Psst he is in the friend zone

[Lord Kloo]

As a lot of people have already said the friend-zone doesn't exist, or if it does then guys have one as well.

Like it or not the human female does actually have the ability to like guys in a sexual way and in a friendly way. There is no friendzoning and if there is you brought it on yourself, if you like someone make yourself clear don't try to be their friend, otherwise they may treat you as friend.

Oh sure take being a friend as a great alternative to going out with someone, I much prefer to be friends (and therefore in the 'friendzone') with people who reject me because atleast I still get to spend time with them.

Personally I think the friendzone comes out as something that is bad, its not, you can have great times with friends of the opposite sex and you don't need to have a partner to do that. If you don't like being friendzoned then show that you don't want to friends - either step up your game or bail out of there completely.

Tip of the day: Don't treat the "friendzone" as some bad place, to do so is to be selfish and think that girls can't have friends or even just don't want to have a relationship..

Hell consider it a damned honour that you're in a position of trust and that the person you like hasn't completely dropped you and avoids even speaking to you.

Too stupid and too pointless to read:

If friendzoning even existed then its the persons choice to put you there, and if you ever liked them you should enjoy being their friends, no shit you can actually have fun and enjoy life with girls OUTSIDE or a sexual relationship.

EDIT: captcha: if it fits.. yes very relevant captcha

 

[viranimus]

So women why did y'all invent the friendzone? .

cause were evil bitches involved in a global feminist conspiracy

OBVIOUSLY

I was raised by a wild pack of women. As a wee lad I got to sit in on the secret weekly meetings. Just dont ask me to perform the secret handshake, Oh the horror!

 

[MasochisticAvenger]

That's right ladies, if you don't consider every male that comes into your life as a potential sexual partner, you are an evil ***** who is just out to string nice guys along. Who cares if you don't find him attractive, he is "nice" to you so you have to strip down for him and let him have his way with you.

Alright seriously guys that kind of thinking just has to stop. Being nice does not mean a girl is automatically going to be attracted to you. If the only reason you are being nice to a girl is so she will go out with you, you are far worse than the "douchebags" you claim aren't good enough for her. You are nothing but a manipulative bastard.

 

[Sebass]

And you dont even need a fake tan, stupid sunglasses, popped collar, and benchpress 120 lbs. though your biceps are huge to do it either!*

Nice post and all but slightly offtopic: being able to benchpress 120 lbs. is not exactly all that impressive if you're not underfed

 

[Vault101]

I was raised by a wild pack of women. As a wee lad I got to sit in on the secret weekly meetings. Just dont ask me to perform the secret handshake, Oh the horror!

*smacks on head* SILENCE boy!....you will do well to know your place!

 

[SaetonChapelle]

I dont understand why so many people ask this.

1)Males put females into the 'friendzone" as well. Not just women
2) there's traits of my male friends that I don't find attractive, hence why they are my friends and not my romantic interests. There are aspects in that individual of which I find that he could make a good lover and hopefully and long lasting relationship will form. I do not see these things with my male friends, and they have differences about themselves that I don't believe will assist me in the future, and that I don't find any form of romantic feelings for.

When I date a man, I don't originally see the negative in him, or I don't believe it is grand enough to cause any form of issues. I don't intentionally go out to find an asshole who is going to use my face as a punching bag, thank you very much. We females do have intelligence.

And, point again, males make stupid decisions too. They date females that are bitches and can't quite seem to grasp that they are, in fact, only after assets that don't involve romance.

Sorry, I completely forgot men always make the right decisions and we females are too stupid to notice the perfect god we have in our "friend" collection. I secretly love being abused.

 

[370999]

Do people compartmentalize other people? Yes. Is it possible to be seen in a way that you don't want? Sure.

But that is your problem. The onus is on you to change that.


And honestly, I get rejected a lot and it isn't that bad, yeah you brood over it for a weekend but it doesn't destroy your life.

 

[NinjaDeathSlap]

Spoiler: WHAT IF I TOLD YOU

Personally, I feel it is bullshit. It's a made up term for a made up place.

This made me laugh, probably more than it should have done, but it is so true.

 

[DirtyJunkieScum]

I dont understand why so many people ask this.

Because they are young and/or socially inexperienced? That would be my guess.

 

[370999]

I dont understand why so many people ask this.

Because they are young and/or socially inexperienced? That would be my guess.

Well this is a video-game forum with a heavy emphasis on the "geek" lifestyle. And there is some truth in saying that these people aren't always graced with social skills due to being that geek and also being young.

 

[Kraj]

Dear god there is no friend zone.
It's a term people use to make an excuse for looking for love in the wrong places.
It's also a term used to make an excuse for people not having the tastes that we THINK they want.
There is no friend-zone.
Grow up. If you don't like being complained to about other guys, don't be their friend, find a girl who doesn't do that.
If you don't like watching them get hurt by douchebags, that's their own problem, protect yourself, they're too stupid or foolish to be worth your time.
If you're attracted to them and they're not attracted to you, don't. blame. them.
Grow up and move on.


/thread. sorry for venting.

 

[Johann610]

Why do you SEE a friend-zone? Because men cannot be friends with women without wanting to bone them (although, as we are aware, any woman can be bone-able with the right amount of anonymity and / or alcohol), and women can. Why do men GO there? They don't see this difference either.
Repeating this: women and men, need a SPARK of something to go off boning. It might take a few minutes to emerge, but if it ain't there, it ain't there. It will magically generate itself after dinner, dancing, a movie, and a drive to make-out point (hint: if you spent over $40, probably it won't). It does not "grow" from your favors, hangings-out, or any other "always there for you" bull-dookie. She will not give in, because she doesn't feel the SPARK.
Bad boys, when they don't see the SPARK, run off. Nice guys will hang around, and be friends, even when they know it isn't there. That's the dichotomy. Nice guys that get the SPARK? Wind up with the best women in the world.
Quit trying to light the fire without a SPARK, go seeking alone, and find one for yourself.

 

[SaetonChapelle]

I dont understand why so many people ask this.

Because they are young and/or socially inexperienced? That would be my guess.

this is the best answer I've received thus far for this question. Cookie for you~

 

[JaceArveduin]

So women why did y'all invent the friendzone? .

cause were evil bitches involved in a global feminist conspiracy

OBVIOUSLY

Seems legit, I think I'll believe ya Vault

 

[Phasmal]

Why do you SEE a friend-zone? Because men cannot be friends with women without wanting to bone them (although, as we are aware, any woman can be bone-able with the right amount of anonymity and / or alcohol), and women can. Why do men GO there? They don't see this difference either.

Sorry, men certainly can be friends with women without wanting to bone them.
Maybe some men cant, but most men can.
All my life, most of my friends have been dudes, and most of those friendships were 100% unsexual.

 

[Combustion Kevin]

I go by the following philosophy:

both genders generally suck at picking their mates, shit happens, and nothing will change unless people become more introspective.

or at least more aware of shallow expectations and such.

EDIT: on the flip-side, good friends make great lovers... at least in my experience.

 

[Relish in Chaos]

*facepalm*

The friend zone doesn?t exist. It?s just men and women being immature, hypocritical fools who like easy excuses to complain about shit they probably should?ve seen coming a mile off. But I suppose you want me to agree with you and say, ?Yeah, why?d you bitches invent the friend zone, huh? We?re such fucking nice guys to you, but you don?t let us date you! Goddamn feminist whores!?

This is why I don?t understand human beings, and yes, that includes myself. Life sucks, life?s unfair, and I know how a lot of you ?friend-zoned? losers are feeling because I?m an ugly and socially awkward ?Forever Alone?-type with low self-esteem and zero charisma to boot. But I can?t start blaming other people for my own faults or things that are out of both my and their control. Also, I know that I?m not ready for a relationship because of my emotional baggage, yet I still get all awkward, jealous and reminded of my multiple shortcomings whenever I see my friend holding hands and kissing his girlfriend. But that?s not their fault. 1) They?re 16-year-olds, they?re bound to be like that (by ?like that?, I mean, more touchy-feely than, say, two 25-year-olds in a relationship, and 2) The problem is me, and I don?t really want them to break up just because I get a twinge of sickly pain whenever I see them together.

Basically, the phrase ?Don?t hate the player, hate the game? actually applies pretty well here. Don?t start insulting a girl behind her back (or to her face; either way, it?s still douchebaggy) just because she happens to both be attractive and not interested to you at all. Just curse the fact that you?re an undesirable person and the universe randomly happens to screw you over. And for the former, perhaps try to work on that little flaw.

Sometimes, shit like this almost makes me wish that I was gay or entirely asexual, since it would be far more practical. But that?s just a silly line of thinking, isn?t it? Oh yeah, and fuck rom-coms and those shitty films where the main hero guy ?gets the girl? as some warped, misogynistic reward for being an all-round Mary Sue and saving her from the evil jock. That?s nothing more than a fantasy, which some people seem to forget.