I agree with the majority this time.
Example: To save money, I had my cell phone on my mom's plan while I worked security. She didn't understand that the job's pay, hours, location, and benefits are based not just on the company I work for, but the client I would be servicing that day. So what she did was look up my boss's number on the cell phone bill, then call and harass the owner of the company's wife. I was fired shortly after because my boss said he didn't wanna deal with the hassle. When I was asked by my mom for money to help her with stuff at her own house, I admitted I didn't have an income anymore because I lost my job, which made her angry. I told her why it occurred, and she yelled "WELL I'M SORRY!" and ran into her bedroom and slammed the door and wouldn't come out for the rest of the day.
That was not an apology. I did not accept it.
I'm friends with clergy of various religions, and one of them was saying something I took offense to. He did not intend for me to feel that way and apologized. I knew that he meant what he said, and did not do it on purpose or out of nearly criminal levels of ignorance; it was just that the words he used and how I understood them didn't match.
I accepted his apology, and in turn stated that apology for that reason was not necessary, but I was grateful for him saying it none the less.
There's way less extreme cases of course but I figure polar opposites are useful for making a frame of reference.
Example: To save money, I had my cell phone on my mom's plan while I worked security. She didn't understand that the job's pay, hours, location, and benefits are based not just on the company I work for, but the client I would be servicing that day. So what she did was look up my boss's number on the cell phone bill, then call and harass the owner of the company's wife. I was fired shortly after because my boss said he didn't wanna deal with the hassle. When I was asked by my mom for money to help her with stuff at her own house, I admitted I didn't have an income anymore because I lost my job, which made her angry. I told her why it occurred, and she yelled "WELL I'M SORRY!" and ran into her bedroom and slammed the door and wouldn't come out for the rest of the day.
That was not an apology. I did not accept it.
I'm friends with clergy of various religions, and one of them was saying something I took offense to. He did not intend for me to feel that way and apologized. I knew that he meant what he said, and did not do it on purpose or out of nearly criminal levels of ignorance; it was just that the words he used and how I understood them didn't match.
I accepted his apology, and in turn stated that apology for that reason was not necessary, but I was grateful for him saying it none the less.
There's way less extreme cases of course but I figure polar opposites are useful for making a frame of reference.