Low self-confidence, lack of motivation, unattractiveness and general antisocial behavior. You know, just about everything.
Poll: Why are you Single?
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A combo of a few reasons:
1. Never been asked/haven't asked because I don't know anyone
2. Low self esteem. Despite people telling me how cute I am, I always feel like shit and think I'm ugly some days while others, my confidence is through the roof.
3. I'm picky. Almost every girl in my town is a jesus freak, won't shut up about Twilight, literally says things like "OMG" and "LOL" or is a combo of all 3. In short; they're all idiots.
4. I was crushed before. Last girl I went out with crushed me in the end by telling me (after I lost my virginity to her) that she could "never love someone like me." The second time a girl showed interest in me was when she was just using me to make her ex jealous.
And you all know very well about that nutzoid jesus freak who became obsessed with me.
1. Never been asked/haven't asked because I don't know anyone
2. Low self esteem. Despite people telling me how cute I am, I always feel like shit and think I'm ugly some days while others, my confidence is through the roof.
3. I'm picky. Almost every girl in my town is a jesus freak, won't shut up about Twilight, literally says things like "OMG" and "LOL" or is a combo of all 3. In short; they're all idiots.
4. I was crushed before. Last girl I went out with crushed me in the end by telling me (after I lost my virginity to her) that she could "never love someone like me." The second time a girl showed interest in me was when she was just using me to make her ex jealous.
And you all know very well about that nutzoid jesus freak who became obsessed with me.
Huh... Well, until last year I though I am too unattractive for any girl. Well turns out, that when I finally started caring for myself (shaving yourself regularly IS a good idea, if you don't have a certain facial hair style you want to make, properly ironed clothes are really comfy etc. etc.), and stopped acting like an idiot, it turned out, I can be attractive, and the lack of girl's attention was no one's fault but my own... But after a disaster relationship, I decided to take break from this stuff. Since then, I didn't really care for a girlfriend, nor for a 'one party' relationships. Also maybe because I AM a bit picky, and I didn't spot anyone interesting around me (who is still single as well) for any kind relationship.
At least now, when I'll find an opportunity I won't be shy just because 'no girl can like someone like me' because I know for sure, at least some of them can
At least now, when I'll find an opportunity I won't be shy just because 'no girl can like someone like me' because I know for sure, at least some of them can
I've been told by many of my friends (who are women) that I am smart, attractive, funny, and an incredibly nice guy. I have no real problems with asking out women, even though I have never been asked out myself. For some reason, I'm always the "Friend" but never the "Boyfriend". Shit sucks.
EDIT: According to 4chan, most women want a dick made of chocolate that ejaculates money.
EDIT: According to 4chan, most women want a dick made of chocolate that ejaculates money.
Honest to God my button is "All of the Above". I am literally all of them which neadless to say makes me feel worse about myself (low self-esteem) so I won't ask and instead spend my money (to poor) on Ice cream and such (to fat) which makes me feel worse.
Too weird.
There is one girl who enjoys my bizarre conversations, but we're in the ROTC program and she is my Cadre, so... dating isn't an option unless we both want to get kicked out.
There is one girl who enjoys my bizarre conversations, but we're in the ROTC program and she is my Cadre, so... dating isn't an option unless we both want to get kicked out.
Part "picky", but mostly "by choice".
I've had some really bad girlfriends recently (as the timeline of girlfriends goes). I have a really hard time trusting women, much less being comfortable with them to like being around them for extended periods of time. It's either their voice, or how they speak, or how they thin, or even how they drive or spend money that will switch me off to a certain woman. I'm a mechanically-minded man who uses logical steps to solve problems and come to conflict resolutions. I like being around the same types of people. It's hard to find a woman with these qualities.
I've had some really bad girlfriends recently (as the timeline of girlfriends goes). I have a really hard time trusting women, much less being comfortable with them to like being around them for extended periods of time. It's either their voice, or how they speak, or how they thin, or even how they drive or spend money that will switch me off to a certain woman. I'm a mechanically-minded man who uses logical steps to solve problems and come to conflict resolutions. I like being around the same types of people. It's hard to find a woman with these qualities.
because apparently i'm the complete scientific opposite of what girls want from guys:
http://www.cracked.com/article_18440_6-things-men-do-to-get-laid-that-science-says-turn-women-off.html
It's funny because these kinds of guys that this article implies are in my mind the guys who never grow out of a high-school mentality, which is really quite low and pathetic.
btw, this website is the bomb!
http://www.cracked.com/article_18440_6-things-men-do-to-get-laid-that-science-says-turn-women-off.html
It's funny because these kinds of guys that this article implies are in my mind the guys who never grow out of a high-school mentality, which is really quite low and pathetic.
btw, this website is the bomb!
Well a lot of reasons so *pulls out list*
1. picky- I just am
2. low self-esteem -actually nonexistent
3. the area I live in
4. I have no social life at the moment
5. confusion >_<
1. picky- I just am
2. low self-esteem -actually nonexistent
3. the area I live in
4. I have no social life at the moment
5. confusion >_<
By choice-ish.
I don't really have an interest in a deeper relationship with anyone. I've always had a close knit group of friends, and I've always been content with it. It gives me the ability to have social opportunities, yet also lets me still enjoy my own quiet time when I need it, without having to worry about a significant other being upset that I don't want to spend time with them at the moment. Friends always seem to have had that problem when I watch their relationships, and they voice it as well, that their other always wants to be with them. And that doesn't sit right with me.
I also will submit that I'm socially awkward. I can convey better in text than what I can in face to face. I always end up standing too close to someone, or stumbling over my words as I try to tell a joke, or something along those lines. Try as I might, when meeting new people, most turn away from wanting to converse more because "He's too shy." (Which is true.) The few that see past it and stick with me, I'm perfectly happy to have on my side. And I'll even let them know it. Eventually social situations will click for me more, I'm sure, but at the moment they only serve to enforce my choice of staying single.
In the end, though, it's by choice. There's nothing stopping me from stepping up and giving it my best shot. People are going to have their opinions about everyone, and there's nothing I can do to stop that, so why not try? But at the same time I'm as happy as I've ever been, and I'm flying solo. And that's great enough for me.
I don't really have an interest in a deeper relationship with anyone. I've always had a close knit group of friends, and I've always been content with it. It gives me the ability to have social opportunities, yet also lets me still enjoy my own quiet time when I need it, without having to worry about a significant other being upset that I don't want to spend time with them at the moment. Friends always seem to have had that problem when I watch their relationships, and they voice it as well, that their other always wants to be with them. And that doesn't sit right with me.
I also will submit that I'm socially awkward. I can convey better in text than what I can in face to face. I always end up standing too close to someone, or stumbling over my words as I try to tell a joke, or something along those lines. Try as I might, when meeting new people, most turn away from wanting to converse more because "He's too shy." (Which is true.) The few that see past it and stick with me, I'm perfectly happy to have on my side. And I'll even let them know it. Eventually social situations will click for me more, I'm sure, but at the moment they only serve to enforce my choice of staying single.
In the end, though, it's by choice. There's nothing stopping me from stepping up and giving it my best shot. People are going to have their opinions about everyone, and there's nothing I can do to stop that, so why not try? But at the same time I'm as happy as I've ever been, and I'm flying solo. And that's great enough for me.
