I didn't change the meaning of the term. From the very start I changed the meaning of the reader, viewer, watcher etc. and what the act of 'watching' means to them on the very basest level.Stasisesque said:You changed the meaning of the term. That is what is not up for interpretation.
Gaining sexual pleasure from watching others who are not engaging in sexual activity does not change the meaning of the term, it just adds yet another layer to it or possibly would come under a different -philia. That is what I considered interesting. But you cannot change the term, which was coined as a description of the act. Voyeurism has never meant anything but deriving sexual pleasure from watching others engage in intimate activities.
Because - as a point of honour, I have not used the word or the term incorrectly in this entire 3:02am thread.Midnight Llamaman said:Actually, you are just wrong. The French Root is roughly 'to see' - yes, but the English term Voyeur means "a person who obtains sexual pleasure or excitement from the observation of someone undressing, having intercourse, etc" or, basically someone who engages in Voyeurism. Which means, guess what? Yes! Voyeurism means "the practice of obtaining sexual gratification by looking at sexual objects or acts, especially secretively.".
It's even in the DSM as a paraphilia, not to mention the ICD. You can say what you want; but it isn't going to make you right. What the word means isn't open for debate any more than saying the word Blue actually means Red. It's used inaccurately in common parlance, yes. Does that make that inaccurate usage correct?
No, no it does not.
This, basically. I think that the controversy found with porn in general is best left in the sixties, where it belongs.Revolutionary said:What a bizzare topic...anyway my opinion is that as long it's legal I have no beef with it...To remain tasteful I'll leave it at that.
Is that some sort of joke ?? The video I meantofulove said:this topic reminds me of this video http://www.theonion.com/video/study-children-exposed-to-pornography-may-expect-s,14326/
in early high school it was great, now days i rarely watch it, and generally only watch it with my friends
Okay, I'll say it one last time - a voyeur, in English, does not mean someone who watches. It just doesn't, it has never meant that - it has been granted far too much poetic license and now is used as a synonym for one who watches, but it does not mean that. To say the reader is the voyeur is to say the reader takes sexual pleasure from the subject.KafkaOffTheBeach said:I didn't change the meaning of the term. From the very start I changed the meaning of the reader, viewer, watcher etc. and what the act of 'watching' means to them on the very basest level.Stasisesque said:You changed the meaning of the term. That is what is not up for interpretation.
Gaining sexual pleasure from watching others who are not engaging in sexual activity does not change the meaning of the term, it just adds yet another layer to it or possibly would come under a different -philia. That is what I considered interesting. But you cannot change the term, which was coined as a description of the act. Voyeurism has never meant anything but deriving sexual pleasure from watching others engage in intimate activities.
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Although reading back on it I can see where you might have got the impression that I was trying to change the term.
But even in the original post you keep on trying to refute the fact that the reader is the voyeur.
That is the part that is wrong, and the part that I took particular umbrage at, due to the fact that the reader is, indeed, participating in completely accurate and medically applicable voyeurism from a valid psychological and literary perspective.
Then I started arguing the semantics of the word for no real reason other than to try and show the idea of the reader as the ultimate voyeur - which spiraled into this.
This applies to you as well...
You have - just because you (and many others) think an Apple is an Orange, it does not actually make the Apple an Orange.KafkaOffTheBeach said:Because - as a point of honour, I have not used the word or the term incorrectly in this entire 3:02am thread.
But then - by that same argument - just because you think that an Apple cannot be an act of sexual release, doesn't mean that it isn't an act of sexual release.Midnight Llamaman said:You have - just because you (and many others) think an Apple is an Orange, it does not actually make the Apple an Orange.KafkaOffTheBeach said:Because - as a point of honour, I have not used the word or the term incorrectly in this entire 3:02am thread.
Stasisesque said:Okay, I'll say it one last time - a voyeur, in English, does not mean someone who watches. It just doesn't, it has never meant that - it has been granted far too much poetic license and now is used as a synonym for one who watches, but it does not mean that. To say the reader is the voyeur is to say the reader takes sexual pleasure from the subject.
If that is what you mean, then okay you're quite right - but only because that is exactly what voyeur means (disputably can also mean to take sexual pleasure in viewing pain).
But no, simply watching someone's life does not make you a voyeur. It never will. Unless you're speaking in and of French.
Why, exactly?ShakyFt Slasher said:It is a horrible thing that I wish didn't exist.
A reader can be a voyeur, provided he derives sexual pleasure from reading about his subjects. However the acts those subjects are engaged in, if not intimate, would fall under completely different paraphilia headers, making Voyeurism, yet again, the act of deriving sexual pleasure from watching others.KafkaOffTheBeach said:But then - by that same argument - just because you think that an Apple cannot be an act of sexual release, doesn't mean that it isn't an act of sexual release.Midnight Llamaman said:You have - just because you (and many others) think an Apple is an Orange, it does not actually make the Apple an Orange.KafkaOffTheBeach said:Because - as a point of honour, I have not used the word or the term incorrectly in this entire 3:02am thread.
People use it incorrectly because psychologists, theologians and literary theorists use it to describe the reader - by reading the reader so to speak - and so they, that same indelible 'they' of 'you know what they say...' fame, think that they can use it to mean any point of view. I've been using it from the perspective of the literary in changing the core nature of the reader and how we view the reader.
Apart from once where I used it as the French.
Stasisesque said:Okay, I'll say it one last time - a voyeur, in English, does not mean someone who watches. It just doesn't, it has never meant that - it has been granted far too much poetic license and now is used as a synonym for one who watches, but it does not mean that. To say the reader is the voyeur is to say the reader takes sexual pleasure from the subject.
If that is what you mean, then okay you're quite right - but only because that is exactly what voyeur means (disputably can also mean to take sexual pleasure in viewing pain).
But no, simply watching someone's life does not make you a voyeur. It never will. Unless you're speaking in and of French.
But when you read into the idea of the reader just a tiny little bit, then the reader becomes the voyeur in every sense of the word.
Although I do admit that my shit has gotten all muddled up in the wee small hours of the morning arguing semantics - the reader as a voyeur is an undeniable truth, unless one was to deny the reader the same dubious courtesy that they present to the author. Then the reader becomes no more than a camera and the words a lens.
And if I mention pornography now everyone will think that this is remotely on topic.
Are we sarcastic, troll, or a prude?ShakyFt Slasher said:It is a horrible thing that I wish didn't exist.