Milney said:
HentMas said:
here in my town if you like a girl its all you care about, if your friend likes her you both do your best to get her, if you succeed and then she cheates on you with your best friend its not your friends fault, she is the *****
Whilst I agree, no such thing as a "Bro-code" (in fact, I think all my close friends have a standing pacts that if we ever start saying "Bro", "Dude" or "Man" in conversation with one another [except sarcastically] that it gives the others free reign to kick some sense into them) the bolded text is just rediculous.
Yes, she cheated - but so did your "friend". Saying "she's a b*tch" and pardoning your friend is just... "simple" (in the most negative and sarcastic tone of voice possible). As people have said, it takes "Two to Tango" and if your friend is willing to bump uglies with someone you beat him for in a contest of affection behind you back, I have news for you, he's not a friend - he's just someone you hang around with to fill a void with.
Now, once you've relinquished (or had extinguished depending on the dump-er and dump-ee) fair game, getting riled up about who an 'Ex' is seeing is just petty.
well... let me tell you a little story!
once upon a time in "REAL WORLD" i was in love with a girl, i really wanted to be with her, but for one reason or another she wouldnt be with me
then the time came and i introduced her to my best friend, i told him beforehand i wanted to be with her, he knew that, but still, after hanging out 2 or 3 times toghether she started to date him
"well" i said "fair enough, just dont thing i am going to stop going after her just because she is with you" he laughed "yeah, no worries, i know i can thrust her" (yeah right)
so, after a few months of me going to see her and him being her boyfriend, in a party she grabed my hand and told me to go with her
we kissed (not exactly what i was expecting, i hoped she would dump my friend and go out with me) and she told me she really liked me, but she was not sure that i was for real, yeah, i asked her to go out the next day and we could talk in a more quiet enviromet, so, the next day we went out and started thalking, "what about Chuy?" i asked her, "i dont know, i dont know what to do but please dont tell him anything"
so i told her i could do that, but just for a day or two, because he was my friend and i couldnt keep lying to him
that same day my friend came to my house and weirded out told me "i think she is cheating on me" i told him what happened, he looked at me in conmotion and said "YOU TOO!?!?, they told me she was kissing before the party with George!!!"
we stared at each other and started laughing, i told her to forget it, he told her to forget it and we remained friends
now let me explain something about a relationship
IF you are with a girl, would you thrust her not to cheat on you??, i guess i would thrust her as much as i would thrust my self, its obvious, then, who did you made the commitment with?? your friend?? no, it wasnt with your friend, it was with the girl so if she breaks that commitment, who is at fault, the guy that has nothing to do with your relationship or the girl that cheated on you?? well, obviously the girl, and if she broke that commitment cheating on you with your friend, well, that only makes her more of a ***** than anything else, would you throw away a friendship, and by this i mean a REAL friendship, not a driking friendship or a partying friendship, a real friendship over such a crappy girl??
i would certainly not!, she was never worth it in the first place!, its true that it takes 2 to tango, but believe me, the one breaking your heart and the commitment and your illusions and dreams is the girl, not the guy!!!
if your friend makes a move on her and SHE DOESNT WANT TO CHEAT ON YOU she will tell you immediately, that way you can talk to your friend and tell him to back out, but if she doesnt, she was never worth it in the first place.