Poll: Would you date an asexual person?

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cthulhumythos

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i've thought about it and no. however, i wouldn't date a sexual person person either. i'm too reclusive for that sort of thing; i live the exciting life of a hermit.
 

KelsieKatt

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I don't think I could, as the relationship would become extremely frustrating for me after a while, as it would severely limit my options for expressing myself toward that person.

I might try it if I really liked someone, but if some degree of sexual intimacy didn't come out of it eventually, I'd get bored and frustrated and eventually leave.
 

Iron Lightning

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Only if it's not an exclusive relationship. I, as a sexual, would not be happy never fucking just as an asexual would not be happy fucking every night.
 

Sandernista

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Verp said:
bdcjacko said:
Verp said:
Don't ask me, I don't see the appeal of mutual exclusiveness even if you are boning the other half. I don't even see why people bother with partners if hands and toys can achieve satisfaction. I've just been very loudly told that "it's not the same".
It isn't the same, toy don't get all clingy and want to cuddle after wards. Whoa!
But if cuddles are foreplay like you implied earlier, why do you want to do it after sex?
For me, cuddling is almost just as good as sex. (Not quite as good, but still awesome)

I do cuddle with close friends, but I don't cuddle naked. :p
 

Gilhelmi

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Yes, seeing as I am partly asexual myself, I just do not care that much about sex. But she would have to be an amazing person to be with, intellectual, kind, caring, respectful of others, truly a saint.

I would hope that in time thing might change, but I would not hold my breath as to it. If so happy, if not still happy.
 

siddif

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Depends on the person if im honest, personally im not exactly sex mad and it has always complicated relationships for me personally im in a relationship largely for the companionship and romance and have even considered non sexual relationships myself (which would be a step up from my current singledom).

Most people I know would never go for this though and are focused mainly on the sexual aspects of relationships though.
 

ProjectTrinity

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Time to walk into the landmines.

I would not date an asexual. Maybe when I was younger and didn't have sex on my mind at all (nor relationships for that matter), but I've grown. To clarify, this is exclusively for my life and not meant to say that asexuals need to grow up. [/In before mod wrath]

As I've spotted on this very thread: some people do not like the very notion of others rejecting who they are. Asexuals, by nature, tend not to invite sex into their lives, and although sex isn't the main thing to a relationship, it's certainly something of note. Enough of a note that I'm personally willing to place asexuality in the "personality" department. A department where I am more than willing to judge harshly on. That is one "difficulty" that I'll pass if my heart permits. And luckily, my heart isn't too far ahead of my brain, that detests avoidable friction like me being in a asexual/sexual relationship.

^ You know, except for my last girlfriend - who is giving off so many asexual vibes these days that I probably should have guessed. I don't have the heart to tell her how much of a distance that places her even if I became attracted to her again. ' -'