I enjoy breast bounce and jiggle physics in games, as both are decidedly less fun in real life. Watching boobage is something males young and old can equally enjoy, with or without tissues. While I am not a male, breast bounce in games is something I find fascinating, at the very least.
I am not too certain about your sexuality or the width of your horizon when it comes to your consumption of erotic or pornographic material. The 'monster penis' thing is going strong in all sorts of slices of society, well beyond just homosexual males. When I'm in the right mood, exaggerated imagery can absolutely make its way into my arousal, foreplay or what have you. However, in real life, bigger absolutely does not mean better. Boobs are primarily a visual cue, a stimulus if you will that easily gets the attention of both males and females. 'Packages', as you put it, are primarily there for the old game of in-and-out, be it for procreation or shallow getting rid of urges, be that pee, wank or bunga bunga.
From what I gather, neither I nor my female nor my male (hetero or homo) friends fancy biggus dickus much in real life. It's not very practical. It tears you up, it hurts, it makes you feel constipated in the middle of intercourse and it can make you walk funny for a week or more. Big dicks don't make the world go round. Tits do. We've all sucked on them if we were lucky enough. Not everyone sucks dick.
Come to mamma.