I dislike furries; not because they have a sexual fetish, but because they make it part of their lifestyle. They expect other people to smile and nod when they tell them.
Do you see foot fetish game servers? BSDM game servers or conventions? People would be disgusted by that
No, you don't. Why should furries expect people NOT to be disgusted by their fetish?
If they have a fetish, they should keep it to themselves and/or other people that share the fetish, rather than shoving it in everyone's faces.