As of 2017, I am not married, nor do I plan to in the near foreseen future, because I'm really not that interested in people.
The institution of marriage, however, I consider to be important, but in a dire need of a reform. In my head, the reason why many people today are very reluctant to marry someone is due to economic and social constrains (and, as a result, stress), such activity puts on both partners. Because of this, very often it ends...badly for both sides.
So, I personally think, that marriage should be treated as a job. Two people that want to "marry" must not only have a desire to do so, but also have necessary bare minimums to keep each-other afloat. After that, they simply go to the required governmental institution and make a marriage contract. Marriage contract is very important, as it legally binds both partners to each-other, as well as establishes boundaries that one can't brake. Additionally, it certainly makes the divorce process a hell easier. Also the next most important thing from a marriage - children. Only people that are married should be allowed to have children. It is scientifically proven that a complete family unit makes a much more healthy and socially stable human. This is where the "job" part comes in - the government must financially support families, whose female spouse is pregnant and up until the child is capable of going to school and add this time to your pension, if there is one. Additionally, the government should also make seasonal inspections regarding the health of the child and the family itself. They are, after all, paying you a wage for this.
Also, go make some mustard and a mayo to that chicken.
The institution of marriage, however, I consider to be important, but in a dire need of a reform. In my head, the reason why many people today are very reluctant to marry someone is due to economic and social constrains (and, as a result, stress), such activity puts on both partners. Because of this, very often it ends...badly for both sides.
So, I personally think, that marriage should be treated as a job. Two people that want to "marry" must not only have a desire to do so, but also have necessary bare minimums to keep each-other afloat. After that, they simply go to the required governmental institution and make a marriage contract. Marriage contract is very important, as it legally binds both partners to each-other, as well as establishes boundaries that one can't brake. Additionally, it certainly makes the divorce process a hell easier. Also the next most important thing from a marriage - children. Only people that are married should be allowed to have children. It is scientifically proven that a complete family unit makes a much more healthy and socially stable human. This is where the "job" part comes in - the government must financially support families, whose female spouse is pregnant and up until the child is capable of going to school and add this time to your pension, if there is one. Additionally, the government should also make seasonal inspections regarding the health of the child and the family itself. They are, after all, paying you a wage for this.
Also, go make some mustard and a mayo to that chicken.