denseWorm said:
I'm sure I could convince myself to let a sufficiently nice guy penetrate me, if I knew that this was the way nature intended me to operate. There are nice people out there, I don't see how a lesbian couldn't enjoy a penis penetrating them - it's a chemical, physical thing, a lubricated vagina is designed to reward the female (and male) for interface with an erect penis - I'd be interested to know if some lesbians wear a blindfold and pretend it's a dildo for the sake of having a baby for themselves.
It seems like a nice, 90s kind of thing - two lesbians find a nice man who they respect, invite him into their home and talk each other through a sexual encounter. Sounds very 90s. I wonder why people never consider courses of action like that?
That's not really how sexuality works, though. Lesbians are lesbians; they're not bisexual women or straight women who fool around and are just 'waiting' for the one really nice man to sex them back into heterosexuality. :-\
If a lesbian wants to have a child and can't/won't adopt, they don't need to be penetrated by a man to get pregnant and probably aren't gonna want to be. They'll get something artificial to 'deposit' it into them. That's how it works in sperm banks. They freeze your sperm, not have you come over for quick sexual encounters.
Not all lesbians like to be penetrated, and they certainly don't want to be penetrated by a man. And they're not waiting, as I said, for that really special man to come and sex them back into being straight.
Men have a similar pleasurable response to being penetrated anally, and it's a natural response too, but I doubt most straight men are waiting for that 'right man' to come and sex them into being gay, and if straight guys do get into anal play, I doubt they're gonna let a dude come and take them and blindfold themselves and pretend it's their girlfriend or what not, you know?
If they do it at all (and most straight men won't), they're gonna do it with a whole different mindset.
