Ok, my mistake. Now that think about it though, that kind of thing does come under keeping it to other people with the same interest.Labyrinth said:BDSM conventions do exist.
(FYI, I am not part of that 'Vanilla' group,' but I keep what specific stuff I like to myself because "normal" people wouldn't like it. It's not necessary to reveal that kind of thing.Labyrinth said:snip
Out of curiosity, exactly what do you mean by 'unnatural', and what do you mean by degrees of 'unnaturalness'? I feel this is very relevant to your pejorative claims about fetishes.Legendsmith said:Snip
I'm not the judge of that. You ask any "normal" person if furry fetishism is natural and they will tell you that it is not. Same with foot fetish, vore, tentacle fetish, inflation and everything else.Labyrinth said:Out of curiosity, exactly what do you mean by 'unnatural', and what do you mean by degrees of 'unnaturalness'? I feel this is very relevant to your pejorative claims about fetishes.Legendsmith said:Snip
Problem there is that I've never heard a justifiable definition of "natural" or "unnatural", hence my question.Legendsmith said:Snip
And that kinda sucks. I love furry art, but I don't want to be categorized under the same label as the fursuiters or lifestylers. Not that I have anything against them, it's just not me.ultimateownage said:I've seen furries call a 'yiffer' a 'furvert'. I've seen the furry community, and I'm not all that sure that the furries themselves are even on the same level with their names. A lot of furries call things by different names, and most non furries just put them under the all-encompassing title of 'furry'. Hell, I've seen some furries call all of them furries.CarlMinez said:Well furries can hardly be blamed for that. They can't help what people choose to label as furries or not. If you were to dig into the fandom, you'd find that most furries don't even use that word anywhere near as often as absolutely everyone else who speaks of "furries". A fursuiter is not called a furry. A person who likes furry porn is called a yiffer. And so forth.
From what I saw from the community, a lot of them had their own ideas what they were. A lot of them assumed their fellow furries had Fursonas, Fursuits, and Furry Fetishes without ever knowing about them. They just assumed, because those three things are what Furry means to them.
Okay, that's true. I just meant that even though we all call ourselves furries, we have many different "categorizes" within the fandom. At least Furaffinity forums. But that forum is scaryDexiro said:Umm not sure which part of the fandom you were looking into xD We call everyone in the fandom furries. I've never heard the term "yiffer", and fursuiters are still called furries.CarlMinez said:Well furries can hardly be blamed for that. They can't help what people choose to label as furries or not. If you were to dig into the fandom, you'd find that most furries don't even use that word anywhere near as often as absolutely everyone else who speaks of "furries". A fursuiter is not called a furry. A person who likes furry porn is called a yiffer. And so forth.ultimateownage said:Which having 3 (and more) definitions that go with the word furry, all in the same culture, is confusing as shit. And really, a lot of the hate stems from that misunderstanding.CarlMinez said:People who like anthropomorphic animals = furriesultimateownage said:The people who like them, or the anthropomorphic animals? Or the people who dress in suits? Or the people turned on by them?
That's what annoys me. get your damn definitions straight Furries, and then we'll talk. The fact that a lot of them seem to act like being a furry changes their personality in any way gets on my nerves.
Other than that, I don't care what they do or do like.
People who dress up in fursuits = furries
People who are attracted to fursuits = furries
It's not more complex than that. Other than that many furries hate fursuiters and vice versa.
So how many physical animal features can you add to a human before it becomes an animal? Obviously less than five, according to you. But more than two? I dunno, I guess the whole thing sounds silly to me, at this point. An animal with human features would be like a werewolf or something, something animalistic inside. You hear people in movies go up to psychopaths and say things like `you're not human,' but by your reasoning that doesn't make any sense either because they sure do look human. Being human comes from human abilities, not human appearance. Your line of thought, that `it doesn't look exactly like me so it's not human,' is what got white supremacy started, and we all know how well that turned out. The thing is, being human comes from the ability to think, to understand, to be self-aware, to be intelligent, to speak, things like that. Even if an anthropomorph looks no different from an animal, if it can still think like a human and talk like a human, it's effectively a human. The only differences is it's a hell of a lot cuter than a human.Troublesome Lagomorph said:Compare: something shaped like a human but with nearly all animal features and a human with a feature or two? Same thing? They're both anthropomorphism, but one is clearly VERY far on the animal side of the spectrum. Far enough, I'd say, to just call it an animal.DarthFennec said:Alright then, they're fake. I'm pretty sure I put that qualifier in thereTroublesome Lagomorph said:Oh really. I didn't realize mechanical implants were anthro.DarthFennec said:... No? You have an anthropomorphic animal as your avatar, do you consider it an animal? I don't, I think it's a human with animal features and characteristics. Which is exactly what we're talking about. ... unless she's just got fake ears, but I assume not.Troublesome Lagomorph said:Don't like them at all. I find them fugly and consider it bestiality.
After all, they ARE animals, are they not?
Also, furriness extends beyond sex, there's a lot more to it than just the fetish. Saying that furries are gross because bestiality is like saying otaku are gross because tentacle rape, or I could compare it to any number of other fandoms out there. I could say all preschool teachers are pedophiles and it would make just as much sense.
There are a lot of anime where the ears and tail are things are real. What's your opinion on those?
Basically its the difference between animal with human features and human with animal features.
You're completely right, but sadly misinformed. Fur is a fandom. If I'm furry, that means I'm a fan of something. Yes, there is a sexual fetish that comes with that most of the time, but that's a very small part of the fandom, and there's a lot more to it than that. It's a bit like being lgbt in that respect: there's a whole community involved, and a whole mindset involved. There's a large social aspect to being furry. That's what we're talking about when we tell people we're furry. I agree that furs should keep the fetish to themselves, it's just common courtesy. But that doesn't mean they should keep the entire fandom a secret.Legendsmith said:I dislike furries; not because they have a sexual fetish, but because they make it part of their lifestyle. They expect other people to smile and nod when they tell them.
Do you see foot fetish game servers? BSDM game servers or conventions? People would be disgusted by that
No, you don't. Why should furries expect people NOT to be disgusted by their fetish?
If they have a fetish, they should keep it to themselves and/or other people that share the fetish, rather than shoving it in everyone's faces.
How is it lying? Every fandom has their fair share of assholes, this one's no different.Bags159 said:I keep hearing about how there are all of these furries running around shoving what they like in everybody's face and I've yet to meet one. Funny how these things work out.PoisonUnagi said:I never said they do, I said they might. There's a ton of people in the furry community who'll shove everything in your face at every turn, and there's really nothing stopping them from ruining the brony community's rep at this point.Bags159 said:Because you said they make us all look like douche bags with no factual basis on which to make said claim; you were intolerant.PoisonUnagi said:Okay, can you explain THAT to me?Bags159 said:You know, I think the only one making our community look bad is you, because you're acting like a douche.PoisonUnagi said:Well, if they start to get all through the brony community making us all look like total douchebags and furrinating ponies at every turn. It's dangerously close to happening :\Bags159 said:"In the way of the brony community"PoisonUnagi said:Indifferent, but if their fetish gets in the way of the brony community then I'll be right pissed.
Can you explain that to me?
(for the record, i'm in both communities here .-.)
So either prove that furries run around doing this or stop lying.
You are not substantiating your claims at all. I have not met a self proclaimed furry who I found to be an asshole; like I said, I found a furry TF2 server to be politer than the average server. Until you can prove to me that the average furry would "get in the way" of our bronydom I call bull. Can you at least explain how furries can "get in the way" of the mlp fandom?PoisonUnagi said:How is it lying? Every fandom has their fair share of assholes, this one's no different.Bags159 said:I keep hearing about how there are all of these furries running around shoving what they like in everybody's face and I've yet to meet one. Funny how these things work out.PoisonUnagi said:I never said they do, I said they might. There's a ton of people in the furry community who'll shove everything in your face at every turn, and there's really nothing stopping them from ruining the brony community's rep at this point.Bags159 said:Because you said they make us all look like douche bags with no factual basis on which to make said claim; you were intolerant.PoisonUnagi said:Okay, can you explain THAT to me?Bags159 said:You know, I think the only one making our community look bad is you, because you're acting like a douche.PoisonUnagi said:Well, if they start to get all through the brony community making us all look like total douchebags and furrinating ponies at every turn. It's dangerously close to happening :\Bags159 said:"In the way of the brony community"PoisonUnagi said:Indifferent, but if their fetish gets in the way of the brony community then I'll be right pissed.
Can you explain that to me?
(for the record, i'm in both communities here .-.)
So either prove that furries run around doing this or stop lying.
And I'm not saying that all furries are assholes, just alot of them.
... I honestly have no idea what this is supposed to mean. Get in the way? Like, if the furs infiltrated our boards and started fapping to Fluttershy and that scared us away by the thousands? Or if some fur in a pony suit went off and raped and killed Faust? What the hell are you afraid of happening? Internet communities don't get killed off all that easily, and ours is no different. Also remember that the furry fandom has an uncomfortably large amount of suicidal teen angst, and the bronies started out as 4chan trolls, so I think if they try anything we can take them 9_9PoisonUnagi said:Indifferent, but if their fetish gets in the way of the brony community then I'll be right pissed.
I think you've taken this completely the wrong way. I'm vaguely furry myself, but it's no secret that there's a ton of fetishy assholes in the furry community and it's well within their power to label themselves as bronies, be the fetishy assholes that they are and give the bronies a horribly bad rep. I'm not saying that all furries are assholes, because I know plenty of awesome ones, but it's a very possible scenario.DarthFennec said:snippity
Well that pretty much IS what I'm saying. As for "getting in the way", well I explained that in reply to Fennec.Bags159 said:snippity
You are not substantiating your claims at all. I have not met a self proclaimed furry who I found to be an asshole; like I said, I found a furry TF2 server to be politer than the average server. Until you can prove to me that the average furry would "get in the way" of our bronydom I call bull. Can you at least explain how furries can "get in the way" of the mlp fandom?
Sounds more like you have a problem with certain individuals of the furry fandom, in which case wouldn't it be more accurate to claim that they would ruin the MLP fandom?
Hmm ... actually I think I do see what you mean now. I guess I agree, I mean that's exactly what happened to the Sonic fandom. Sonic used to be great at one point, the whole Nintendon't thing (best console war ever, by the way), but then some poor autistic furry fetishist blokes like Chris Chan and Guptill89 turned the whole fandom into trollbait. Yes, I agree, I think I would be angry if that happened to the bronies too, but it would be a very defeated sort of anger. If someone attracts that kind of troll attention, they're probably the kind of person who can't help it, so I wouldn't really be mad at them. I guess if it's going to happen, there's nothing we can really do about it. I think I'll just hope it doesn't, then, and not dwell on it.PoisonUnagi said:I think you've taken this completely the wrong way. I'm vaguely furry myself, but it's no secret that there's a ton of fetishy assholes in the furry community and it's well within their power to label themselves as bronies, be the fetishy assholes that they are and give the bronies a horribly bad rep. I'm not saying that all furries are assholes, because I know plenty of awesome ones, but it's a very possible scenario.