If you treat a woman diffrently than you would a man, simply because she is a woman, that is, by the literal definition, sexism. Doesn't need a prefix like "benevolent". If you treat a gender as inferior and in need of help, that is, again by literal definition, chauvinism. Both of these can be done with good intentions, and a lot of people are fine with it. Lots of people like adhering to traditional gender roles.
I've got a solution to all this though: Take a minute to reflect on your own behavior, and then another to see the other person's perspective.
If everyone does this, rather than jerk knees all over the place like a rendition of Riverdance, we'll all be better off, and the trolls will go hungry. Of course, there are reasons why this doesn't happen. There is profit in peddling faux concern and moral outrage, and this has been the truth since the first sensationalist rag magazine.
I've got a solution to all this though: Take a minute to reflect on your own behavior, and then another to see the other person's perspective.
If everyone does this, rather than jerk knees all over the place like a rendition of Riverdance, we'll all be better off, and the trolls will go hungry. Of course, there are reasons why this doesn't happen. There is profit in peddling faux concern and moral outrage, and this has been the truth since the first sensationalist rag magazine.