NoeL said:
rhodo said:
Bisexuality as a real sexual alignment doesn't exist.
Every human being is biologically attracted only to males or females.
Bisexuality is being able to also go with the gender you don't really have biological attraction to, for the sake of some good sex (i.e. masturbating doesn't make you hand-sexual; going with a woman doesn't always imply you're really attracted to women). But every bisexual is either homosexual or heterosexual, even if they think it's ok to have sex with the other gender.
The majority of bisexuals are:
1) homosexuals in denial
2) teenagers exploring their strong newfound sexuality
People should say "I'm a heterosexual bisexual" or "I'm a homosexual bisexual".
God, you are wrong on every level. Now I can see what Zachary was talking about.
Your analogy to masturbation was just stupid. People aren't sexually attracted to their hands (well, MOST aren't), and they don't fantasise about their hands while they masturbate. They think about other sexual imagery, or watch porn - the hand just provides physical stimulus.
I'll give you an example.
I know a guy who is openly, declaredly homosexual.
Interestingly enough, he has a girlfriend. They get along very well, since they have the same hobbies, and love each other a lot.
He still is very, very, very gay. He draws (and really well) hot naked dudes constantly, and loves to talk about them. He also doesn't hide any of that to his girlfriend, who, I repeat, he utterly adores.
As much as I always found their relationship to be quite curious, they really do care about each other so much that many "normal" couples don't have the same level of affection.
Now, this guy - here's a homosexual bisexual. He is definitely homosexual; he is still bisexual because he has a girlfriend.
Back in high school, I had a good friend who, because of his strong personality, got a lot of girls to fall for him. He's also had a girlfriend for one year. I could tell there was something about him because he kept asking to borrow my yaoi comics (and he was awesome enough to openly ask that in front of everyone).
After we had gone to different universities, we lost contact. But I met him one day and he told me he stopped dating girls and started dating men. Always with a carefree attitude - I love it when sexuality is lived naturally.
This guy is a homosexual bisexual.
Being gay or straight doesn't prevent you to have sex with the gender you're not naturally attracted to. Anyone can enjoy sex with a gender that is not the gender of their preference, and the reason they wouldn't do that is only because of social pre-concepts.
This doesn't change the fact that EVERYONE is either attracted to males or to females.