Poll: Sex

[Nimcoy27]

oral does not count, anal/regular counts tho.

also, it only counts with opposite gender, if my GF told me she cheated on me w/ a girl id be like "lol, ok."


edit: i want to clarify this right now, im not anti-gay rights or anything, i actually think no one should care if someone is gay or not.

i just wouldn't really care if i was in the above situation.

By your definition homosexuality does not exist because it doesn't count if it is within the same gender. So does it count if it is with a transsexual? Not that I have ever had sex with a transsexual...(leaves room.)

no, that's not what he said at all. What he said was he wouldn't care if his gf cheated on him with another girl, so long as she didn't get with any guys.

hmmm, i think that statement goes on the whole other topic of girl-girl and guy-guy sex. another topic for another day

 

[Nimcoy27]

oral does not count, anal/regular counts tho.

also, it only counts with opposite gender, if my GF told me she cheated on me w/ a girl id be like "lol, ok."


edit: i want to clarify this right now, im not anti-gay rights or anything, i actually think no one should care if someone is gay or not.

i just wouldn't really care if i was in the above situation.

By your definition homosexuality does not exist because it doesn't count if it is within the same gender. So does it count if it is with a transsexual? Not that I have ever had sex with a transsexual...(leaves room.)

no, homosexuality clearly exists. its just....not...sex...

i mean, i dont know, i really would just laugh and say ok if i was in that situation, its like... ok, so you cheated on me w/ a girl...ehh...no you didnt O_O

what about if you went out with another male and had imaginary sex? would she be ok w/ it? thats a... *hits head on desk for getting off topic* sorry, sorry...

 

[Sewblon]

oral does not count, anal/regular counts tho.

also, it only counts with opposite gender, if my GF told me she cheated on me w/ a girl id be like "lol, ok."


edit: i want to clarify this right now, im not anti-gay rights or anything, i actually think no one should care if someone is gay or not.

i just wouldn't really care if i was in the above situation.

By your definition homosexuality does not exist because it doesn't count if it is within the same gender. So does it count if it is with a transsexual? Not that I have ever had sex with a transsexual...(leaves room.)

no, homosexuality clearly exists. its just....not...sex...

i mean, i dont know, i really would just laugh and say ok if i was in that situation, its like... ok, so you cheated on me w/ a girl...ehh...no you didnt O_O

If it is not sex, how is it a sexuality and how do you differentiate homosexuality from hanging out with your friends of the same gender?

 

[Nimcoy27]

oral does not count, anal/regular counts tho.

also, it only counts with opposite gender, if my GF told me she cheated on me w/ a girl id be like "lol, ok."


edit: i want to clarify this right now, im not anti-gay rights or anything, i actually think no one should care if someone is gay or not.

i just wouldn't really care if i was in the above situation.

By your definition homosexuality does not exist because it doesn't count if it is within the same gender. So does it count if it is with a transsexual? Not that I have ever had sex with a transsexual...(leaves room.)

no, homosexuality clearly exists. its just....not...sex...

i mean, i dont know, i really would just laugh and say ok if i was in that situation, its like... ok, so you cheated on me w/ a girl...ehh...no you didnt O_O

If it is not sex, how is it a sexuality and how do you differentiate homosexuality from hanging out with your friends of the same gender?

no offence, but we just wanna drop the subject of him not agreeing with homosexual contact in context and... well, whatever. just get back on topic

so: what do you define as sex?

 

[Sewblon]

oral does not count, anal/regular counts tho.

also, it only counts with opposite gender, if my GF told me she cheated on me w/ a girl id be like "lol, ok."


edit: i want to clarify this right now, im not anti-gay rights or anything, i actually think no one should care if someone is gay or not.

i just wouldn't really care if i was in the above situation.

By your definition homosexuality does not exist because it doesn't count if it is within the same gender. So does it count if it is with a transsexual? Not that I have ever had sex with a transsexual...(leaves room.)

no, homosexuality clearly exists. its just....not...sex...

i mean, i dont know, i really would just laugh and say ok if i was in that situation, its like... ok, so you cheated on me w/ a girl...ehh...no you didnt O_O

what about if you went out with another male and had imaginary sex? would she be ok w/ it? thats a... *hits head on desk for getting off topic* sorry, sorry...

That patently does not count as sex, it just gives her the right to imagine dumping him.

 

[TriggerUnhappy]

Hope this thread does get pulled, cheers!

You do want this thread to get locked? T_T

 

[Nimcoy27]

oral does not count, anal/regular counts tho.

also, it only counts with opposite gender, if my GF told me she cheated on me w/ a girl id be like "lol, ok."


edit: i want to clarify this right now, im not anti-gay rights or anything, i actually think no one should care if someone is gay or not.

i just wouldn't really care if i was in the above situation.

By your definition homosexuality does not exist because it doesn't count if it is within the same gender. So does it count if it is with a transsexual? Not that I have ever had sex with a transsexual...(leaves room.)

no, homosexuality clearly exists. its just....not...sex...

i mean, i dont know, i really would just laugh and say ok if i was in that situation, its like... ok, so you cheated on me w/ a girl...ehh...no you didnt O_O

what about if you went out with another male and had imaginary sex? would she be ok w/ it? thats a... *hits head on desk for getting off topic* sorry, sorry...

That patently does not count as sex, it just gives her the right to imagine dumping him.

It's a good right to have, especially since telling your boyfriend you decided to screw another girl is not an "aunt i hot" thing, its more over a "hey im a lesbian, sorry!"

 

[Nimcoy27]

Hope this thread does get pulled, cheers!

You do want this thread to get locked? T_T

gah! i meant doesn't, DOESN'T!!!!!!

 

[Thunderhorse31]

Most people who would separate oral/anal sex from "conventional vaginal intercourse" are just looking for an excuse to get laid while still maintaining their "virginity." You can't have your cake and eat it too.

 

[RebootBlue]

The actual definition of sex, is sexual intercourse with a man or a woman.

This means penetration of a penis into a vagina. Everything else is just called "sticking your dick into whatever hole it fits into."

That's how it is.

 

[TriggerUnhappy]

Hope this thread does get pulled, cheers!

You do want this thread to get locked? T_T

gah! i meant doesn't, DOESN'T!!!!!!

I figured as much, based on the tone of your response. It's an honest mistake, I've done it before. Back OT though, I sense derailment coming soon...

I never put my definition of sex, so I figure I'll put it now. I consider any sexual act between 2 people as being sex, but only sexual acts meaning I exclude things such as kissing. Still, I also believe that one does not truly lose their virginity until they have actual penetration, except for homosexual couples which I'm not quite sure about. I guess anything sexual would count as losing their virginity for them, at least in my book.

 

[Nimcoy27]

The actual definition of sex, is sexual intercourse with a man or a woman.

This means penetration of a penis into a vagina. Everything else is just called "sticking your dick into whatever hole it fits into."

That's how it is.

I think we need to define a few words here:

Sexual Activity
Sexual Intercourse
Sex
and at what point have you "had sex"?

 

[vampirekid.13]

oral does not count, anal/regular counts tho.

also, it only counts with opposite gender, if my GF told me she cheated on me w/ a girl id be like "lol, ok."


edit: i want to clarify this right now, im not anti-gay rights or anything, i actually think no one should care if someone is gay or not.

i just wouldn't really care if i was in the above situation.

By your definition homosexuality does not exist because it doesn't count if it is within the same gender. So does it count if it is with a transsexual? Not that I have ever had sex with a transsexual...(leaves room.)

no, homosexuality clearly exists. its just....not...sex...

i mean, i dont know, i really would just laugh and say ok if i was in that situation, its like... ok, so you cheated on me w/ a girl...ehh...no you didnt O_O

If it is not sex, how is it a sexuality and how do you differentiate homosexuality from hanging out with your friends of the same gender?

i think i just worded everything wrong.

i know homosexuality exists obviously, and its sex, clearly.

if my gf was to cheat on me with a girl and i got dumped for a girl, i clearly would be pissed.

if my gf goes "oh im bi-sexual and did it w/ a girl last night" but isnt necessarily dumping me over it i wouldnt be...mad...i mean if i dont get dumped and its same sex adventure i wouldnt be mad/hurt/pissed over it.

 

[The Infamous Scamola]

I subscribe to the Bill Clinton school of thought. Any kind of penetration is sex proper, while other things (oral, handjob) are just sexual "acts" so to speak.

 

[Sewblon]

oral does not count, anal/regular counts tho.

also, it only counts with opposite gender, if my GF told me she cheated on me w/ a girl id be like "lol, ok."


edit: i want to clarify this right now, im not anti-gay rights or anything, i actually think no one should care if someone is gay or not.

i just wouldn't really care if i was in the above situation.

By your definition homosexuality does not exist because it doesn't count if it is within the same gender. So does it count if it is with a transsexual? Not that I have ever had sex with a transsexual...(leaves room.)

no, homosexuality clearly exists. its just....not...sex...

i mean, i dont know, i really would just laugh and say ok if i was in that situation, its like... ok, so you cheated on me w/ a girl...ehh...no you didnt O_O

If it is not sex, how is it a sexuality and how do you differentiate homosexuality from hanging out with your friends of the same gender?

i think i just worded everything wrong.

i know homosexuality exists obviously, and its sex, clearly.

if my gf was to cheat on me with a girl and i got dumped for a girl, i clearly would be pissed.

if my gf goes "oh im bi-sexual and did it w/ a girl last night" but isnt necessarily dumping me over it i wouldnt be...mad...i mean if i dont get dumped and its same sex adventure i wouldnt be mad/hurt/pissed over it.

You wouldn't be mad at her for not inviting you? You are a larger man than I.

 

[Nimcoy27]

except for homosexual couples which I'm not quite sure about. I guess anything sexual would count as losing their virginity for them, at least in my book.

for homosexual couples i would say that any prolonged sexual contact ment to stimulate pleasure in the other counts for them becoming sexually active



and i think what this topic needs is that there is a ton of gray area. there is no explit definition for when u've had sex and when you haven't, its all muddled up.

but to answer your question Trigg, i think that a person who does not believe in pre-marital sex should not have sexual contact with another. period. (minus kissing). If someone the did not believe in Pre-marital sex and performed sexual activities that are not vaginal intercourse (ie giving/receiving fellatio, "handjobs" or "fingering") then they have gone against it and don't truly believe what their preaching.

 

[deletemeplease107]

I dont understand this...

Why do people love anal? i just dont understand...

 

[vampirekid.13]

oral does not count, anal/regular counts tho.

also, it only counts with opposite gender, if my GF told me she cheated on me w/ a girl id be like "lol, ok."


edit: i want to clarify this right now, im not anti-gay rights or anything, i actually think no one should care if someone is gay or not.

i just wouldn't really care if i was in the above situation.

By your definition homosexuality does not exist because it doesn't count if it is within the same gender. So does it count if it is with a transsexual? Not that I have ever had sex with a transsexual...(leaves room.)

no, homosexuality clearly exists. its just....not...sex...

i mean, i dont know, i really would just laugh and say ok if i was in that situation, its like... ok, so you cheated on me w/ a girl...ehh...no you didnt O_O

If it is not sex, how is it a sexuality and how do you differentiate homosexuality from hanging out with your friends of the same gender?

i think i just worded everything wrong.

i know homosexuality exists obviously, and its sex, clearly.

if my gf was to cheat on me with a girl and i got dumped for a girl, i clearly would be pissed.

if my gf goes "oh im bi-sexual and did it w/ a girl last night" but isnt necessarily dumping me over it i wouldnt be...mad...i mean if i dont get dumped and its same sex adventure i wouldnt be mad/hurt/pissed over it.

You wouldn't be mad at her for not inviting you? You are a larger man than I.

id ask if i could join next time.


but other than that, i really would fail to feel threatened by someone that isnt the opposite sex.

thats IT. IM NOT THREATENED. thats what i was trying to express. id prolly straight out tell her i dont care if its w/ a girl as long as i dont get dumped over it, and i get to potentially join if she talks the other girl into it. heh.

 

[TriggerUnhappy]

but to answer your question Trigg, i think that a person who does not believe in pre-marital sex should not have sexual contact with another. period. (minus kissing). If someone the did not believe in Pre-marital sex and performed sexual activities that are not vaginal intercourse (ie giving/receiving fellatio, "handjobs" or "fingering") then they have gone against it and don't truly believe what their preaching.

My thoughts exactly, but I guess she thinks that it "doesn't count" or something.

 

[RebootBlue]

The actual definition of sex, is sexual intercourse with a man or a woman.

This means penetration of a penis into a vagina. Everything else is just called "sticking your dick into whatever hole it fits into."

That's how it is.

I think we need to define a few words here:

Sexual Activity
Sexual Intercourse
Sex
and at what point have you "had sex"?

I never said I have had sex.

Here are your definitions

Sex

Spoiler

?noun
1. either the male or female division of a species, esp. as differentiated with reference to the reproductive functions.
2. the sum of the structural and functional differences by which the male and female are distinguished, or the phenomena or behavior dependent on these differences.
3. the instinct or attraction drawing one sex toward another, or its manifestation in life and conduct.
4. coitus.
5. genitalia.
?verb (used with object)
6. to ascertain the sex of, esp. of newly-hatched chicks.
?Verb phrase
7. sex up, Informal.
a. to arouse sexually: The only intent of that show was to sex up the audience.
b. to increase the appeal of; to make more interesting, attractive, or exciting: We've decided to sex up the movie with some battle scenes.
?Idiom
8. to have sex, to engage in sexual intercourse.

Sexual Intercourse

Spoiler

?noun
genital contact, esp. the insertion of the penis into the vagina followed by orgasm; coitus; copulation.

Sexual Activity

Spoiler

noun
activities associated with sexual intercourse; "they had sex in the back seat"

Anything else you want defined?