You know, I've actually been reading up on transgenderism lately and I would be lying if I said I hadn't pondered this very question. I'm almost ashamed to admit it but I really don't think that, as a man, I would be willing to date an MTF. It's not that I wouldn't be able to accept them as a woman, or that I would be freaked out that they used to be a man. It's that physical intimacy is an important part of any romantic relationship, and I'm not sure that I would be comfortable gettin' freaky with frankenbits. I really feel for the plight of the transgendered, and I even have a couple friends who are transitioning and I wish them all the best. I've never really been down with plastic surgery, and the simple fact of the matter is that no amount of medical wizardry can give a man a vagina or a woman a penis. You can give them something that looks, and perhaps even has some rudimentary functions of the other team's equipment, but at the current level of medical technology, it will always be a pale imitation of the real thing.
Now, obviously what's in a person's pants doesn't encompass the entirety of who they are. It's entirely possible that if I were to actually fall in love with a trans woman, we might find some way to work it out. Without ever having had an experience like that, it's difficult to say. But it would definitely put some strain on the relationship.
It's also an oft-unconsidered fact that many transsexual individuals simply opt for the "top" surgery and leave their lower bits intact, for various reasons. For me, that option is right out. Dicks just aren't for me, even if they're attached to women.
Now, obviously what's in a person's pants doesn't encompass the entirety of who they are. It's entirely possible that if I were to actually fall in love with a trans woman, we might find some way to work it out. Without ever having had an experience like that, it's difficult to say. But it would definitely put some strain on the relationship.
It's also an oft-unconsidered fact that many transsexual individuals simply opt for the "top" surgery and leave their lower bits intact, for various reasons. For me, that option is right out. Dicks just aren't for me, even if they're attached to women.