Poll: Try or Not Try?

[Kriptonite]

I personally think this kind of thing is situational. Depends on the people involved.

 

[Dahni]

nice wee contrast there.

As has already been said, there is no try. I suggest finding a balance. Only ask out a girl if you genuinely like her, and not just for the sake of having a girlfriend. You'll be far more successful like that.

Your friend will likely build a reputation for himself as the kind of guy who'll ask out anyone with a vagina. I say that you casually mention that to him.

 

[Aerodynamic]

Honestly, coming from a guy who has never had a real girlfriend before and has been rejected constantly, just do it, there is nothing to lose.

 

[Big_Blue824]

Do it, regrets are bad, etc.

 

[ottenni]

Do it, i mean you don't have to do it strait away. You can wait a while and get comfortable with the person.

 

[IxionIndustries]

I don't really go up and ask girls, since I'm extremely shy, and can never know what to say.

The ironic thing is, is that I have a few friends who are girls, and I can talk about some of the strangest shit with them.

I guess I just can't talk to 'em if my mindset is to ask them out.

 

[CouchCommando]

I've got a dating theory, it goes some thing like, your at a fruit stand and that fruit stand isn't really getting restocked that often, as you time passes by, the good fruit is all getting snapped up, and if you dally too much into your middle age you'll end up with some kind of bruised up banged up piece of shit with all kinds of reasons for not measuring up to your own or other people standards.
That and practice makes perfect sounds like your mate is stealing a march on you there in the personal development stakes.

 

[MR T3D]

do, or do not.
there is no try.

Ha, ten bucks says you didn't even read the poll before posting, based solely on the title.

oh me a tenner then, chap!

 

[Pegghead]

Better to have asked and been rejected than to have not asked at all.

 

[BonsaiK]

Me and my friend got in a discussion about girls and that he has asked many girls out, but he was rejected. I, on the other hand don't ask girls out since I just like to chill with my friends. Anyways, is it better to ask girls out and get rejected, or not ask them out at all?

Answered: http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161-Relationship-problem-thread?page=25#5141966

 

[Gunner 51]

I think the phrase "Nothing ventured, nothing gained" springs to mind when it comes to girls. If you don't ask them out - they'll never think of going out with you. (On the grounds that they think you don't fancy 'em.)

 

[Vigilantis]

do, or do not.
there is no try.

aww you beat me to it =(

Uhm depends if you get the girl in the end, if your as good as I am the women come to you instead.

(I'm very lonely)