Proto Taco said:
You're going to just ignore the content of our posts full stop and build a nice looking strawman because it's convenient for your internal narrative to do so and might even have forced you to address the uncomfortable truth that I (leaving the other poster out of this, we ain't a tag team) might actually have had some valid points in between the rhetoric. I suppose it's easier to just call the person your arguing with a big meany.
You say you want to attempt to glean arguments from my posts but I don't know how much clearer I can be with you:
You keep projecting attitudes onto people that they don't have and never even hinted they had all because of your own stereotypes and an agenda unrelated to the topic at hand. You are walking around in a thread about guy problems saying that they should basically shut up and talk about womens problems instead cos they always have it worst (what is the original name of this Gaza argument? Fallacy of relative privation? W/e, point being that it's the basis of your posts). As I said you probably wouldn't approve if someone walked into a womens problems thread, or a transpersons thread, telling others to put a sock in it cos x has it worst and they should instead talk about x despite thread having nothing to do about x. Oppression olympics isn't the main topic here but by god, you certainly try your hardest to make it about that and in our conversations so far have been consistently using it as a smokescreen.
I mean shit what is the argument you say you're gleamed?
"Men have problems as big or bigger than women's problems. Stop cramping our style with your 'feminism'."
Except that is not it and never has been anything else then a strawman you keep throwing at my face. I thought this part was pretty clear: "And who the fuck said that in this thread? Who's the person here saying men have it worst then women?"
Also again, you project. You don't know what the fuck my opinion is regarding feminism ¬¬
Or my general opinion on gender issues for that matter.
I'd rather you make personal attacks on me tbh then keep being this evasive or shoving opinions into me I don't have and never ever had in my life.
"The reason I even posted here in the first place is because a common trend I see is men regaling the world with tales of masculine woe without actually doing anything about it."
Cool story that totally justifies shitting up a thread with unrelated topics and opinions because you have a chip on your shoulder even if you can't point to a single example in this thread of a poster acting the way you describe. If anything the trend is more towards the opposite.
I don't know how I got dragged into the rape topic or the other stuff you bring up, let alone how you're able to infer my attitudes on those topics. I'll be polite and assume they are purely addressed at WhiteNachos. Then again it is consistent with how I'm accusing you of projecting your very particular viewpoints onto people regardless of their actual stances and using these long winded statements on general gender issues as a smokescreen.
Ok I'll keep this in mind for my next paragraph then.
Being trans doesn't mean you're an authority on men and women worldwide anymore then you're an authority on men and women in just your home country. Or even just trans people for that matter, though of course you would certainly be able to relate to their stories easier then someone like me.
You've lived a life with a particular viewpoint and challenges unique to your situation and person, you are an expert on yourself, nothing more. This is something that goes for a lot of people it's true (in this thread mr "im 30 years old and once you're 30 this shit doesnt matter!" or mr "id hate to deal with other guys feelings" comes to mind, nevermind that in my time working in a mental health clinic older males well over 30 were consistently amongst our most problematic cases) but you're the one I'm arguing with atm.
You don't know jack shit about me or my life or most people you stereotype and you being trans, female, male or a friggin extraterrestial doesn't change that.
And no I don't mean that in a "i got it sooo bad man, weep for me" way but in the sense that I lived an atypical life it seems and find it hard to relate to a lot of the male stereotypes thrown around. Ex: I've only ever once in my life been in a posse of male friends, otherwise most of my friends have always been female and I've always just seemed to befriend women easier for w/e reason. The only people I know who make rape jokes and laugh about them are women, and they are anti feminists so I doubt me telling them off about it is going to be effective and tbh I don't think I should be policing them anyways, I rather work on my own behavior. Actually it's funny because the trans people I know wouldn't agree with what you said and one trans friend in particular has the most wicked sense of humor of anyone I know, but then again I have no idea if they or you are more representative of the average transpersons view on this topic and honestly, it shouldn't matter in the first place if you were making good arguments, which you ain't. To avoid further hurt feelings on a rather delicate topic I'll end it on that but I really do find your stance extremely arrogant.
"In closing (...) to campaign-level slander."
In closing I feel based on our interaction in this thread that you're somewhat of a hypocrite whose actions and statements are at odds with some of the high ideals you preach and would like others to live up to, and have a tendency to stereotype and use your personal experiences as indisputable gospel. I would have liked to express this as something else then a personal attack but don't see how I can, its not your feminist ideals that I'm disagreeing with after all but the way YOU personally act and there is no easy way to sugarcoat it that I can see.
I guess me and you just ain't meant to get along. All right buddy I'll leave you be, this back and forth went nowhere and just clogs up the thread. I hope it at least provides some lulz to others.