Poll: What should I do?

[s0denone]

Just because you are emotionally ready doesn't mean they are deal with and don't expect them to just spread there legs because it's what you want.

I'm a man and I do have a sex drive, it's called patience when she's ready she will let it be known and not before and I wont force the issue because I care.

While there is the personal variable, obviously, I would expect to get action before 3 months have passed, which is the case with the OP.

Sex is legal for their age, so I don't see the problem at all.

I'm not saying sex is mandatory on the first date... But I am saying it should be getting close* on the third/fourth.

*should be happening.

So regardless oh you felt about the person you would leave them if they hadn't sex with you after say 4 or 5 months? and you think that's acceptable behavior?

Yes.
Why does this surprise you?
Sex isn't revered anymore - it isn't, as stated, special anymore. It's sex. It's fun and games. Of course I want sex in a relationship. What are you talking about 4 or 5 months? I would be out of there in less than 2, excuse me.

 

[darkless]

Just because you are emotionally ready doesn't mean they are deal with and don't expect them to just spread there legs because it's what you want.

I'm a man and I do have a sex drive, it's called patience when she's ready she will let it be known and not before and I wont force the issue because I care.

While there is the personal variable, obviously, I would expect to get action before 3 months have passed, which is the case with the OP.

Sex is legal for their age, so I don't see the problem at all.

I'm not saying sex is mandatory on the first date... But I am saying it should be getting close* on the third/fourth.

*should be happening.

So regardless oh you felt about the person you would leave them if they hadn't sex with you after say 4 or 5 months? and you think that's acceptable behavior?

Yes.
Why does this surprise you?
Sex isn't revered anymore - it isn't, as stated, special anymore. It's sex. It's fun and games. Of course I want sex in a relationship. What are you talking about 4 or 5 months? I would be out of there in less than 2, excuse me.

just because it's not special for you doesn't mean its not special for the girl you are stringing along just so you can into her pants god help you if you ever fall for a girl who can't have sex.

 

[s0denone]

So regardless oh you felt about the person you would leave them if they hadn't sex with you after say 4 or 5 months? and you think that's acceptable behavior?

Yes.
Why does this surprise you?
Sex isn't revered anymore - it isn't, as stated, special anymore. It's sex. It's fun and games. Of course I want sex in a relationship. What are you talking about 4 or 5 months? I would be out of there in less than 2, excuse me.

just because it's not special for you doesn't mean its not special for the girl you are stringing along just so you can into her pants god help you if you ever fall for a girl who can't have sex.

What? "Strining along just so you can into her pants"? Did you just write that?
C'mon man.
It's a simple expression, a little clichéed, and quite horrible, but it fits the bill perfectly here: "You need to get out more".

I am not in the minority here. I am part of the majority.

You'd be quite surprised to see how many girls demand sex in a relationship as well, but this is all round to the reverse-discrimination. It is malechauvinism in essence, even if it does not appear so. Woman are sexual deviants too, my friend.

 

[Snarky Username]

I say you let things go naturally. If you really need sex that badly, that's what the fleshlight is for!

 

[darkless]

So regardless oh you felt about the person you would leave them if they hadn't sex with you after say 4 or 5 months? and you think that's acceptable behavior?

Yes.
Why does this surprise you?
Sex isn't revered anymore - it isn't, as stated, special anymore. It's sex. It's fun and games. Of course I want sex in a relationship. What are you talking about 4 or 5 months? I would be out of there in less than 2, excuse me.

just because it's not special for you doesn't mean its not special for the girl you are stringing along just so you can into her pants god help you if you ever fall for a girl who can't have sex.

What? "Strining along just so you can into her pants"? Did you just write that?
C'mon man.
It's a simple expression, a little clichéed, and quite horrible, but it fits the bill perfectly here: "You need to get out more".

I am not in the minority here. I am part of the majority.

You'd be quite surprised to see how many girls demand sex in a relationship as well, but this is all round to the reverse-discrimination. It is malechauvinism in essence, even if it does not appear so. Woman are sexual deviants too, my friend.

I'm well aware that some woman are just as eager as men but not ALL of them are and assuming they are all up for it doesn't make it true, and that's exactly what you just said you do.

Actually real quick hope you see this edit, how old are you? this could explain a lot.

 

[s0denone]

So regardless oh you felt about the person you would leave them if they hadn't sex with you after say 4 or 5 months? and you think that's acceptable behavior?

Yes.
Why does this surprise you?
Sex isn't revered anymore - it isn't, as stated, special anymore. It's sex. It's fun and games. Of course I want sex in a relationship. What are you talking about 4 or 5 months? I would be out of there in less than 2, excuse me.

just because it's not special for you doesn't mean its not special for the girl you are stringing along just so you can into her pants god help you if you ever fall for a girl who can't have sex.

What? "Strining along just so you can into her pants"? Did you just write that?
C'mon man.
It's a simple expression, a little clichéed, and quite horrible, but it fits the bill perfectly here: "You need to get out more".

I am not in the minority here. I am part of the majority.

You'd be quite surprised to see how many girls demand sex in a relationship as well, but this is all round to the reverse-discrimination. It is malechauvinism in essence, even if it does not appear so. Woman are sexual deviants too, my friend.

I'm well aware that some woman are just as eager as men but not ALL of them are and assuming they are all up for it doesn't make it true, and that's exactly what you just said you do.

That's not at all what I said... Stop putting words in my mouth.

I stated that I, personally, would get out of a relationship if the one I was with did not "give" me sex. It is quite obviously implied that I know some may not do so(even though not in my country) which is why I start off by making it clear that I would get out of there.

Having a desire for sex just means you pair up with someone who has that same passion, and it works out fine. If you, as a male, would rather not have sex, you should just court a celibacy-practitioning christian. Why not?

 

[antipunt]

*DANGER* Will Robinson....*DANGER*

 

[himemiya1650]

Go for it the worst she can do is say no, if you feel she'll stay with you.

 

[darkless]

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OK, you didn't see it real quick how old are you? seems random but it could explain a lot

 

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OK, you didn't see it real quick how old are you? seems random but it could explain a lot

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[darkless]

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OK, you didn't see it real quick how old are you? seems random but it could explain a lot

you got a point, but from what hes saying, hes probly 18, mabye hes 20, but i dont think so

Actually I would guess older around 21 and up and he's actually being reasonable.

 

[s0denone]

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OK, you didn't see it real quick how old are you? seems random but it could explain a lot

How is there any relevance, and why are you not replying to my post?
Unlike you, however, I don't dance around things that I can't come up with an answer to. (You're forcing me to make that assumption)

I'm 23, but again, what is the relevance? I'm older than you are, as far as I can see.

 

[Luke Cartner]

Three very important things I have learned in regard to women as I grew up, got married and then had kids:

1) Women love physical intimacy (that is assuming what you do rocks her boat, and if it doesn't sorry but your relationship is doomed to failure) as much (some times more) as guys do
2) No one can read minds, so while she might sense something is wrong she wont know what until you talk to her. For all you know she is wondering what she has to do to make you jump her.
3) And this is the most important and applies to all aspects of life: If you don't ask, you don't get

 

[darkless]

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OK, you didn't see it real quick how old are you? seems random but it could explain a lot

How is there any relevance, and why are you not replying to my post?
Unlike you, however, I don't dance around things that I can't come up with an answer to. (You're forcing me to make that assumption)

I'm 23, but again, what is the relevance? I'm older than you are, as far as I can see.

There is relevance and yes you are 2 years older than me.

The relevance here is unless you are breaking the law you are dating older mature woman so what you have been saying is perfectly reasonable (I must apologize at this point this whole time I was assuming you where the OP's age) you date woman who have been there and done that so sex is nothing new to them, but in the case of the OP they are 17 and 18 and since he's on the internet asking advice it's safe to assume he's a virgin and that she may be too, as such she should not be expected to hop into bed at just 3 months, while after the first time sex may become fun and games a girls first time s not and being as old as you are you should at the very least realize that.

 

[s0denone]

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OK, you didn't see it real quick how old are you? seems random but it could explain a lot

How is there any relevance, and why are you not replying to my post?
Unlike you, however, I don't dance around things that I can't come up with an answer to. (You're forcing me to make that assumption)

I'm 23, but again, what is the relevance? I'm older than you are, as far as I can see.

There is relevance and yes you are 2 years older than me.

The relevance here is unless you are breaking the law you are dating older mature woman so what you have been saying is perfectly reasonable (I must apologize at this point this whole time I was assuming you where the OP's age) you date woman who have been there and done that so sex is nothing new to them, but in the case of the OP they are 17 and 18 and since he's on the internet asking advice it's safe to assume he's a virgin and that she may be too,

I suppose there is some truth to that.

as such she should not be expected to hop into bed at just 3 months, while after the first time sex may become fun and games a girls first time s not and being as old as you are you should at the very least realize that.

...And that.

I would seem, in essence, that we have resolved our differences. You thought me to be some 17-year-old pretentious douchebag, but asked me a crucial question, the answer provided shredding new light on the situation. Happily we lived ever after.

I forgive you.

 

[Chancie]

What will be will be. Seriously, bud. If you force it, it's going to end badly most of the time. Just wait and see what happens. When it's time for that step, you both will know.

 

[darkless]

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OK, you didn't see it real quick how old are you? seems random but it could explain a lot

How is there any relevance, and why are you not replying to my post?
Unlike you, however, I don't dance around things that I can't come up with an answer to. (You're forcing me to make that assumption)

I'm 23, but again, what is the relevance? I'm older than you are, as far as I can see.

There is relevance and yes you are 2 years older than me.

The relevance here is unless you are breaking the law you are dating older mature woman so what you have been saying is perfectly reasonable (I must apologize at this point this whole time I was assuming you where the OP's age) you date woman who have been there and done that so sex is nothing new to them, but in the case of the OP they are 17 and 18 and since he's on the internet asking advice it's safe to assume he's a virgin and that she may be too,

I suppose there is some truth to that.

as such she should not be expected to hop into bed at just 3 months, while after the first time sex may become fun and games a girls first time s not and being as old as you are you should at the very least realize that.

...And that.

I would seem, in essence, that we have resolved our differences. You thought me to be some 17-year-old pretentious douchebag, but asked me a crucial question, the answer provided shredding new light on the situation. Happily we lived ever after.

I forgive you.

Haha, sorry the misunderstanding was on my end and as such the resulting argument was also my fault so I do apologize and am happy you forgive me.

 

[clairedelune]

I mean, there are things between kissing and sex. Some girls like it when guys ask but I'd rather him take the initiative as long as he will listen if I say no.

 

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