Question about sexuality.

[IneptInception]

I'm rather, and completely, gay; I'm physically attracted to men, but scarecly attracted to their personalities. I've never dated anyone, and I've only understood who I am for about 5 years now, but I'm moving on up in the education world so things may (WILL) change. I always knew I was diferent from most boys (oh god); no matter how typical that sounds its true, although I'm VASTLY more feminie which starts a completely new discussion on gender identity and sex, but my sexuality was always... there. I've always enjoyed the compnay of women more than men, friendship wise, although I hardly find women attractive at all. I can admire beauty, but not feel anything more than admiration.

Overall, I found out I was definetly gay when I was about... 11? I still don't like the company of men, although I've not really hit the "blossoming" stage of people yet (17+); so I might just be suprised by some people I find later on in life as I start to expand socially wise. I honestly have no idea. BASTARDINGLIFE. Oh, there was 1 male who was rather "perfect" until he decided he wasn't bi and instead was completely straight; leaving me a bit when he didn't talk to me for a whole year after that decision. Oh, MEN, such wonderful creatures. HYPOCRISY.

I honestly care little for people's sexual endeavours.

 

[chaosyoshimage]

I would say this describes me as well.

It's nice to see someone else that feels the same way. I still haven't been in a relationship myself, and sometimes feel distressed over it, especially since a lot of people my age (I'm 18) have already been in one. I feel like the time is coming soon though, I wasn't very social for awhile, but now I've become much more outgoing and comfortable with myself. A lot of people's friends and social environment just sort of led them to at least one awkward date or a relationship it seems. But somehow I ended up in a sort of sheltered group of friends.

That is EXACTLY my life except I'm one year older. It sucks, but I'm getting more comfortable with myself too and getting past some of my more distressing feelings about my situation.

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

Sex is over-rated and over-discussed. If you can't guess what my preference is from that, then you wouldn't make a good psychologist.

I'm guessing omnisexual, but I could be a little off.

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

Ooh another Master of Worlds thread! Well I would say that on the 0-6 scale I am either a 1 or a 5 since I can't remember for the life of me which way it goes. That means primarily heterosexual and only incidentally homosexual. I realized I wasn't a 0/6 when I became attracted to one of my friends at university despite them being the same sex. I then wondered if I was bi, but as of this moment I believe it was pretty much just him. As for whether or not sexuality matters, I think it does have an effect on relationships because you are more likely to be happy with someone you're attracted to, but beyond that "incidental" cases cover the rest of the times it might matter.

I loled. How did it take you this long to find this one? It's been up for a while now. I'm also going to put up a poll thread about kissing, since there seems to be a fad about kissing sweeping the site, I might get some good responses.

 

[xochiquetzal]

Female, Bisexual but leans towards men.

 

[Zaverexus]

Being heterosexual is kind of like being Undeclared in a college major.

So, I guess I'm still Undeclared.

I would disagree, unless its something you have never thought about.
My stance on sexuality is the same as mine on religion (though my religious opinions are much more harsh): It's okay not to change your position, so long as you know why you are there and have considered all alternatives.

In religion I am an atheist, having found that, all things considered, that appears the most reasonable position.
In orientation I am heterosexual. I never really questioned it until I met friends who are gay; and after contemplating that and the way I feel about both genders I realized I am still attracted both romantically and sexually to women.
It is not that I see this as the only option; in fact I admit that there are extremely specific circumstances in which I could be attracted to a man, but I consider those circumstances so unlikely as to be negligible and in any case cannot imagine a sexual relationship of this nature; whereas I am very attracted to women.

Nearly any opinion or position is acceptable, so long as you understand why you are there and believe that is best for you.

 

[TheLoneBeet]

I'm a heterosexual male. I've always had a thing for girls (my dirty thoughts attest to that). Guys hitting on me doesn't really bother me though. I politely decline as I would if a girl I didn't find attractive had done the same thing. In my opinion sexuality doesn't really matter, as long as people are willing to accept each other for who they are.