Kiefer13 said:
I believe there's no such thing as destiny. I believe in free will. Things don't happen because they're magically "meant to", they happen because random circumstances lead to the creation of opportunies, which people then either decide to take or not take.
Yes I think effort is a big part of it as well but think about it. Someone born into a life of ease and luxury will most likely have to put a lot less effort forward to acheieve what they want. While some other may be born into a situation where they'll really have to work their asses off with effort to achieve what they want and sometimes they STILL may not achieve what they want. Life isn't fair.
Your theory says, to me, that everyone is born with equal opprotunities and their amount of effort determines where they go in life. But we all know that isn't always true.
So what determines what situation one is born into and therefore, how much effort they'll need to put forward to get what they want in life?