1. Female
2. About 6 times a week
3. Nope
4. Yes
5. Uhh... I think to an extent
6. Decrease
7. Healthy
8. Yes
2. About 6 times a week
3. Nope
4. Yes
5. Uhh... I think to an extent
6. Decrease
7. Healthy
8. Yes
Poll: Masturbation and you.
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Not one of those studies dealt with whether or not those women were capable of orgasm vaginally - only that they don't typically experience it through intercourse with a man.lechat said:
Again, it might just be that 70% of men suck at bringing a woman or orgasm.
Or, as one of those articles mentioned, that 70% of women are too anxious to orgasm. I know that when I'm upset or anxious, I have problems in that department. One has to let go to get there, and if you can't let go, you won't get there. I assume these studies were done in the USA. Studies show that Americans have more anxiety than people in other developed countries.
Or maybe I really am a lesbian sex goddess.
But you actually take the time to find out. You explore, get a sense, learn the territory - and bring your partner off during foreplay.Nightmare99 said:
Question - do you use your fingers inside? If so, do you rub upward (towards the roof) of the vagina? Cause that's the spot. Once you get it started, it will keep going. IE: If you rub the G-spot during foreplay, and bring your partner to a vaginal orgasm just with the G-spot, then any sex that follows is much more likely to also result in vaginal orgasm.
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Huh. Lot of sex advice threads today.
Yeah, I find fingers inside to work very well. I have noticed an upward and anterior angle (Palm up with fingers curled a bit back towards yourself) seems to hit the spot. Believe it or not I picked that up in a snippet of some TV show, tried it out with a GF who was very difficult to bring to orgasm and it worked like a charm.Bara_no_Hime said:
capcha: do unto others Better believe it
1. Male
2. At most once every two days
3. No and I never have been
4. See no. 3
5. See no. 3
6. I've never noticed any difference
7. Interesting question. The way I understand it, the human body is designed to have sex regularly and there are consequences for abstinence so, healthy, I guess. Personally, though, I try to masturbate as little as possible for self-discipline and self-control purposes more than anything else; I'd like to have some control over my sexuality.
8. Until a couple of years ago I was a perfect, abstinent little catholic. My theistic standpoint changed and I basically discovered my sexuality.
2. At most once every two days
3. No and I never have been
4. See no. 3
5. See no. 3
6. I've never noticed any difference
7. Interesting question. The way I understand it, the human body is designed to have sex regularly and there are consequences for abstinence so, healthy, I guess. Personally, though, I try to masturbate as little as possible for self-discipline and self-control purposes more than anything else; I'd like to have some control over my sexuality.
8. Until a couple of years ago I was a perfect, abstinent little catholic. My theistic standpoint changed and I basically discovered my sexuality.
1. Are you male or female?
Male.
2. How often do you do the deed?
Ehm...2-3 times a day...-///-
3. Are you in a relationship?
Yes.
4. If yes do you do it more or less? If no do you do it more than you usually would?
I do it more because she's overseas and I'm not sure of the reason why, but she makes me horny all the time...
5. Do you believe it improves your performance in the bedroom or not?
I like to think so, I lasted over an hour my first time soo...
6. Focus; does reduced/stopped masturbation decrease or increase your ability to focus on things?
It decreases, can go for two to three days before it does though.
7. Do you believe that is is harmful or healthy? I.E. Reduce chances of certain cancers, mental health, stress or makes you go blind and grow hair on the palms of your hands?
It's healthy, helps me calm down and sleep.
8. Is it different now opposed to when you were younger?
Ehm...I do it more? It also makes me worry about my johnson more sometimes now.
Male.
2. How often do you do the deed?
Ehm...2-3 times a day...-///-
3. Are you in a relationship?
Yes.
4. If yes do you do it more or less? If no do you do it more than you usually would?
I do it more because she's overseas and I'm not sure of the reason why, but she makes me horny all the time...
5. Do you believe it improves your performance in the bedroom or not?
I like to think so, I lasted over an hour my first time soo...
6. Focus; does reduced/stopped masturbation decrease or increase your ability to focus on things?
It decreases, can go for two to three days before it does though.
7. Do you believe that is is harmful or healthy? I.E. Reduce chances of certain cancers, mental health, stress or makes you go blind and grow hair on the palms of your hands?
It's healthy, helps me calm down and sleep.
8. Is it different now opposed to when you were younger?
Ehm...I do it more? It also makes me worry about my johnson more sometimes now.
See, this is why I think those statistics are bogus. Learning a fairly basic foreplay technique turned a "difficult to bring to orgasm" woman into a "worked like a charm" woman.Nightmare99 said:Yeah, I find fingers inside to work very well. I have noticed an upward and anterior angle (Palm up with fingers curled a bit back towards yourself) seems to hit the spot. Believe it or not I picked that up in a snippet of some TV show, tried it out with a GF who was very difficult to bring to orgasm and it worked like a charm.
capcha: do unto others Better believe it
As far as I can tell, what those statistics actually mean is that only 30% of women are getting the proper foreplay. The actual percent of women who physically can't, for actual medical or psychological reasons, is likely far smaller.
Why have so many people on here never been in a relationship or had sex?
Way to live up to the stereotype guys!
(unless of course it's a religious thing)
Way to live up to the stereotype guys!
(unless of course it's a religious thing)
1. Male
2. Typically 14-21 times a week.
3. No, never have.
4. No more than usual, used to be higher when i was in my teens.
5. Haven't done it in such a way that it would make me last longer, I am more aware of when I am hitting my limits.
6. Decreases focus because of increased amount of sexual thoughts.
7. Perfectly normal. (Unless you are too rough with yourself in which case it can be unhealthy if you cause damage to yourself.)
8. I masturbate less now, (Used to be 21-30 times a week.), I have less hangups, technique changed.
2. Typically 14-21 times a week.
3. No, never have.
4. No more than usual, used to be higher when i was in my teens.
5. Haven't done it in such a way that it would make me last longer, I am more aware of when I am hitting my limits.
6. Decreases focus because of increased amount of sexual thoughts.
7. Perfectly normal. (Unless you are too rough with yourself in which case it can be unhealthy if you cause damage to yourself.)
8. I masturbate less now, (Used to be 21-30 times a week.), I have less hangups, technique changed.
1. Are you male or female? Male
2. How often do you do the deed? Once or Twice a day
3. Are you in a relationship? No
5. Do you believe it improves your performance in the bedroom or not? Irrelevant
6. Focus; does reduced/stopped masturbation decrease or increase your ability to focus on things? If I don't do it, I will want to do it
7. Do you believe that is is harmful or healthy? I.E. Reduce chances of certain cancers, mental health, stress or makes you go blind and grow hair on the palms of your hands? Potentially healthy. Keeps the system running smoothly. Reduces wet-dreams
8. Is it different now opposed to when you were younger? Younger I did it more because it was more exciting. I now have more elitist tastes.
2. How often do you do the deed? Once or Twice a day
3. Are you in a relationship? No
5. Do you believe it improves your performance in the bedroom or not? Irrelevant
6. Focus; does reduced/stopped masturbation decrease or increase your ability to focus on things? If I don't do it, I will want to do it
7. Do you believe that is is harmful or healthy? I.E. Reduce chances of certain cancers, mental health, stress or makes you go blind and grow hair on the palms of your hands? Potentially healthy. Keeps the system running smoothly. Reduces wet-dreams
8. Is it different now opposed to when you were younger? Younger I did it more because it was more exciting. I now have more elitist tastes.
Protip:
Probably don't matter how many times you do it a day.
But when you do it
DON'T GRAB YOUR JUNK HARD WHEN YOU YANK IT
I REPEAT DON'T GRAB YOUR JUNK HARD WHEN YOU YANK IT.
If you do, there is a good chance that you can't come when you do the real thing since you're used to such a high amount of stimulation and the female genital just can't match that amount of pressure, and you have to abstain for days if you ever plan to recover your sensitivity.
DON'T BE A RETARD, DON'T GRAB IT TOO HARD
Probably don't matter how many times you do it a day.
But when you do it
DON'T GRAB YOUR JUNK HARD WHEN YOU YANK IT
I REPEAT DON'T GRAB YOUR JUNK HARD WHEN YOU YANK IT.
If you do, there is a good chance that you can't come when you do the real thing since you're used to such a high amount of stimulation and the female genital just can't match that amount of pressure, and you have to abstain for days if you ever plan to recover your sensitivity.
DON'T BE A RETARD, DON'T GRAB IT TOO HARD
1. Male
2. Not at all, anymore.
3. Engaged
4. Less, infinitely so.
5. Not if you're a virgin, no.
6. It used to be
7. If you've got urges you can't control, it's probably better to do it in moderation to make sure you don't go crazy. There are probably some health benefits, but I'm not a Proctologist so I don't really know much about it.
ASIDE: Chrome dictionary wants to convert Proctologist to Escapologist. VICTORY.
8. Absolutely. When I was younger, I admit I had a problem. But I was a horny little bugger too. Then I had my first relationship and got COMPLETELY screwed over. It lasted two days and half of it was a complete blur. I couldn't even get hard for a few weeks after that. After that the problem doubled in size (har har) and I eventually entered my second relationship...where I got COMPLETELY screwed over yet again. At this point, around 22 years old, I gave it up for good. I decided sex really wasn't worth the risk of taking a rusty hammer to the forehead repeatedly, and I chilled out completely. I found other stuff to think about. I opened a coffee shop after undergrad and invented custom iced tea drinks to be served in martini glasses. I did some improv and volunteered for Habitat for Humanity. I played some really great RPGs and spent time with my family playing World in Flames. Eventually, I met my current lady in med school, and now I definitely don't need it.
2. Not at all, anymore.
3. Engaged
4. Less, infinitely so.
5. Not if you're a virgin, no.
6. It used to be
7. If you've got urges you can't control, it's probably better to do it in moderation to make sure you don't go crazy. There are probably some health benefits, but I'm not a Proctologist so I don't really know much about it.
ASIDE: Chrome dictionary wants to convert Proctologist to Escapologist. VICTORY.
8. Absolutely. When I was younger, I admit I had a problem. But I was a horny little bugger too. Then I had my first relationship and got COMPLETELY screwed over. It lasted two days and half of it was a complete blur. I couldn't even get hard for a few weeks after that. After that the problem doubled in size (har har) and I eventually entered my second relationship...where I got COMPLETELY screwed over yet again. At this point, around 22 years old, I gave it up for good. I decided sex really wasn't worth the risk of taking a rusty hammer to the forehead repeatedly, and I chilled out completely. I found other stuff to think about. I opened a coffee shop after undergrad and invented custom iced tea drinks to be served in martini glasses. I did some improv and volunteered for Habitat for Humanity. I played some really great RPGs and spent time with my family playing World in Flames. Eventually, I met my current lady in med school, and now I definitely don't need it.
Haha, same! I feel like a nun or something. I do have a lot of dirty thoughts, I just don't have much of a need to do anything about it most of the time? Maybe it's because guys have more of a pressing need...Fluffythepoo said:I now feel inadequate for not masturbating enough.. how does one go 7+ a week?
Looking at the results...
Jeez ladies... You are missing out.
I'm honestly not surprised though. Despite what people will tell you, girls in general have far less active sex drives than guys in general, they also have more trouble having orgasms. You hear about it everywhere, how many times do we see a film where guys talk about how they can't make a girl climax? Don't tell me it's because the guy sucks at it, all girls usually do is lie down and take it, which is just as boring for you as it is for us and besides, if you COULD orgasm if the guy was good enough then why don't you ever masturbate and make yourself orgasm? Because you just just can't have fun like guys can, that's why. Yes I know that this doesn't apply to ALL girls but it does apply to ALLOT of girls. Lesbians on the other hand seem to be more in touch with their bodies, I applaud them.
Jeez ladies... You are missing out.
I'm honestly not surprised though. Despite what people will tell you, girls in general have far less active sex drives than guys in general, they also have more trouble having orgasms. You hear about it everywhere, how many times do we see a film where guys talk about how they can't make a girl climax? Don't tell me it's because the guy sucks at it, all girls usually do is lie down and take it, which is just as boring for you as it is for us and besides, if you COULD orgasm if the guy was good enough then why don't you ever masturbate and make yourself orgasm? Because you just just can't have fun like guys can, that's why. Yes I know that this doesn't apply to ALL girls but it does apply to ALLOT of girls. Lesbians on the other hand seem to be more in touch with their bodies, I applaud them.
1. Male
2. Multiple times daily.
3. No
4. Probably
5. No
6. Sometimes when studying I get the urge to jerk it, and if I don't jerk it, I find it hard to concentrate.
7. I think physically it is healthy, however I'm beginning to think that I watch too much porn.
8. I have an easier time accessing porn. So.... yeah..
2. Multiple times daily.
3. No
4. Probably
5. No
6. Sometimes when studying I get the urge to jerk it, and if I don't jerk it, I find it hard to concentrate.
7. I think physically it is healthy, however I'm beginning to think that I watch too much porn.
8. I have an easier time accessing porn. So.... yeah..
I think masturbation is quiet normal in all cultures (at least when you become teenager and older), also masturbation is quiet important to do as it keeps your changes on getting prostate cancer and keeps your reproductive system up and healthy. Also it is a way to keep some sexual needs away for paedophiles and rapists, so you could day its healthy to masturbate xD
First let me get this out of the way:
1. Male
2. On average, 5 times a week
3. Single (ladies)
4. I suppose when I'm in a relationship (and not getting sex) I do it less
5. Yes (I mean I think, it's not like I've been graded)
6. No
7. Sex is healthy, and as far as my body knows it's the same thing
8. Meh, more or less the same
1. Male
2. On average, 5 times a week
3. Single (ladies)
4. I suppose when I'm in a relationship (and not getting sex) I do it less
5. Yes (I mean I think, it's not like I've been graded)
6. No
7. Sex is healthy, and as far as my body knows it's the same thing
8. Meh, more or less the same