I'm a girl. I like to play the video games.
Way back when, though, before I got my very own first console, my (male) cousin was the one who had all the video games. My mother thought they were "only for boys" and my cousin sucked at sharing, so the only way I got to experience video games was by watching him play. Eventually, after I learned to stop asking for clarification and trying to make my cousin do what I wanted him to do in the game, I genuinely began to enjoy watching other people play. My cousin and I now joke that he turned me into the perfect girlfriend.
Now, though, I play the video games myself. I don't have any gaming friends because I genuinely prefer single-player games. My fiance plays multiplayer games, though, and has some friends on there of both genders.