No, I wouldn't be okay. I would, however, be fine with a game where you just play as Zelda
Diddy_Mao said:
It's a story of reincarnation and recursion and there's nothing in the lore the invalidates the idea of a female child hero taking up the mantle to defend the realm against a recurring threat.
And, more pointedly, in every incarnation to date, over a dozen if you just consider the major titles, Link has always been male. There is, as such, no particular reason to assume it can be altered that has ever been offered beyond mere speculation to the effect that "they haven't said it is impossible". In advocating for this change, one that would literally require nothing more than a swap of character model and re-record of a half dozen sound effects, you basically ask for a meaningless switch that offers nothing of interest or consequence either narratively or mechanically.
By contrast, if you make the
Princess the focus of the story, at least you have a basis for doing something different and interesting. What's more, the basis for Zelda being an action hero already exists in the franchise.