Poll: Is an apology good enough?

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Troublesome Lagomorph

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Depends on what they did. If there were no real damages, then yes, if there were damages then no. If you really want to apologize fix what you broke, damn it.
In other words: If he's really sorry, then he'd better buy you a new alarm and pay for the repairs.
 

Fledge

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Please don't ut a useless option on your polls....look at the results - SO MANY WASTED VOTES!
 

Nouw

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A bad apology is worse than no apology in my book. Accepting a genuine apology for a big mess-up and forgiving them for doing so is a sign of maturity. Having said that, a bad apology should be accepted but the person giving the apology should know that they're not forgiven.

In your case, your brother should pay for your damaged property.

DrStupid87 said:
1- Feel bad about it
2- Say sorry about it
3- Do something to fix it
These are the 3 Golden Rules of Apologizing. Cool discovery good sir!
 

cbert

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helping you IS his apology, and the only acceptable one.

No more Kirby until guitar is fixed.
 

CrimsonBlaze

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Sometimes an apology is enough (at least with most matters dealing with material objects) because no matter the excuses, value of broken , goods, or anger you might feel for having things that you worked for be ruined by someone who does not appreciate them as much as you do, what's done is done, broken is broken, and you're brother will be your brother (if anything, you should have anticipated how he is and kept your things 'well hidden'). Still for these types of manners, there's no need for bad blood (unless those objects had sentimental value, I can see how it might be difficult to simply forgive and forget).

On other matters that deal with more emotionally or humanly engaging, however, a simple sorry may not suffice. In this case, you should either deal with it at the moment and move on, or agree to open a dialogue in hopes that you can sort it out, or at the very least leave the situation in a civilized manner.
 

FernandoV

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I accept apologies but my relationship with that person never recovers whether they know it or not.
 

Rin Little

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I don't tend to forgive people easily when they make major fuck-ups. With me its you get one chance, if you screw it up, then fuck off and go to hell. With this, either he pays for it or helps you fix it or say screw him.
 

Robert Ewing

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The only time I've ever been known to accept apologies is when I can't be bothered to carry on the conflict any further.

For example, if somebody accidentally hits into me while I'm walking, and says sorry. I'll accept that. Because I'm not the sort to take any of that seriously.

But if somebody broke some of my stuff, that I felt was important enough, I'd freaking insist some sort of reparation. Whatever it may be, compensation, manual labor, a term and condition. As soon as the wrong has been righted, then the conflict can be resolved.

Sorry is also a valid reason if the conflict has reached a stalemate.
 

badgersprite

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It depends on the circumstances, I guess. I usually would accept an apology, but that's just my personality, because I really don't like being angry, and I just like moving on and getting over things. I can't deal with conflict so I'm happy to let it go. Other people I know rarely take sorry for an answer, and they're often justified in feeling how they feel. Again, it's just a matter of their personality.

Ultimately, when it comes down to it, it's your situation, and it's your feelings that matter. You don't really need justification from people on the internet to back up the fact that you feel wronged. You know you're justified for reacting how you do, and that's enough.
 

Dapsen

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Well... If I can kinda feel that the person is actually sorry, I will forgive instantly, cause Im kinda into the idea of "If you know it was wrong, then you probably wont do it again, and thats really all I want from you, so I will forgive you" philosophy.
 

Chancie

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Yeah, "sorry" means nothing to me. Prove you feel bad about what you've done, don't just tell me. It's much easier to lie through words, so I don't trust apologies.