Well, as a former lurker, all I can say is that I'm not bothered by lurkers. They just like to listen to other people's opinion, but don't feel inclined to express theirs, as they feel like they have nothing valid to say or what they would have said has already been said. Plus lurking gives you a way to peer into the soul (sort to speak) of the forums, lest they waste their time signing up to a forum full of people who don't share their interests, or ignoramuses. (Calm down, I'm not talking about the Escapists here. Mostly.) Besides, no one posts on forums and expect to only be heard by select people, eh?