Poll: Why are you Single?

[TheGreatCoolEnergy]

Guys Don't like dating girls who love fictional video game men I suppose :/

Depends on what game.

Well, I danced with some girl at a party, which caused my girlfriend to break up with me(don't ask me why, she's dumb as hell I guess.) So that would be the direct cause. Why I am still single? Havn't really found somebody who I like enough to commit to.

Because I want to be single and sleep around. Unfortunately that means turning a few people down

Was that intentionally rhymed? Cause it was pretty good.

yeeah durnkkkkk

have no idea what ouew aYINGGGGG


WOOOOOO

What the hell? Are you implying that I was drunk? Cause I wasn't, I was completely sober...

How can you be poor and be a gamer really, unless you play someone elses/use manabar/are just interested in it

OY: Self esteem i guess

There are a lot of drug addicts

*cough Garrett Spencer *cough*

OT: I don't have a girlfriend because I'm not attracted to any of the girls I have met to this day.

I think I'm going to have to call bullshit. I find it hard to beleive that out of the hundreds of girls at our school, you havn't looked at one and said "Hey, I would tap that"

 

[Threx]

Guys Don't like dating girls who love fictional video game men I suppose :/

Depends on what game.

Well, I danced with some girl at a party, which caused my girlfriend to break up with me(don't ask me why, she's dumb as hell I guess.) So that would be the direct cause. Why I am still single? Havn't really found somebody who I like enough to commit to.

Because I want to be single and sleep around. Unfortunately that means turning a few people down

Was that intentionally rhymed? Cause it was pretty good.

yeeah durnkkkkk

have no idea what ouew aYINGGGGG


WOOOOOO

What the hell? Are you implying that I was drunk? Cause I wasn't, I was completely sober...

How can you be poor and be a gamer really, unless you play someone elses/use manabar/are just interested in it

OY: Self esteem i guess

There are a lot of drug addicts

*cough Garrett Spencer *cough*

OT: I don't have a girlfriend because I'm not attracted to any of the girls I have met to this day.

I think I'm going to have to call bullshit. I find it hard to beleive that out of the hundreds of girls at our school, you havn't looked at one and said "Hey, I would tap that"

One word: Intellect. If you can't talk to her without feeling stupid your in a bad relationship. So there's really no one at school that is even some what attractive and is even ARROGANT ALERT. close to an intellectual as you or I.

 

[Snarky Username]

For some reason, I don't feel attracted to men or women. Or anything else, for that matter

 

[EnzoHonda]

Maybe I shouldn't be in this thread, because I am no longer single (cue Final Fantasy victory music). What I found? When I stopped looking (yeah, I know, you hear that all the time), the right girl found me.

 

[agrandstudent]

Haha I'm not single and haven't been for 4 years w00t w00t. If I was single I would have to say it was because I was to lazy to try and change it. My history teacher used to say if you want to be hit by a train stand on the train tracks.

 

[chromewarriorXIII]

Mostly because I haven't asked anybody and I'm a little shy. I've worked through a lot of problems (got in shape, worked through self-esteem problems) so that I would be able to get a girlfriend. There is one girl who I like and she seems interested in me, but I'm just not sure how to get anything started, so it's sorta been a stalemate for a while.

 

[klakkat]

Mostly, because I don't fucking care.

That may seem odd to some, but I really don't care about getting laid, and actually feel as if a long-term relationship might be a hindrance on my life right now. Not that I'm star material or anything, so it's not like I'm rejecting opportunities left and right; I'm just not seeking them out.

 

[Dwarfman]

In your poll you failed to have 'clueless' as one of your answers.

I swear I'm so freakin' clueless when it come to women in general I wouldn't know if one was asking me out even if she hit me over the head with a club and dragged me off to her cave. Seriously man, freakin' clueless

 

[mrhockey220]

I have absolutely no self confidence when it comes to women. I can along fine with anyone fine but when it comes to women im just not myself and I dont come off as calm cool and collected as I normally am. I think that part of this is because I have low self esteem but thats just my two cents. Ive only had one girlfriend and it took a couple years for me to ask her out but my confidence dwindled after that.

 

[JanatUrlich]

What the hell? Are you implying that I was drunk? Cause I wasn't, I was completely sober...

Haha naaah dude I'm sorry. I was smashed out of my face when I typed that response and I honestly have no idea what the fuck I was trying to say to you

 

[heyheysg]

Reading through the replies this poll needed two more choices: "deep seated anger issues toward women" and "three or more of the above."

As someone whose been around though, I have this to offer: 1. There is a lid for every pot, and 2. Nice guys finish last.

I don't get the first one. But I do agree with the 2nd one.

The key is to be badass without being a jerk. Thin line

 

[notyouraveragejoe]

I've put myself in relationships that are pretty much destined to fail. Plus recently I've been a little nervy about asking girls that I kinda like out.

 

[RhombusHatesYou]

To anyone saying 'nice guys finish last', I say "Bull" and I also say "Shit".

Nice guys don't finish last, they don't even start.

 

[ModsDeleteThisAccountPlease]

By choice. I know there are people who like me, but for two reasons, I refuse to go out with anyone.

One. I am way to busy. 4-6 hours of home work each night and weekends I'm camping with my scout troop.

Two. I have a tendency to be cold to people I care about and hurt them unintentionally. The people who like me? I'm close to them and I don't want to hurt them. So yeah.

 

[TimeLord]

I am a bit picky but I don't think that's the reason I'm single. I'm just beyond the threshold for "acceptable insanity" for most of my female friends.

To anyone saying 'nice guys finish last', I say "Bull" and I also say "Shit".

Nice guys don't finish last, they don't even start.

Complete and utter correctness from this man right here.

I had a friend that I liked but she told me she wanted us to "stay friends" and then she goes off with some utter idiot who treats everyone else like crap and I'm left with no-one despite me helping her out of a financial nightmare with my own money and buying her a bloody expensive necklace.

 

[Karlaxx]

Combination- Haven't asked/been asked (Well, I did, but it didn't end well), too fat (In my opinion) and low self esteem, which plays into the other two.

Should the opportunity present itself, I'll stop being single, but I doubt I'll do much in the way of seeking.

 

[RhombusHatesYou]

I had a friend that I liked but she told me she wanted us to "stay friends" and then she goes off with some utter idiot who treats everyone else like crap and I'm left with no-one despite

Yeah, let's just stop at 'despite'... You know why? Nothing after that is relevent.

Sure, what you did makes you an awesome friend but friendship has no obligations other than friendship. Unless, of course, you dug her out of her financial hole in the hopes that it would open her eyes to seeing.. I dunno... you're the one for her or whatever... because that would make you an idiot.

What I meant by "nice guys don't even start" is that 'nice guys' almost always try the "if I make a super-awesome-always-dependable-friend-she-can-lean-on she'll eventually realise I'm the one for her" route and Sitting and Wishing is not starting. It's not doing a bloody thing. What you (generic 'you') do is become dependable like an old sweater or a favourite chair, or even worse, you become a surrogate mother for the woman and that is NOT the way to a woman's heart and/or nether regions.

No amount of dependability or niceness is going to help you if your voice doesn't give her goosebumps and a simple touch on the arm doesn't make her toes curl.

 

[TimeLord]

I had a friend that I liked but she told me she wanted us to "stay friends" and then she goes off with some utter idiot who treats everyone else like crap and I'm left with no-one despite

Yeah, let's just stop at 'despite'... You know why? Nothing after that is relevent.

Sure, what you did makes you an awesome friend but friendship has no obligations other than friendship. Unless, of course, you dug her out of her financial hole in the hopes that it would open her eyes to seeing.. I dunno... you're the one for her or whatever... because that would make you an idiot.

What I meant by "nice guys don't even start" is that 'nice guys' almost always try the "if I make a super-awesome-always-dependable-friend-she-can-lean-on she'll eventually realise I'm the one for her" route and Sitting and Wishing is not starting. It's not doing a bloody thing. What you (generic 'you') do is become dependable like an old sweater or a favourite chair, or even worse, you become a surrogate mother for the woman and that is NOT the way to a woman's heart and/or nether regions.

No amount of dependability or niceness is going to help you if your voice doesn't give her goosebumps and a simple touch on the arm doesn't make her toes curl.

Ok, if you are going to disassemble my comment I would like to point out that all the time I was helping her out and before then, she was flirting like crazy every time we spoke. She dumped her previous boyfriend of 2years for not caring enough about her and being kind to her. So what was I supposed to do if not be nice and help her out, sit like a lemon for some kind of and indication or try and get close to her?

 

[jonathan19]

I can't be arsed to actually put myself through all the mushy nonsense to actually ask someone if they wanted to go out on a date. too much of one persons time wasted pursuing something that might not even happen.

 

[FeetOfClay]

Single, because I've never been interested in sex, hell, I'm not even that bothered by people in general. You can call it a mental disability if you want, in fact it probably is, but I'm happy, anything else hardly matters after that, does it?