How is "masturbate furiously" not an option? I just move on fairly rapidly, no point dwelling on a relationship that wasn't worth continuing.
Well it would depend on how the break up happened. If it was mutual, then either just not see each other anymore or in one instances I still am friends with one just not ever going to be in a relationship again with her. If it was a bad break up be it my fault or hers well I don't text and any of my friends or girlfriends know this so I don't worry about that so much, but yelling at each other for a while can be tiring and if that happens I usually give up first because I rather just end it than prolong it. If I am not working and feel like shit about the break up I just lay in bed and sleep a lot more to just empty my head, then go out and have a huge meal to cheer me up. Longer the relationship is the more it can hurt when the break up occurs unless the above of both parties agreeing on the break up in my one case. Good luck and there is always someone out there well there has to be with billions of people just likely that perfect one is on the other side of the planet...Chucker said:So I had a wonderful valentines day of being kicked out of my girlfriends place. Long story short I did see it coming as there is no salvaging a relationship especially, when you can't cheer someone up who is depressed who pushes you away from previous issues.
She has since apologized but as it is indeed over, it does feel like I have to get back to a life without her as the main person I hang around and talk to. So as the title suggests;
I'd love to know what everyone does as the very first thing when the end has arrived, do you text lots of friends? Hit the Ben n Jerry's? Clock up more gaming hours to callus your thumbs/carpel tunnel? Maybe even a YouTube playlist of songs?
That's pretty awesome it seems like it always helps to have a lil' pain in your art.Blitsie said:So sorry to hear it man Just hang in there though, you'll leave this a stronger person at least.
Actually was also dumped just before Valentines day, first thing I did was grab my guitar and jam the living daylights out of it. For some reason I always play so much better when I'm angry, haha, guess I should join a dark metal band.
There's just something about angrily playing a music instrument that feels soooo gooood though.