As a wise turtle once said," The past is history, the future is a mystery, but today is a gift. That is why they call it the present."Skeleon said:Thank you! I think you put it very well.grimsprice said:*snip*
I simply didn't know how to get this across any better than the way I had tried to.
As grimsprice said, that's the big difference between us that we're trying to get you to understand. Just because we don't believe in gods, we still have morals, values and goals. The things we see as important, they are the things we want to devote our life to. And if we manage to fulfill these goals we set ourselves, then our life will have been worthwhile when it comes to a close.Eisenfaust said:and why do you define what you've done as good? i'm not saying that you should be placing a higher value on the reawrds afterwards, i'm trying to figure out why you're doing anything... "because we only have one chance" doesn't really cut it since that "one chance" won't have any effect... and how is anything that untimately won't matter "worthwhile"? it's like... one night you and everyone around you drink so much alcohol that you'll forget everything that ever happened that night... what was the point of doing it? to party? you won't remember it... to pass the time and get that night over faster? you could have just taken a sleeping pill and passed the time that way...
i'm actually trying to understand what your view is... to me it makes no logical sense (and yes, religion probably makes no logical sense to you, etc, etc, but i'm not trying to get you to understand me, i'm trying to understand you so just leave it out, will you?)grimsprice said:In short, we will never be able to understand each other. We think in different ways. The problem is language. Not the best at getting thoughts across is it?
but won't it not matter in the end? when everyone is dead? i'm not saying your not moral people (i know plenty of athiests and its not as if your all mass murderers...) it just seems that your own arguement on the afterlife should mean that it shouldn't matter what you do here... and the people who are affected by "the right thing" that you did will end up just like you, and so will the people they do "the right thing" for and so on. If everything goes to nothingness, everything you do is just another step on the road to nothingness... which... just seems pointless.Skeleon said:As grimsprice said, that's the big difference between us that we're trying to get you to understand. Just because we don't believe in gods, we still have morals, values and goals. The things we see as important, they are the things we want to devote our life to. And if we manage to fulfill these goals we set ourselves, then our life will have been worthwhile when it comes to a close.
It's not about "filling the time" or "taking something with me" (memories), it's about doing what you feel is right in life. And, again, as atheists we do have morals and values, thus "doing the right thing" for the right thing's sake is not wasting time.
(1) My point is that neither of us will be able to explain or understand each other.Eisenfaust said:(1)i'm actually trying to understand what your view is... to me it makes no logical sense (and yes, religion probably makes no logical sense to you, etc, etc, but i'm not trying to get you to understand me, i'm trying to understand you so just leave it out, will you?)grimsprice said:In short, we will never be able to understand each other. We think in different ways. The problem is language. Not the best at getting thoughts across is it?
(2) i'll be able to look back afterwards on the time that i didn't waste,
(3) when i put myself in your shoes and think that, it just doesn't seem to make sense...
(4) what does your time here ultimately mean?
(5)what you do will ultimately be lost, resulting in nothing (please note the use of ULTIMATELY)...
Sorry, but I give up. Probably my last post. I can't explain it to you, I really tried.Eisenfaust said:but won't it not matter in the end? when everyone is dead? i'm not saying your not moral people (i know plenty of athiests and its not as if your all mass murderers...) it just seems that your own arguement on the afterlife should mean that it shouldn't matter what you do here... and the people who are affected by "the right thing" that you did will end up just like you, and so will the people they do "the right thing" for and so on. If everything goes to nothingness, everything you do is just another step on the road to nothingness... which... just seems pointless.
oh and, here's yet another horrible metaphor... if someone killed a giant horrible slime monster made of eel guts and shoes that is disgusting in every single way, and served it to you as a meal and said "its the one chance you'll get to eat it, there are no more" would you eat it? even if it tastes really, really horrible? as soon as something this bad was served to you, wouldn't you just walk away? (yes, horrible metaphor, i know... it doesn't even entirely encapsulate what i'm trying to say, but still... strange metaphors are always fun)
Thanks, I guess.Mimsofthedawg said:*snip*
Just because i live for the future, doesn't mean i can't look back on the past... and at the very least i can try to put myself in your shoes... it's a shame they're just too full of your broken logic... (mixed metaphor, i know, shhh)grimsprice said:(1) My point is that neither of us will be able to explain or understand each other.
(2) You live for the future, the reward at the end.
(3) You can't put yourselves in my shoes because of point number one.
(4) Short answer. Nothing. Long answer, on our death beds, we don't care about what it means, only that we enjoyed it.
(5) We do not live for the sake of remembering what we did. We live for each moment independently. Laughing with friends and enjoying myself is not great because i can remember it later, but is enjoyable at the time.
let ME point out something i've said in basically every post. ULTIMATELY. if you're right, ULTIMATELY you're legacy won't mean anything... ULTIMATELY it will cease to exist... besides... anything you get out of life will be even less fleeting than the life you got them. WHY do you consider that right? what is right and wrong when nothing ULTIMATELY matters? Assuming christianity, etc is right about the afterlife, everything you do is testing you, determining your character... if athiests are right, everything you do will boil down to nothing, so whats the point in doing it? and i DID tell you that it was an imperfect metaphor (the monster was a metaphor for life, btw, not everything ever) that i only put in because i like strange metaphors...Skeleon said:Sorry, but I give up. Probably my last post. I can't explain it to you, I really tried.
Let me just point out one of the things I said several posts ago:
Even if my kids and grandchildren are dead, my legacy would still live on. There'd be my grandchildren's kids, their kids and so on. My life may not be remembered completely, but what I did certainly mattered, because otherwise my descendants wouldn't exist and affect their world. And what I did affected my world, thus affected the world to come as well.
There is a legacy, even if my name may be forgotten.
But that alone is not the reason I try to do the right things.
You probably won't find this an exhausting answer, either, but still:
I do what I feel is right because I feel it's right. Because I want to do them. Because I want my life to represent these things and values that I hold dear. To me, that is not pointless at all. Yes, I will die and I will not remember any of it. But today (as in, "during my life") it matters, because it's what I deem important, what is of value to me, not some authority that's going to judge me after my death. I judge myself by my own moral standards and try to live my life accordingly.
As for your example, no, I wouldn't eat it. But that implies that I consider life as something slimy, disgusting and horrible. Which I don't!
You mean to ask whether I would try everything that I am given, just because it's singular. No. Hell, no. If I was suffering from incurable cancer resulting in unbearable pain, nausea and whatnot (or something similarily horrifying), maybe I'd kill myself.
I can't really tell because I'm not in that situation.
But that is not the way my life is. It's not perfect but I enjoy it, why would I throw it away?
Why do you have to be so condiscending? Oh wait, i know, because you think you have the moral high ground. I had my fears about you from the get go. And this last post just confirms it. All you wanted was to hear an atheist say they were wrong. You never wanted to know anything, you just wanted to tell us that you were right, and you have meaning in your life when we don't. You refuse to accept our answers when we give them, and you berate our lives because you think one day you'll be sitting compfy in heaven laughing while we burn.Eisenfaust said:Just because i live for the future, doesn't mean i can't look back on the past... and at the very least i can try to put myself in your shoes... it's a shame they're just too full of your broken logic... (mixed metaphor, i know, shhh)