Guys if you're so freaked out by the word "cis" sounding like "cyst", do you also refuse to acknowledge that you belong to the species "homo sapiens" because "homo" is in the name?
MrFalconfly said:
Well, seeing as "normal" is synonymous with "average", it's a pretty common comparison.
If you really want to make "normal" a dirty word, then why not make it THE dirty word that it is?
Normal means boring. It means average. It means you disappear into the background.
"Normal" is not synonymous with "average" or "common" though. Naturally-occurring blonde hair outside of Scandinavia is uncommon, but it's completely normal. There are plenty of things that are uncommon that are completely normal.
"Normal" implies that everything is fine, there's nothing to worry about. When you describe a person as "average" you are implying that they are dull and uninteresting. When you describe a person as "normal" you don't necessarily mean that they are boring or unremarkable, you're saying that they don't pose any threat and that they are able to function in society to a reasonable standard. When a cisgender person calls themselves "normal" to differentiate from transgender people, the implication is that transgender people are inherently flawed or fail to live up to the standards of everyone else.
Calling someone "normal" when what you mean is "average" is like calling someone "strange" when what you mean is "unique", but I'm sure you're aware that while the two words may have similarities, they have very different connotations.