner, so I've always ended up placing it #5 and rest my head on my arm (head is not heavy enough to give dead arm). Unfortunately that means the whole thing feels less intimate/ lacking in closeness, but at least both parties are comfortable.
What do you guys/girls think?