Poll: So... I think I like fat chicks.

[Rule Britannia]

You might just have low self esteem . joking...or not...joking...or not...yeah not joking.

If it's not low self esteem then I beg you, if you end up being with a "fat chick" for the rest of your life, don't be the arsehole who buys fatty foods to make her fatter, not cool.

 

[zelda2fanboy]

You might just have low self esteem . joking...or not...joking...or not...yeah not joking.

If it's not low self esteem then I beg you, if you end up being with a "fat chick" for the rest of your life, don't be the arsehole who buys fatty foods to make her fatter, not cool.

Ok, maybe I do have a low self esteem. Doesn't mean I didn't have a really good time with these luscious ladies back when they still talked to me . I also don't attach my sense of self worth around the body of the person I'm dating either. So if I do find myself in a good relationship with a nice heavy girl (or skinny girl), I'm not going to care what anyone else thinks.

And yeah, one of the women in question did have an ex boyfriend who attempted to "fatten her up." Whatever his reasons, it was a jerk move.

 

[ChaoticKraus]

Well thats good, it all comes down to your individual preferences after all.

Personally i think fat is extremely unsightly and a full-blown fat person undressed results in low-key nausea for me. I can't even remember all the times i have been demonized for this opinion both online and offline, appearantly i'm an anorexia supporter.

 

[Soxafloppin]

Its not unusual and probably a good thing since they usually have nice personalities!

 

[iseeyouthere]

My opinion: Meh.

@OP
You earnt a song.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2pW1BRiuwPI

 

[Eventidal]

I'm not into full-on obese, but a good amount of pudge is really good. I know a girl who's super skinny and hot and she's the friendly hugging sort. She's so bony and tough, I can't imagine sex would be very comfortable.

Ok, I'm hardly a judge of normal sexuality, considering I prefer masturbation to sex, have a lot of strange fetishes and like to be the smaller, weaker one... but yeah. There's my viewpoint, anyway.

 

[Devil'sAdvocate]

Fat chicks are great! I love how their whole body wobbles as you're thrusting them! Especially the one's with a tubby face and multiple chins, you know, the BIG fat ones! When they give you an enthusiastic BJ their face moves like jelly!!

But seriously. The reason you like fat chicks is because you have told yourself that you're a worthless piece of shit who can't get any from the pretty ones. That sounds harsh, mainly because it is but it is also very likely: You were probably raised in the west, where boys are socialised (i.e. moulded into a social being with a "pre-fab" world view, shared within your social circles) that fat is ugly. Even if you have picked up a fat chick fetish - and no there is nothing wrong with that - you will still realise that what you are sexually attracted to is uncommon in comparison to those around you - you wouldn't be looking for conformation on a forum otherwise.

So, think long and hard about whether you like to poke the pork because bacon floats your raft and lifts your rod. OR(!!!) because you are, yet another, self-loathing piece of garbage who just feels so sad for himself that the "pwetty girls lauged at you in school" and has resorted to the "I take what I can get" philosophy which, incidentally, is just the end cycle to a self-fulfilling profecy: yes, now you are a worthless loser.

But hey! perhaps you loooooooooooooove fat chicks. Great! There is tons of'em! Also means you don't have to go to bars or clubs, you can just get laid by standing in line at the Maccy-D! You could pick up girls with line like:

(you)"Well hello there beautiful, I saw you "nibbling" (fat-code for "stuffing your porking face-hole") with that sweet chicken you got there and I got to thinking... would she suck the grease from my bone?
(her) "*giggle, oh well, nobody ever talks to me because I am so greedy and spoiled by the fact that I grew up in an consumerist environment that I have come to believe that, when I'm sad, I can feel better by stretching my bowels beyond its capacity!.... So yeah I'll do anything for the slightest possibility to pretend to myself that someone is actually interested in ME, rather than being honest to myself and realising that this person just wants to get me in bed because then he will feel less then TOTALLY useless."

Oh man, that's hot! Can't stop touching myself!

 

[Slayer_2]

So it's clear, I'm overweight and I put offensive. Not your post, which I think is kind of sweet, or at least honest. Rather that this has to be asked at all. You're sexually attracted to a consenting person of appropriate age who isn't related to you. And?

Of course it's normal.

Society encourages men (and women, to a lesser extent) to only be attracted to slim and fit people. My friends constantly give me grief if I so much as look at a girl under their rating of "8". It gets bad enough that I try to lose them at clubs and parties if I'm getting somewhere with a girl who's weight is over 140 pounds. That or get cock-blocked repeatedly by them over the course of the night, or if I'm lucky, simply get a bunch of texts containing "GRENADE!".

So I'll have sex with a girl heavier than me, does that open me up for a bunch of ridicule? Apparently. Ironically, my female friends are the worst for this. The guys are bad, but if I really start going in for the kill, they usually back off, where as my chick friends have no issue with directly intervening when I'm getting ready to try to take someone home. Plus they always play the "you aren't that bad, you can do way better" card, which makes them sound shallow, at best.

EDIT, Captcha: "bless you", thanks man.

 

[applesandoranges]

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[Colour Scientist]

It's presumably gay men rather than women who like guy on guy. Generally, girls don't get off to two men the same way men get off to two women.

This is so not true it hurts. While not for me personally, I have learned a bit about it from friends. Boy's Love genre is almost painfully popular. What is that you ask? Here is a TvTropes page.
http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/BoysLoveGenre?from=Main.BoysLove

Anyway, after that extremely off topic link...

That would come under hentai rather than gay porn. Boy's Love genre, or whatever you want to call it, is a whole different kettle of fish to the strict sense of man-on-man porn. I'm talking about regular porn that happens to have two men fucking than a man and a woman.

What you're talking about is essentially erotica with two men and erotica has always been popular with women.

 

[applesandoranges]

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[DugMachine]

I've dated a chubby girl once and they're pretty nice to cuddle with but no there is nothing wrong with dating chubby girls. You're attracted to whatever it is that you want and who gives a fuck what society says is acceptable.

 

[Slayer_2]

This is incredibly depressing. I feel that if you want to pursue someone while reasonably sober, your friends should not be trying to stop you.

Perhaps you need to try clubbing with different people? Or looking in places other than clubs?

My personal set of friends wouldn't do this. The sort of people who would are most likely not going to become my friend in the first place. They could find "way better" friends, after all.

I'm not always reasonably sober, I'm usually either sloshed or dead sober (DD). As for looking elsewhere, where else would you look for a one night hookup? Likely not anywhere I frequent. I'm not really looking for a relationship.

They think they're looking out for me, and they do mean well, it's just very shallow and irritating, I mean, who likes being cockblocked, unless it's your crazy ex or something.

EDIT: Also, girls like guy on guy porn? Really?!

 

[Chicago Ted]

This is the second time in the past 24 hours that I've seen threads on here where people are attempting to justify what gets them off. I for one can't be alone in thinking:

[HEADING=1]WE DO NOT CARE.[/HEADING]

If you like it, fine, go for it, I'm not going to stand in your way, stop you or say it's wrong. I might disagree with you but by no means will I impose upon it, and I'm certain that they majority of society will do the same.

What I don't enjoy seeing though is people going on and announcing what turns them on, and attempting to justify their attraction to everyone else, or making it very public knowledge. It's the exact same reason why I despise furries who completely flaunt the whole... thing (I have no idea how to describe it, genre, obsession, whatever floats your boat). I'm all for privacy in the bedroom, do what you want in there, but please, keep it locked in there and don't air it in the open.

 

[The White Hunter]

How overweight do you mean?

Because theres a big difference between overweight (my own girlfriend is a bit overweight and i think she looks much better than skinny girls do) and "fat". I mean are talking a couple pounds or 10 stone?

If the former: that is pretty normal. If the latter: Hey what you like is what you like dude, and as a wise friend of mine once said "find a fold and fuck it".

Edit: I put call me. Just because there was no "I am indifferent" option.

 

[AppleMuffin]

I'm fairly skinny. In my two sexual experiences to date, I've been with women who were significantly heavier than I am. At first, I didn't know if I'd like it or if I'd even be attracted to an overweight individual. I was wrong. Everything society told me about how I should feel about people with these body types was incorrect. It was awesome. I'm kind of thinking I prefer it. There's something [http://www.best-handheld-vacuum.net/] tactile about the softness, the flab, the weight, the small folds, and the disproportionate size that just turns me on. It feels more feminine somehow.

I'm not saying I only like fat girls. I'm definitely not saying all the girls I've ever been attracted to were fat. I don't think I was attracted to these girls merely because I thought I could "get with them" because of low self esteem. I'm not saying I like all fat girls. I still don't think I've been with someone who would qualify as "morbidly obese" yet. I have never been with a skinny girl, so I'm not even sure if that would be substantially different. An overweight coworker was telling me awhile back that he had reservations about dating a woman who was chunkier than what he was used to. I had to tell him that I used to feel the same way, but "dude, you don't even know..."

With all the emphasis society and women themselves place on weight gain/loss, I feel like a bit of weirdo. Then again, I don't think it's a full on "fetish" either. Basically, a woman's body type has a limited effect on how I feel about that person and with some of the things I've heard guys say, that seems out of the ordinary for my gender. Is this normal? Have any other posters seen the light?

You've never been with a fit, athletic chick (or anything else other than fat), so you're not really in any place to say what you "prefer". You enjoyed it, that's all. If you've never had 7 up, you can't "prefer" coke simply because that's all you've had.

Get some more experience under your belt and you can talk about it.

 

[Mindless1]

I've always felt that fat cells give the bodily defination to what we know as 'Woman.' Hips, waist, gluttious maximus, breast, and thighs. With out the 'extra' weight and bone structure there you'd just be looking at a man who has the sexual anatomy of two x chromosomes. It comes down to personal prefrence, it really does. There are some girls who can wear their extra weight well, some the proportions may just baffle you. The things is beauty is beauty, and we see it every day. Who are we to judge what is the perfect body type, especially when it deviates into sexual perversion. Alot has to do with the times as well, I mean look at the portrait of Venus, she by no means looks like what we see walking down the cat walk. In the fifties the model body type of pin ups were only 2% under what the body fat index was supposed to be, and that body type is consider chubby now. Times have change, and really I think we just need to open our eyes to what is really in front of ourselves.

 

[applesandoranges]

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