When I moved out on my own, among housewarming gifts I got was a toolset. Wrenches, Screwdrivers, a Socket Wrench, Measuring Tape...all the basics. Though the family friends said "Everyone should have this stuff, minimum", I wondered if I'd have been gifted this if I were a woman.
Then again, I got lots of kitchen toys, and gift cards for the local meat shop and specialty foods store because I love to cook.
The biggest issue I had was, like so many others, High School. I got called gay so much for not liking and being "no good" at sports and uninterested in horror movies and FPS games (I love my action movies, though, and don't TOUCH my Bond Films), that I didn't come out to MYSELF until my early-mid 20's.
Didn't matter that no one could return my serves in the Volleyball unit, pretty much guaranteeing 3 free points for my side before they forced us to rotate, that was a 'Chick Sport'.
Nevermind I got consistently on base during the baseball unit. Apparently men score Doubles.
And Basketball? I could get that ball anywhere I wanted it! Just...so long as that anywhere did not include the basket. Apparently men don't get assists (are there 'assists' in basketball?), men score.
Mind you I was in high school in the late nineties, before things got better in some ways and worse in others, so take my experience with a grain of salt.
Then again, I got lots of kitchen toys, and gift cards for the local meat shop and specialty foods store because I love to cook.
The biggest issue I had was, like so many others, High School. I got called gay so much for not liking and being "no good" at sports and uninterested in horror movies and FPS games (I love my action movies, though, and don't TOUCH my Bond Films), that I didn't come out to MYSELF until my early-mid 20's.
Didn't matter that no one could return my serves in the Volleyball unit, pretty much guaranteeing 3 free points for my side before they forced us to rotate, that was a 'Chick Sport'.
Nevermind I got consistently on base during the baseball unit. Apparently men score Doubles.
And Basketball? I could get that ball anywhere I wanted it! Just...so long as that anywhere did not include the basket. Apparently men don't get assists (are there 'assists' in basketball?), men score.
Mind you I was in high school in the late nineties, before things got better in some ways and worse in others, so take my experience with a grain of salt.