I have been told that if I were to build up my upper body and abs, and that once I get the braces off, that I could model. But yeah, I guess I have to actually try to get laid. Maybe I'll have my cousin hook me up with one of her hot friends when I go up to Mass. this summer.dwightsteel said:
Dude, fear of rejection is something that I'd say 98% of all guys have to go through. Overcoming that fear is about the realization that the worst outcome you could possibly expect is for her to say "no". If that happens, you put it behind you and try again.mrhockey220 said:Well I sure hope so. High School holds many surprises right? Maybe one day ill overcome my fear of asking someone out.dwightsteel said:If that's the case, then you're on the fast track. I doubt you'd even have to do anything other than be at the right place at the right time.mrhockey220 said:Ya im currently entering sophmore year. I entered high school not knowing anybody so that could be part of it but otherwise im a nice guy, i play hockey, take care of myself, and workout. Its all there but im just too damn scared to ask someone out i guess.dwightsteel said:Don't worry. I was in high school when I had my first, (though I don't recall whether it was my freshman or sophomore year). But I've kissed a lot of girls since then. After the first time, one way or the other, the frequency tends to increase a lot.mrhockey220 said:Havent had mine yet and im 14
Working on it though!
Too bad I was a jerk back in those days, and what could have been a long relationship turned into nothing more than a few fun summer weeks.... But hey... time goes by
If I were to give you advice (that is to say, if you were even looking for it, and if not, then we can pretend I didn't say anything), I'd say get out, meet some new guys, and be aggressive with your flirtation. Make it really hard to misconstrue your intentions. When it comes to the second glance from guys, we tend to only give it to borderline supermodels. Smart girls realize that sexy and hot are two different concepts altogether. You are bound to find MANY guys who are willing to give you the shot you're looking for.shewolf51 said:
I guess ur right. U hav to hav that right moment where u just go "What the fuck could possibly happen?" and just go for it. I actually did hav that moment once and she said yes but i guess she didnt want to go on with it and we remained friends but we never did anything.dwightsteel said:Dude, fear of rejection is something that I'd say 98% of all guys have to go through. Overcoming that fear is about the realization that the worst outcome you could possibly expect is for her to say "no". If that happens, you put it behind you and try again.mrhockey220 said:Well I sure hope so. High School holds many surprises right? Maybe one day ill overcome my fear of asking someone out.dwightsteel said:If that's the case, then you're on the fast track. I doubt you'd even have to do anything other than be at the right place at the right time.mrhockey220 said:Ya im currently entering sophmore year. I entered high school not knowing anybody so that could be part of it but otherwise im a nice guy, i play hockey, take care of myself, and workout. Its all there but im just too damn scared to ask someone out i guess.dwightsteel said:Don't worry. I was in high school when I had my first, (though I don't recall whether it was my freshman or sophomore year). But I've kissed a lot of girls since then. After the first time, one way or the other, the frequency tends to increase a lot.mrhockey220 said:Havent had mine yet and im 14
Working on it though!
I used to have this fear that I would get laughed at by the girl I was asking, but that hasn't happened to me yet, and I'm DEFINITELY not what one would call "traditionall handsome".
Glow in the dark miniput? Thats pretty awesome.ThrobbingEgo said:
female hook ups are a great way to go. Girls are very persuasive with one another. They are ideal wingmen.Mookie_Magnus said:
That's happened to me at least half a dozen times. If anything though, that should put some steam in those engines to get it right.mrhockey220 said:
Well im sure once i get to know people at my school better, things will start going my way.dwightsteel said:
a friend of mine once dated a girl for two years, was utterly in love with her... and then one day she 'went' lesbian.Flying-Emu said:
I know it could, but this girl was one of my best friends, and I never got up the balls to call her again after that.la-le-lu-li-lo said:
