Poll: Maximum Children Allowed per Couple

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The real problem with overpopulation is that we have too many old people and not enough young people.

So really the answer is 'have more children and euthanise the old.'

But that would be wrong.
 

Adeptus Aspartem

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If you want to stop the growin' population help the poor countries.

Reduce poverty, empower women in these lands, give them jobs/houses etc. and their birth/deathrate will both drop significantly.

If the world had 2.13 children per mother (thats how its counted) we'd stagnate. In Europe some countries are even under that, just because people are to busy doing other things.
Specially the part of women in society makes a huge diffrence. Basically if they're able to make a career etc. it's less likely that they get children and they'll definitly get less children.

Help the poor. It would solve probably all of our biggest worldwide problems. Except for global warming, that would probably become way worse.
But in the last decade India and China became much stronger countires economic-wise, go figure what happens if those 2 billion guys start to drive a car, use the same amount of electronics etc. as we.
But thats another topic.
 

MammothBlade

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I only want to have two children myself. Having been raised as the older of two children, it's what I'm comfortable with. I wouldn't really be happy having just one child either, partly due to the perception that only children grow up spoilt, partly because it's good to have a sibling. That said a third child is acceptable.
 

lunavixen

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As long as the parents can financially and emotionally support the children there shouldn't be a limit on how many kids a family can have (it's personal choice), personally though I do think any more than 4 is going a bit far, I think 1 or 2 kids is fine.

Our population is already increasing at a large rate, especially since the life expectancy of humans has increased in the last two decades along with a declining death rate in the developed worlds, it's not sustainable in the long run.
 

CrimsonBlaze

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People should be allowed to have as many children as they want, so long as the children are well taken care of, they are given a lot of love and attention to, and are provided with the bare essentials to living a good, healthy life.
 

JanatUrlich

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If the government tried to tell me what I can and can't do with my own fucking womb I would leave the country.

CAPTCA: be nice. NO.
 

Talvrae

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I won't answer that, there should not have a limit period, the state have no business in deciding for us how many children we can have
 

Veldel

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Lucem712 said:
I'd imagine the only way for perfect population control would be structured like the society in 'The Giver', with births being controlled and deaths being controlled as well.
Shudder....

I DONT EVER WANA LIVE IN THAT WORLD....

OT: I think as many as people can handle and afford.
 

Khada

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What's horrible is that stupid people think it's their "right" to have 7 children simply because they are selfish, socially violent idiots.

Finite space, finite resources, FINITE PEOPLE. Either we read a book and learn to curb our spawning habits or starvation, poverty and war will do it for us.

People should aim for a max of 2 children. If you happen to have twins/triplets or adopt then that's fine, it will be countered by the people who don't have children or who only have one.
 

Emperor Nat

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Regardless if I agree with someone's lifestyle, I don't think you should ever put a "max allowed children" law or regulation into place. Because that's where people start to become statistics, and we get incidents similar to those happening in China at the moment.

Edit: That said, I do think it's not sensible to have more children than you're capable of feeding. Personally I'd say that more than 4 kids is probably too much for most parents to handle.
 

Black-Toof

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I agree with Khada.

It's not a matter of whether it should be capped or not, run by the government or not.

It's that PEOPLE should show restraint.
I've said before, having triplets is fine, adopting extra is fine.


As for the argument of as many as they can take care of:
Because a man & woman have large incomes doesn't mean that we suddenly have more room or food, it just means that they can buy that room or food more easily.
Which is great for their children but is essentially puts more demand out from others.

An extreme would be; the scarcity of food is more apparent and therefore richer families are able to buy it whilst poorer families cant.
This is basic laws of 'the Market', as something becomes harder to obtain the price goes up.

And although the above example is an extreme one.
Things can only escalate unless the PEOPLE show restraint.

I'm hearing people saying I came from a large family (I imagine 5 kids) and I want to have the same.
Well that there's the problem, if each child has 5 then Bam! that's 25 new kids.
Each one of those has 5 then that's 125 in 3 generations.
Unlikely sure, but clearly avoidable.

My mother came from a 8 child family, So, YES, my ancestors are responsible too, but I'm a brother of 1 (2 kids family) and plan to only have 2 children. If each of my aunts had 2 children, then that's 14 kids. That's still a 'large family' you just need to socialise with your cousins.
(Although admittedly we don't)

It pretty simple I'd have thought.
 

willsham45

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You cannot tell someone what they can and cannot do in this sort of case, If I want 10 babies that should be for me to want and you to only care about the noise and smell.

The real question on growth is to look at where the biggest population growth is and I will tell you it is not the developed countries. Problems arise when too many people are in one place and they cannot leave it.
 

Tono Makt

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R3dF41c0n said:
I'm in favor of a two child limit however there isn't a way enforce it without infringing on basic human rights.

It would have to be a choice made by the couple. Sadly most people think they live in a vacuum and their actions have no effect on their community, neighbors, and fellow human beings.
This is a similar argument I use in discussions with people who have chosen to have no children; our society in the West is utterly dependent on there being a slightly growing population to pay into the various medical and social programs which the elderly tend to draw on more than younger people. (not their fault that aging tends to make people dependent on others, just the way it is.) So when people choose to have 0 children, they're affecting everyone around them by forcing us to have more children to keep the tax revenue high enough to pay for the services that are needed, or that we will need to take a more risky solution (financially more than anything else) of bringing in enough immigrants to make up for the lack of native-born growth. (the financial risk is that most immigrants cost the country money to bring here; aid for assimilating, learning the language, if relatives like spouses and children come with them they will need aid as well, etc.)

re: OT

As many children as the family want to raise, and can afford to raise. In no way, shape or form do I want any government deciding how many children Mrs. Makt and I can have, or Little Baby Makt(s) can have in the future. Also going to toss my agreement with the posters talking about how countries that have more access to family planning don't need to have any limit set as they limit themselves quite severely (see the preceding paragraph), and there's no real way to control the population of the countries that need population controls except by mass murder, forced abortions/sterilizations, and a damn near totalitarian government.
 

EeveeElectro

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I just wish there was a way to stop those absolutely disgusting and scummy people who talk to their children like shite and smack them about from breeding.
I see them all the time and can't imagine why they'd even want children when it looks like they hate them so much.
I understand kids are stressful and parents can get cranky, but there's no need to talk to them like I've seen them do, especially when the child appears to be doing nothing wrong.

I suppose as long as you can afford it and actually know how to raise a child right, 2 children is a sensible amount IMO.
 

darlarosa

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Buretsu said:
RyuujinZERO said:
Colour-Scientist said:
I think they should be allowed to have as many children as they want to have.
And, where is the spare planet you're going to need to house, feed and supply them?
It's called 'Earth'. There's a LOT of space on Earth that isn't currently being used to house, feed and supply the population. Considering that humanity, even though we number in the billions, currently occupies less than 1/3 the surface area of our planet, there's still plenty of space left.
But we need open land I would think...I mean animals need it, certain forms of fauna and flora...we share the planet with other things.

It's a valid concern, and not entirely unreasonable if it was possible to regulate on a large scale. The population is massive world wide, I think that has had negative impacts and has lead to more communal break own in its own way.

2-3 children makes sense to me. Make couples pay higher taxes for any more kids. Lower he cost of birth control, make adoption easier for people to approach, or some such.

If something dramatic were to happen to the worlds resources it would be something we would have to consider. To us it seems cold, but really its rather reasonable and logical once you remove the sentiment.
 

Brutal Peanut

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If you can house, feed, groom, and clothe ten to twenty children to the age of adulthood without any of my money - then please carry on.

Though, I do like the option of two for myself. You know, if I ever stop disliking children and my body can actually carry any life after one to two months.